Author

Lister, Elena

Schwartzman, Michael

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin Random house

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover; 275 pages

Subject

Death and Dying

Grief. Bereavement

Suicide

Death and dying-Children

Abstract

Just as death is inevitable, talking about death is an inevitable part of parenting. Drs. Lister and Schwartzman offer us the way to have conversations that are as much about life as they are about death; conversations that anyone who parents, teaches, or counsels children can have. Giving Hope is a must-have resource that expands our understanding of how to prepare for, initiate, and facilitate these personal and profound conversations. The approach is honest, practical, and compassionate, and will benefit a grieving child now and in the future. Giving Hope gives us tools to make our children's experiences positive and life-affirming.

ISBN

9780593419151

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GV 100 LIS 2022

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Author

Wolfelt, Alan D

Publisher

Companion Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 50 pages

Subject

Grief. Bereavement

Death and Dying

Complicated Grief (includes Violent and Sudden Death)

Abstract

We don?t only experience grief after a loss?we often experience it before. If someone we love is seriously ill, or if we?re concerned about upcoming hardships of any kind, we naturally begin to grieve right now. This process of anticipatory grief is normal, but it can also be confusing and painful. Life is change, and change is hard. This book will help see you through.

ISBN

9781617222955

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GV 200 WOL 2020

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URL

http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW693_Caringforyourselfafterthelossofyourbaby.pdf

Corporate Author

Maternal Newborn Program

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

PDF: 20 p.

Subject

Grief. Bereavement

Coping with a Child's Death

Coping with Pain

Coping with Death

Abstract

This booklet provides information on what to expect physically and emotionally as you deal with the immediate stages of grief in the hours, days and weeks after giving birth.

This booklet is a companion to the bcwomens.ca website.

Keywords have been highlighted in each section under 'resources + support' to help you find related information.

Language

English

Material Type

Handout

Online

Call Number

BCW693

Author

Olsher, Sara

Rogers, Jenni

Place of Publication

Happy Valley, OR

Publisher

Mighty and Bright

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 39 pages

Subject

Coping with Chronic Illness in the Family

Abstract

Join Mia and Stewart as they learn how bodies work, why some bodies don't always feel good, and what to do when someone they love has an illness that won't go away.

ISBN

9798986776538

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR EF 860 OLS 2023

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Author

Daynes, Katie

Pim, Christine (ill.)

Place of Publication

London, UK

Publisher

Usborne Publishing

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Board book; [no page numbers]

Series

Usborne first questions and answers

Usborne lift-the-flap

Subject

Death and Dying

Abstract

A beautiful and gentle look at the circle of life, using Christine Pym's gorgeous animals characters to explore the emotions and facts around death, with questions such as Is it ok to talk about dying? What happens when someone dies? Can I shout and cry and hide away? and How can I stop feeling sad? The latest in the wonderful First Questions and Answers series, this title covers an extremely tricky topic in a friendly and approachable way. Uses animal characters in the same way as First Q&A: What are feelings? Fills a very important gap in the market, helping parents and carers to find the words to explain death and dying to young children.

ISBN

9781474979887

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GV 100 DAY 2020

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URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6916234

Author

Sunderland, Margot

Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator)

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

101p.

Series

Helping Children with Feelings

Subject

Children-Coping with Death and Dying

Children's Emotions

Abstract

Helping Children with Loss provides adults with a rich vocabulary for mental states and painful emotions, paving the way for meaningful and healing conversations with children who are struggling with difficult feelings. Practical activities provide opportunities for conversation and will empower the child to find creative and imaginative ways of expressing themselves when words fail.

Key features of this resource include:

- Targeted advice for children who defend against feeling their painful feelings by dissociating from grief

- Tools and strategies for helping children cope with loss, including engaging activities to help children explore their feelings in a non-threatening way

ISBN

9781000538847

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GV 250 SUN 2022

Author

Weaver, Meaghann

Wiener Lori (illustrator)

Place of Publication

Washington, DC

Publisher

Magination Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover ; [30 p.], illustrations

Subject

Death and dying-Children

Abstract

Gerbert the gosling is strong and brave and has fun times with his family and friends but knows that, one day soon, he won't be able to keep up with them anymore. As Gerbert prepares for his final migration, he finds a way to show his flock that he will always be with them. Includes a one-page Note to Readers and an online. Note: with additional information useful for parents, caregivers, grandparents, siblings, and teachers.

ISBN

9781433830235

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GV 100.5 WEA 2020

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Author

Jones, Pia

Pimenta, Sarah

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover; 28 pages

Subject

Death and dying-Children

Abstract

This beautifully illustrated and sensitive storybook is designed to be used therapeutically by professionals and caregivers supporting children with an untreatable illness. With engaging, gentle and colourful illustrations that can be used to prompt conversation, it tells the story of the final journey made by a Boy with a Bear, as the Boy says his goodbyes and comes to terms with his life-ending illness.

ISBN

9780367491208

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GV 100.5 JON 2021

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Author

Toner, Jaqueline B.

McDonnell, Janet [ill.]

Place of Publication

Washington, DC

Publisher

Magination Press

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover; 80 pages

Series

What-to-do guides for kids

Subject

Anxiety. Anxiety Disorders

Abstract

This book tackles children's feelings of anxiety around current events and what is portrayed in the news. Scary news is an inevitable part of life. This book can support and guide efforts to help scary news seem a bit more manageable for young people.

Whether from television news reports, the car radio, digital media, or adult discussions, children are often bombarded with information about the world around them. When the events being described include violence, extreme weather events, a disease outbreak, or discussions of more dispersed threats such as climate change, children may become frightened and overwhelmed. Parents and caregivers can be prepared to help them understand and process the messages around them by using this book.

This book provides a way to help children put scary events into perspective. And, if children start to worry or become anxious about things they've heard, there are ideas to help them calm down and cope. This book also helps children identify reporters' efforts to add excitement to the story which may also make threats seem more imminent, universal, and extreme.

Read and complete the activities with your child to help them to understand the news in context - who, what, where, when, how - as a means of introducing a sense of perspective.

ISBN

9781433836978

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

ELEM CD 420 TON 2021

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Author

Olsher, Sara

Place of Publication

[Santa Rosa, CA]

Publisher

Mighty and Bright

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover; no pagination

Series

A what about me? book - Starring Mia + Stuart

Subject

Children with Cancer-Coping for Siblings

Sibling Relationships

Abstract

Join Mia and her stuffed giraffe Stuart as they explain the science of cancer and how a loved one's diagnosis and treatment affects a kid's day-to-day life.What Happens When My Sibling Has Cancer uses bright and fun illustrations to show how cells can turn into cancer, and helps reduce confusion about how cancer treatment affects the child and their siblings.

Notes

For ages 4 - 10

ISBN

9781736611487

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FE 557 OLS 2021

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Author

Rubel, Barbara

Edition

3rd ed.

Place of Publication

Kendall Park, NJ

Publisher

Griefwork Center, Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover, 220 pages

Subject

Survivors of Suicide

Children and Grief

Grief. Bereavement

Abstract

Tells the story, from the perspective of an eleven-year-old boy, Alex, and his family, as they are rocked by suicide and reeling from the aftermath. Through Alex?s eyes, the reader will see the transformation of feelings after going through a suicide.

New to the third edition, each chapter ends with Alex reflecting 10 years later on his experience, introducing family and friends in his recollections. *Barbara Rubel has combined modern academic theories of grieving and then translated them into a readable story. The revised edition is an evidence-informed and contemporary treatment of a devastating form of loss that uses a hypothetical case study to render it in human terms. Through the story, the reader understands what suicide might be like for a family, how to make meaning in the loss, and ways to experience personal growth. *This self-help book was revised to provide guidance for clinicians (e.g., mental health providers, social workers, psychologists, school counselors, case managers) and families to help suicide loss survivors.

Part 1 offers a basic understanding of suicide postvention, suicide loss survivors, complicated grief, mourning theories, and the impact on clinician survivors. Chapters have been updated, based on mourning models and the latest research.

The chapters in Part 2 build upon one another sequentially, from the day of the suicide to the anniversary. At the end of each chapter, there are follow-up questions to explore in counseling sessions, support groups, therapy sessions, or at home. Also, at the end of each chapter, Alex, at the age of 21, reflects back on how his father?s death has changed his life, wounding him, but also helping him to grow.

ISBN

9781892906045

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GV 155 RUB 2020

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Author

Nimmo, Stephanie

Place of Publication

London, UK

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2024

Physical Description

Softcover; 272 pages

Subject

Coping with Chronic Illness-Children

Caregivers-Coping

Caregivers for a Dying Loved One

Abstract

Every parent wants the same thing: for their child to enjoy a long and fulfilling life. But what happens when things don't go according to plan? What happens when parents have to become advocates for their child's healthcare needs? Who decides what is in a child's 'best interests'?

Stephanie Nimmo faced these questions first-hand when her daughter, Daisy, was diagnosed with a life-limiting condition as a baby. Seen through the lens of Stephanie's own experiences, this sensitive book delves into the complex world of medical ethics and pediatric palliative care. From recognizing tipping points to the importance of building relationships with palliative care teams well before crisis, this book explores how medical professionals can better support families throughout their child's care.

Interviews with clinicians and snapshots from the lives of patients' families provide insight into the realities of life on both sides of the hospital bed. Compassionate explanations of the conflicting pressures in the hospital system foster understanding and help medical professionals and families work together.

ISBN

5727227010272

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

EF 850.5 NIM 2024

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URL

http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/CW020_AutopsyInformationforParents.pdf

Corporate Author

BC Children's and BC Women's Hospital + Health Centre

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

BC Children's and BC Women's Hospital + Health Centre

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

PDF, 4 p.

Subject

Death and Dying

Autopsy

Notes

CW020

Language

English

Material Type

Online

Handout

Call Number

CW020

Author

Trickey, David

Ferrari, Beck

Clark-Tate, Olivia

Place of Publication

Great Britain

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2024

Physical Description

Softcover; 171 pages

Subject

Grief. Bereavement

Abstract

Grief can be complicated and painful. Our memories, relationships, good times, and worries are unique. No two people will experience grief in the same way.

But there are networks for understanding our reactions when someone dies. This book will help make sense of grief, why you feel the way you do, and how you can cope. Experiences from other young people who have been through grief show how the ideas could work in real life and help you understand your own story.

ISBN

9781839970696

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH GV 200 TRI 2024

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Author

Dyregrov, Atle

Lytje, Martin

Place of Publication

London, UK

Philadelphia, PA

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2024

Physical Description

Softcover, 240 pages

Subject

Grief. Bereavement

Abstract

Bereavement is undeniably one of the most challenging experiences a child can face. It is crucial for individuals caring for such children to be well-informed about how to provide the best support. This comprehensive guide on children's grief is designed for teachers, educators, psychologists, and family members, and aims to equip them with essential knowledge about how to support the child and family through this experience.

The authors delve into various aspects of grief reactions and processes in children, offering insights into bereavement in different settings, including home and school. The guide also explores therapy options, the impact on development and relationships, and the lasting effects that extend beyond childhood.

Drawing from scientific research, clinical experience, and the voices of bereaved children through stories and quotes, this guide provides practical and concrete advice for those dedicated to supporting children's grief. It serves as an invaluable resource for understanding and aiding children in their journey through loss.

ISBN

9781805011699

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GV 200 DYR 2024

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Author

Boivin, Lisa

Place of Publication

Winnipeg, MB

Publisher

HighWater Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover; Non-paginated

Subject

Grief.Bereavement

Coping with Death

Indigenous

Cremation

Abstract

When the author learns of the death of her brother overseas, she embarks on a journey to bring him home. Through memories and dreams of all they shared together, she follows Dene teachings to find comfort and strength. The lyrical art and story leave readers with a universal message of hope and love.

ISBN

9781553798552

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH GV 200 BOI 2020

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URL

http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW411_AfterYourVaginalBirth.pdf

Corporate Author

Physiotherapy Department

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

BC Women's Hospital + Health Centre

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

PDF; 2 pages

Subject

Postnatal Care

Pregnancy/Childbirth

Abstract

Learn how to help your healing after a vaginal birth. This handout describes abdominal and pelvic floor exercises you can do, starting immediately after birth. Also lists dates and times for the BC Women's postpartum physiotherapy class.

Notes

BCW 411

Language

English

Material Type

Handout

Online

Author

Sileo, Frank J.

Potter, Carol S.

Place of Publication

Washington, DC

Publisher

American Psychological Association

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover; 419 pages

Subject

Coping with Chronic Illness-Children

Coping with Chronic Illness in the Family

Coping with Chronic Illness-Young Adult

Abstract

Written by leading mental health professionals, this warm and accessible parenting book for children with chronic illnesses offers clear, practical guidance for all aspects of the journey. It is recommended by professionals at the American Diabetes Association, Invisible Disabilities Association, the Crohn's Colitis Foundation, and other expert national and regional sources.

For all its joys, parenting is a complex job, and when your child has a chronic illness, the stress can feel overwhelming. When your child is diagnosed, you begin a parenting journey filled with strong emotions, difficult choices, confusing words, and interactions with numerous professionals and specialists.

You're focused on ensuring your child gets the best possible treatments for their symptoms, so it's easy to overlook or dismiss the impact the illness can have on your relationships and emotions. This book places your psychological well-being front and center, so you can be the best caregiver possible for your child.

Along with suggestions for making laughter and mindfulness part of your daily self-care routine, it offers guidance for choosing the right therapist for your family, should extra support be needed. Every family's journey with chronic illness is unique, but you don't have to go it alone.

ISBN

9781433833816

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

EF 850.5 SIL 2021

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Author

Boivin, Lisa

Place of Publication

Winnipeg, MB

Publisher

HighWater Press

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Hardcover; Non-paginated

Subject

Grief.Bereavement

Children's Emotions

Coping with Death

Indigenous

Abstract

From Dene artist and bioethicist Lisa Boivin comes this healing story of hope, dreams, and the special bond between grandfather and granddaughter. When a little girl dreams about a bear, her grandfather explains how we connect with the knowledge of our ancestors through dreams. Bear, Hawk, Caribou, and Wolf all have teachings to share to help us live a good life. But when Grampa gets sick and falls into a coma, the little girl must lean on his teachings as she learns to say goodbye. Masterful prose and stunning collage weave a gentle story about life and death that will touch the hearts of children and adults alike.

Recommended for children aged 6-8.

ISBN

9781553799870

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GV 200 BOI 2021

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Alternate Title

Ollie the octopus : Loss and bereavement activity book

Author

Triesman, Karen

Peacock, Sarah [ill.]

Place of Publication

London, UK and Philadelphia, PA

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

softcover; 251 pages

Subject

Coping with Death

Grief.Bereavement

Abstract

In a magical underwater forest lived a colourful and loveable Octopus called Ollie, who loved swimming with his friends and spending time with his mum and dad, Orla and Orson the Octopuses.

Until one day, Orla started to get very sick. The doctors did everything they could to help her, but very sadly, Orla died. Ollie had so many thoughts and feelings spinning around in his head, and his heart was hurting.

This activity book has been developed by expert child Psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Karen Treisman. The first part of the book is a colourful illustrated therapeutic story about Ollie the Octopus, with a focus on Ollie making sense of and processing the loss of his mum, Orla. This is followed by a wealth of creative activities and colourful photocopiable worksheets for children and the people supporting them to explore aspects of loss, grief, death, and bereavement, and how to find ways to understand and cope with them.

The final section of the book is full of advice and practical strategies for parents, carers, and professionals on how to help children aged 5-10 to begin to understand the complex and multi-layered feelings surrounding loss and bereavement, and what they can do to help navigate them through their grief journey.

ISBN

9781787757660

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GV 250 TRE 2021

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