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What to say to kids when nothing seems to work: A practical guide for parents and caregivers

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Lafrance, Adele, Miller, Ashley, Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]. New York, NY: Routledge Taylor & Francis Group , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 LAF 2020
Availability
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What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to e…
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Author
Lafrance, Adele
Miller, Ashley
Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Routledge Taylor & Francis Group
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
259 p.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.
With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.
Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.
ISBN
9781138344631
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 LAF 2020

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The tech solution : Creating healthy habits for kids growing up in a digital world: Includes a 6-step plan for success

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Kang, Shimi K. Toronto, ON: Viking Penguin Inc. , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2020
Availability
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The Tech Solution is a to-the-point resource for parents and educators who want the best approach for raising kids in our digital world. It outlines all you need to know about the short-term and potential long-term consequences of tech use. Dr. Kang simplifies cutting edge neuroscience to reveal a …
Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
Toronto, ON
Publisher
Viking Penguin Inc.
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
320 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
The Tech Solution is a to-the-point resource for parents and educators who want the best approach for raising kids in our digital world. It outlines all you need to know about the short-term and potential long-term consequences of tech use. Dr. Kang simplifies cutting edge neuroscience to reveal a new understanding around how we metabolize experiences with technology that will lay the foundation for lasting success. On top of that, she offers practical advice for tackling specific concerns in the classroom or at home, whether it's possible tech addiction, anxiety, cyberbullying, or loneliness. With her 6-week 6-step plan for rebalancing your family's tech diet, Dr. Kang will help your child build healthy habits and make smart choices that will maximize the benefits of tech and minimize its risks.
ISBN
9780735239548
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2020

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Show me what my friends can see: A developmental guide for parents of babies with severely impaired sight and their professional advisors

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Sonksen, Patricia, Stiff, Blanche. London, UK: Institute of Child Health , 1991.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
FH 300 SON 1991
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A book aimed at helping parents of visually impaired babies by providing activities and play ideas.
Author
Sonksen, Patricia
Stiff, Blanche
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Institute of Child Health
Publication Date
1991
Physical Description
Paperback, 64 p.
Subject
Vision/Vision Disorders. Visual Impairments
Child Development
Blindness
Blindness-Coping
Parenting Children with Disabilities
Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities
Abstract
A book aimed at helping parents of visually impaired babies by providing activities and play ideas.
ISBN
095175260
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
FH 300 SON 1991

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Dolphin parent: A guide to raising healthy, happy, and self-motivated kids

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Kang, Shimi K. New York, NY: Penguin , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Penguin
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Softcover, 352 p.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
ISBN
9780143188865
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015

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Dolphin parent: A guide to raising healthy, happy, and self-motivated kids

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Kang, Shimi K. New York, NY: Penguin , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015b
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Penguin
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Softcover, 280 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
ISBN
9787309099058
Language
English
Chinese
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015b

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High School Hacks: A No-nonsense Guide to High School, for Kids on the Autism Spectrum/A Collection of Short, to the Point Truth Bombs, Useful for Both Students and Teachers

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O Connor, Joanne. Shawnee, KS: AAPC Publishing , 2022.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH FM 272 OCO 2022
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
'What people are too polite to tell you, but you need to know!'; The High School Hacks series are handbooks with a sense of humor.; This series was created for autistic students and aimed to clearly explain high school's often mysterious and confusing world. To help students navigate the tricky tee…
Author
O Connor, Joanne
Place of Publication
Shawnee, KS
Publisher
AAPC Publishing
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
Softcover; 102 pages
Subject
Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)
Abstract
'What people are too polite to tell you, but you need to know!'
The High School Hacks series are handbooks with a sense of humor.
This series was created for autistic students and aimed to clearly explain high school's often mysterious and confusing world. To help students navigate the tricky teenage years, addressing many topics from preparing for high school and making friends to dealing with the demands of everyday school life.
Teachers, parents, and caregivers can benefit from these guides to better understand their young people's challenges.
High School Hacks is for students aged 11-14 and tackles many different topics, including:
Preparing for High School
Making Friends
Getting to know yourself
Dealing with confrontation in the classroom
Daily Grooming
Social expectations
Handling questions and honesty
Working together
High School Hacks has plenty of information for teachers, including ideas on supporting your students and an abundance of editable templates.
ISBN
9781956110043
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH FM 272 OCO 2022

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The dolphin way: A parent's guide to raising healthy, happy, and motivated kids without turning into a tiger

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Kang, Shimi K. [Toronto, ON]: Penguin Random house , 2014.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2014
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral res…
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Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Penguin Random house
Publication Date
2014
Physical Description
Hardcover: 316 p.
Subject
Parenting
Social Behaviour
Social Skills
Abstract
In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research, Dr. Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, joyful, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success.
ISBN
9780670067565
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Status
Processing
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2014

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Balancing our minds: Inspiring action and creating change for mental health : A toolkit for youth, by youth

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BC Children's Hospital. Vancouver, BC:
URL
https://balancingourminds.ca/
Material Type
Website
Online
The Balancing our Minds Inspiring Action Toolkit aims to support youth wanting to make changes for improved mental health and well-being in their schools and communities. By advocating for change, youth can help create connections and supportive, healthy environments.; Topics to explore:; - How to …
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URL
https://balancingourminds.ca/
Alternate Title
Balancing our minds inspiring action toolkit
Corporate Author
BC Children's Hospital
Place of Publication
Vancouver, BC
Subject
Mental Health
Mental Disorders-Coping
Mental Disorders-Directories. Resource Guides
Abstract
The Balancing our Minds Inspiring Action Toolkit aims to support youth wanting to make changes for improved mental health and well-being in their schools and communities. By advocating for change, youth can help create connections and supportive, healthy environments.
Topics to explore:
- How to start advocating for change for mental well-being
- How to create a safe space
- How to inspire change through storytelling
- How to start a mental health event, club or initiative
- How to start the conversation about mental health
Includes links to additional resources.
Language
English
Material Type
Website
Online
URLs
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Nowmaps: A tween's guide to learning about your thoughts, navigating big emotions, and being a confident kid

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Siegel, Daniel J., Margolin, Deena. Eau Claire, WI: PESI Publishing , 2022.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GL 320 SIE 2022
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Written by world-renowned neuropsychiatrist Dr. Dan Siegel, and Deena Margolin, LMFT, co-founder of the popular online community Big Little Feelings, NowMaps is a one-of-a-kind adventure that introduces the neuroscience of social-emotional learning in a fun, interactive way!; Using four easy-to-rem…
Alternate Title
NowMaps
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Margolin, Deena
Place of Publication
Eau Claire, WI
Publisher
PESI Publishing
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
Softcover, 233 pages
Subject
Emotions
Mindfulness
Abstract
Written by world-renowned neuropsychiatrist Dr. Dan Siegel, and Deena Margolin, LMFT, co-founder of the popular online community Big Little Feelings, NowMaps is a one-of-a-kind adventure that introduces the neuroscience of social-emotional learning in a fun, interactive way!
Using four easy-to-remember tools - a pause button, a focus flashlight, an OK monitor, and a compass - tweens will learn how to create a NowMap, a snapshot of their present-moment experience, so they can navigate all of life's moments with confidence and kindness. A NowMap shows tweens where they are right now so they can decide where they want to go next.
ISBN
9921683735298
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GL 320 SIE 2022

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This is a book for parents of gay kids: A question & answer guide to everyday life

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Owens-Reid, Dannielle, Russo, Kristin. San Francisco, CA: Chronicle Books
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GA 600 OWE 2014
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical to…
Author
Owens-Reid, Dannielle
Russo, Kristin
Place of Publication
San Francisco, CA
Publisher
Chronicle Books
Physical Description
Paperback: 240 pages
Subject
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues
Children's Self-Identity
LGBT
Parenting
Young Adults Sexuality
Abstract
Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical topics. Filled with real-life experiences from gay kids and parents, this is the book gay kids want their parents to read.
ISBN
9781452127538
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GA 600 OWE 2014

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Kids cooking: Students prepare and eat foods from around the world

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Ancona, George. Somerville, MA: Candlewick Press , 2018.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR BB 130 ANC 2018
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Roll up your sleeves, wash your hands, and join four different groups of kids as they prepare recipes from all over the world, step by step. George Ancona's photographs record every crumb of effort as the children make their way around the kitchen, chopping, measuring, rolling, mixing, and learning…
Author
Ancona, George
Place of Publication
Somerville, MA
Publisher
Candlewick Press
Publication Date
2018
Physical Description
Hardcover; 32 pages
Subject
Food Preparation. Food Processing
Food
Abstract
Roll up your sleeves, wash your hands, and join four different groups of kids as they prepare recipes from all over the world, step by step. George Ancona's photographs record every crumb of effort as the children make their way around the kitchen, chopping, measuring, rolling, mixing, and learning about the food they're eager to eat. The end result? Roasted vegetables from Morocco, fried rice from China, minestrone from Italy, and salsa from Mexico, filling the kids' bowls and plates and tantalizing readers who may be inspired to cook up something savory of their own.
Part of the Live-5-2-1-0 collection.
ISBN
9780763698768
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR BB 130 ANC 2018

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How to talk so little kids will listen : A survival guide to life with children ages 2-7

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Faber, Joanna, King, Julie. New York, NY: Scribner , 2017.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2017
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, ta…
Author
Faber, Joanna
King, Julie
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2017
Physical Description
Softcover: 409 p.
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Language/Communication
Abstract
For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk's powerful communication skills to parents of children ages two to seven.
Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents, teachers, and pediatricians. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and observations from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the children in your life.
What do you do with a little kid who won't brush her teeth?screams in his car seat?pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables?throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized by common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.
This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old.
ISBN
9781501131639
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2017

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Brain-body parenting : How to stop managing behavior and start raising joyful, resilient kids

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Delahooke, Mona. New York, NY: Harper Wave , 2022. First edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 DEL 2022
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the es…
Author
Delahooke, Mona
Edition
First edition
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Harper Wave
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
Hardcover : 343 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.
When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.
When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.
ISBN
9780063061316
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 DEL 2022

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Social anxiety relief for teens: A step-by-step CBT guide to feel confident and comfortable in any situation

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Walker, Bridget Flynn. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books , 2021.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH CD 420 WAL 2021
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Social Anxiety Relief for Teens offers a simple, five-step cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) program to help you stop your fears and worries from getting the best of you. You'll learn to recognize your triggers and identify the unhelpful behaviors you use to try to cope with or avoid them now. The…
Author
Walker, Bridget Flynn
Place of Publication
Oakland, CA
Publisher
Instant Help Books
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Paperback; [192p.]
Subject
Anxiety
Young Adults-Self-Help
Young Adults-Emotions
Abstract
Social Anxiety Relief for Teens offers a simple, five-step cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) program to help you stop your fears and worries from getting the best of you. You'll learn to recognize your triggers and identify the unhelpful behaviors you use to try to cope with or avoid them now. Then you'll discover ways to slowly and gently challenge yourself to face anxiety-inducing situations, until you gradually increase your comfort levels. Finally, you'll develop the skills you need to build on your progress and work toward mastering your anxiety.
ISBN
9781684037056
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH CD 420 WAL 2021

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The Incredible Years: A Troubleshooting Guide for Parents of Children Aged 3-8 Years

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Webster-Stratton, Carolyn. United States: The Incredible Years, Inc. , 2019. 3rd edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 WEB 2019
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
The 3rd edition of this book for parents has been revised to include new and expanded chapters on coaching (academic, persistence, social and emotion coaching), plus new chapters on social media, screen time, and promoting a healthy lifestyle. This is an amazing book that covers research-based pare…
Author
Webster-Stratton, Carolyn
Edition
3rd edition
Place of Publication
United States
Publisher
The Incredible Years, Inc.
Publication Date
2019
Physical Description
Softcover; 480 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
The 3rd edition of this book for parents has been revised to include new and expanded chapters on coaching (academic, persistence, social and emotion coaching), plus new chapters on social media, screen time, and promoting a healthy lifestyle. This is an amazing book that covers research-based parenting strategies for all families. Positive discipline techniques are described in detail illustrated with true-to-life examples to help parents prevent behavior problems and promote their children?s social and emotional competence.
ISBN
9780578434513
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 WEB 2019

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No regrets parenting: Turning long days and short years into cherished moments with your kids

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Rotbart, Harley A. Kansas City, Missouri: Andrews McMeel Publishing , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 ROT 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Each exhausting day with young kids can feel like it will never end, yet the years streak by at warp speed. No Regrets Parenting is about time with your kids - finding enough of it and making the most of it. It blends parenting philosophy with practical applications to promote special, everyday mom…
Author
Rotbart, Harley A.
Place of Publication
Kansas City, Missouri
Publisher
Andrews McMeel Publishing
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Paperback: 202 p.
Subject
Parenting
Child Behaviour
Abstract
Each exhausting day with young kids can feel like it will never end, yet the years streak by at warp speed. No Regrets Parenting is about time with your kids - finding enough of it and making the most of it. It blends parenting philosophy with practical applications to promote special, everyday moments with your kids.
ISBN
9781449410940
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 ROT 2012

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The power of showing up: How parental presence shapes who our kids become and how their brains get wired

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Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. New York: Ballantine Books , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2020
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distraction…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Place of Publication
New York
Publisher
Ballantine Books
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
Softcover; 238 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.
But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.
Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:
- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.
- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.
- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.
- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!
Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape
ISBN
9781524797737
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2020

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Bowers, Lydia, Muñoz, Isabel [ill.]. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing Inc. , 2022.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR CF 110 BOW 2022 b
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
We Can Say No follows Zakiya and Sami as they learn that their bodies, including their hair, belong to them and that no one should touch them without permission. Using the book as a read-aloud, educators and families can model the language Zakiya and Sami's teacher uses to support them. The author,…
Author
Bowers, Lydia
Muñoz, Isabel [ill.]
Place of Publication
Minneapolis, MN
Publisher
Free Spirit Publishing Inc.
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
Hardcover; [np.]
Series
We say what's okay
Subject
Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)
Abstract
We Can Say No follows Zakiya and Sami as they learn that their bodies, including their hair, belong to them and that no one should touch them without permission. Using the book as a read-aloud, educators and families can model the language Zakiya and Sami's teacher uses to support them. The author, who hosts workshops and trainings on teaching boundaries and consent for families and early childhood educators around the country, offers additional activities in the back of the book.
ISBN
9781631987120
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR CF 110 BOW 2022 b

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Hold on to your kids: Why parents need to matter more than peers

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Neufeld, Gordon, Mate, Gabor. [Toronto, ON]: Random House , 2013.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEU 2013
Availability
2 copies, 1 available
In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advic…
Author
Neufeld, Gordon
Mate, Gabor
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Random House
Publication Date
2013
Physical Description
Softcover: 314 p.
Subject
Parenting
Peer Relationships. Peer Pressure
Abstract
In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advice offers parents the ability to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.
ISBN
9780307361967
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEU 2013

Copies

Copy 2 BC Children's and Women's Family Library On Loan, due Tuesday, May 21, 2024
Copy 1 BC Children's and Women's Family Library Available
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How to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk

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Faber, Adele, Mazlish, Elaine. New York, NY: Scribner , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:; · Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, …
Author
Faber, Adele
Mazlish, Elaine
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Softcover: 332 p.
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Language/Communication
Abstract
This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:
· Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment
· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful
· Engage your child's willing cooperation
· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill
· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline
· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise
· Resolve family conflicts peacefully
ISBN
9781451663884
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2012

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