Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Softcover: 332 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:

· Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment

· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful

· Engage your child's willing cooperation

· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill

· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline

· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise

· Resolve family conflicts peacefully

ISBN

9781451663884

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2012

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Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 409 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk's powerful communication skills to parents of children ages two to seven.

Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents, teachers, and pediatricians. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and observations from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the children in your life.

What do you do with a little kid who won't brush her teeth?screams in his car seat?pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables?throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized by common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.

This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old.

ISBN

9781501131639

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2017

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Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

HarperCollins Publishers

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Paperback: 196 p.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Language/Communication

Abstract

This down-to-earth guide provides parents with an approach for maintaining a candid, open, mutually respectful dialogue with their teens. They cover how to: listen and respond helpfully to your teenager's concerns; express your irritation or anger without being hurtful; take action without punishing; encourage your teen to assume responsibility; work out problems together; and talk about sex and drugs without preaching or alienating.

ISBN

9780060741266

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 FAB 2005

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Author

Pepper, Jan

Weitzman, Elaine

Edition

5th ed.

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

The Hanen Centre

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Paperback, 171 p.

Subject

Language/Communication

Child Development

Abstract

The It Takes Two to Talk Program is designed specifically for parents of young children (birth to 5 years of age) who have been identified as having a language delay. In a small, personalized group setting, parents learn practical strategies to help their children learn language naturally throughout their day together.

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The It Takes Two to Talk Program teaches you, step-by-step, how to become your child?s most important language teacher. The program shows you how to:

-Recognize your child?s stage and style of communication so that you know which steps to take next

-Identify what motivates your child to interact with you so you?ll know how to get conversations started

-Adjust everyday routines to help your child take turns and keep interactions going

-Follow your child?s lead to build his confidence and encourage him to communicate

-Add language to interactions with your child to help him understand language and then use it when he is ready

-Tweak the way you play and read books with your child to help him learn language

-Change the way you speak to your child so that he?ll understand and learn new words

ISBN

9780921145523

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FM 235 WEI 2017

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Alternate Title

Congrats your're having a teen

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth R.

Place of Publication

Itasca, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 336 pages

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Abstract

Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!

The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.

ISBN

9781610025980

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 GIN 2023

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Author

Phelan, Thomas W.

Place of Publication

Glen Ellyn, IL

Publisher

ParentMagic, Inc.

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

1 DVD: 130 min.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

This DVD features: What is normal adolescent behavior; How to manage teenage risk-taking; Exactly what problems require your "letting go";

The Four Cardinal Sins (What not to do); The relationship between parent/teen communication and safety;

The five ways to improve your relationship; What role to take: Observer, Advisor, Negotiator, Director; How to respond to emotional blackmail; From fashion to passion: Guidelines to specific problems

ISBN

1889140198

Language

English

Material Type

Video

Call Number

GL 450 PHE 2004

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Alternate Title

Howard B Wigglebottom learns to listen

Author

Binklow, Howard

Reverend Ana

Cornelison, Susan F. [ill.]

Publisher

Inner Peace Enterprises

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

31 p.

Subject

Language/Communication

Abstract

Want to listen better? It will help you stay safe, in less trouble and learn more. Listening and paying attention are different and mean more than do as we are told.

Includes discussion questions

For ages 4-7

ISBN

9780971539013

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 235 BIN 2020

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Author

Neufeld, Gordon

Mate, Gabor

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Random House

Publication Date

2013

Physical Description

Softcover: 314 p.

Subject

Parenting

Peer Relationships. Peer Pressure

Abstract

In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advice offers parents the ability to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.

ISBN

9780307361967

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEU 2013

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Author

Nihn, Mary

Stupar, Jelena

Publisher

Grow Grit Press

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

[n.p.]

Subject

Language/Communication

Abstract

In this comedic book, Listening Ninja learns how to listen with ears and eyes.

Life is hard! And it's even harder for children who are just trying to figure things out.

The new children's book series, Ninja Life Hacks, was developed to help children learn valuable life skills. Fun, pint-size characters in comedic books easy enough for young readers, yet witty enough for adults.

For ages 3-7

ISBN

9781637311127

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 235 NHI 2021

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Author

Tabors, Patton O.

Edition

2nd

Place of Publication

Baltimore, MD

Publisher

Paul H Brookes Publishing Company

Publication Date

2008

Physical Description

255 pages

Subject

Language/Communication

Abstract

This research-based book provides tools to meet the needs of second language learners. Topics include:

Understanding the process of learning a second-language

Using current research

Using assessment techniques for children's first and second language

Improving literacy instruction

The book includes a CD ROM with checklists and discussion guides for group learning.

ISBN

9781557669216

Language

English

Material Type

CD ROM

Book

Call Number

FM 235 TAB 2008

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Author

Lafrance, Adele

Miller, Ashley

Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge Taylor & Francis Group

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

259 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.

With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.

Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.

ISBN

9781138344631

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 LAF 2020

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Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

Copies

Author

Delahooke, Mona

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper Wave

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover : 343 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.

When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.

When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

ISBN

9780063061316

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 DEL 2022

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Author

Sautter, Elizabeth

Wilson, Kristen

Hutchison, Eric (ill.)

Place of Publication

San Jose, CA

Publisher

Socialthinking.com

Publication Date

2011

Physical Description

Softcover: 28 p.

Subject

Language/Communication

Developmental Disability

Abstract

In this charming comic book, told in poem, the authors, Sautter and Wilson explore how two siblings, Leah and Luka struggle to focus their brains and bodies during the school day. Kindly, a peer mentor helps to explain to these students how they need to use their eyes, hands, feet, heart, brain, etc. to listen in group environments to not only access the information but to work as part of a group.

ISBN

9780982523186

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 850 SAU 2011

Copies

Author

Sautter, Elizabeth

Wilson, Kristen

Hutchison, Eric [illustrator]

Place of Publication

San Jose, CA

Publisher

Social Thinking

Publication Date

2011

Physical Description

Softcover; illustrated; 26 pages

Subject

Language/Communication

Developmental Disability

Abstract

Being a good listener means much more than just hearing what is said with the ears. It is important to break down ALL of the components of listening, to teach your kids to listen with their eyes, hands, feet, brains, hearts - indeed their whole bodies!

Designed to stimulate discussions at home and at school about how we listen as a member of our family and in groups, Whole Body Listening Larry at Home teaches children with fun lessons wonderfully illustrated to bring the concepts to life.

This book can [be] read with ALL younger students by parents, teachers, etc. The book can be read with the child and the child can then read the book on his or her own, with siblings, friends, grandparents. Developed from years of using Whole Body Listening Larry to teach children in their practice, speech language pathologists Kristen Wilson and Elizabeth Sautter worked with illustrator Eric Hutchison to make their best lessons work for even the wiggliest child!

ISBN

9780982523179

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 850 WIL 2011

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Author

Steffens, David C.

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2011

Physical Description

Hardcover: 43 pages.

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Notes

Reading grade level 3.

Interest level ages 8 to Adult.

Generously donated by the Sunny Hill Auxiliary, 2013.

ISBN

9781575423654

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 272 STE 2011

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Author

Rotbart, Harley A.

Place of Publication

Kansas City, Missouri

Publisher

Andrews McMeel Publishing

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Paperback: 202 p.

Subject

Parenting

Child Behaviour

Abstract

Each exhausting day with young kids can feel like it will never end, yet the years streak by at warp speed. No Regrets Parenting is about time with your kids - finding enough of it and making the most of it. It blends parenting philosophy with practical applications to promote special, everyday moments with your kids.

ISBN

9781449410940

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 ROT 2012

Copies

Author

Gardner, Debbie

Gardner, Mike

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

McGraw-Hill

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

Paperback; viii, 183 p.

Subject

Parenting

Child Development

Self Defense Training

Abstract

Shows how to teach kids to protect themselves when parents aren't there to take care of them. Includes age-appropriate methods for overcoming fear, reducing vulnerability, and building self-protection instincts; courage coaching as a way to create a "family" defense system; life-saving skills, such as quality eye contact, voice control, breathing, control of inappropriate crying, development of positive self-talk, and space awareness.

Notes

Reviewed by BCCH/BCW Health Professional on 2013.

ISBN

0071437983

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 GAR 2004

Copies

Author

Garcia Winner, Michelle

Crooke, Pamela

Ebbeler, Jeff [ill.]

Edition

2nd

Place of Publication

San Jose, CA

Publisher

Think Social Publishing, Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover book: ill., xi, 57 p.

Series

Superflex

Subject

Child Behaviour

Speech. Speech Development.

Speech-Children

Autism

Relationship Conflict

Relationships

Social Skills

Abstract

The social world is a big, complicated place that requires us to constantly figure out hidden rules in situations to help us make sense of how we are all interpreting and responding to each other?s actions and reactions. This book teaches students how to recognize and develop social skills. Every one of us is a Social Detective. We are good Social Detectives when we use our eyes, ears, and brains to figure out what others are planning to do next or are presently doing and what they mean by their words and deeds. This extensively expanded and revised 2nd edition provides all-new illustrations that reflect a broader range of inclusion and diversity in characters, a structured approach to observation, and new and updated lessons which include practice for readers as they learn to become social detectives?a skill set that can then be used everywhere they go, whether it?s at home, school, or within the community. Interventionists will find specific teaching tips and an expanded glossary of Social Thinking Vocabulary and concepts to guide young readers in exploring tools to help them make smart guesses to ultimately figure out the social emotional chain reaction. Enjoy watching your students and own children blossom day-by-day into successful Social Detectives!

Notes

For parents and professionals. Age 5-10.

ISBN

9781936943555

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 850 WIN 2020

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Author

Nelsen, Jane

Tamborski, Mary Nelsen

Ainge, Brad

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harmony Books

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

Softcover. 365 pages.

Subject

Parenting

Child Development

Abstract

Using these 49 Positive Discipline tools, honed and perfected after years of real-world research and feedback, you'll be able to work with your children instead of against them. The goal isn't perfection but providing you with the techniques you need to help your children develop the life and social skills you hope for them, such as respect for self and others, problem-solving ability, and self-regulation.

The tenets of Positive Discipline consistently foster mutual respect so that any child - from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager - can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline without losing his or her dignity. In this new parenting guidebook, you'll find day-to-day exercises for parents to improve their parenting skills, along with success stories from parents worldwide who have benefited from the Positive Discipline philosophy. With training tools and personal examples from the authors, you will learn:

· The 'hidden belief' behind a child's misbehavior, and how to respond accordingly

· The best way to focus on solutions instead of dwelling on the negative

· How to encourage your child without pampering or praising

· How to teach your child to make mistakes and follow through on agreements

· How to foster creative thinking

ISBN

9781101905340

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEL 2016

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