Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

Alternate Title

Zero to sixty

Author

Tompkins, Michael A.

Douglass, Chloe (ill.)

Publisher

Magination Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

288 p.

Subject

Emotions

Young Adults-Mental Health.Psychology

Anger

Abstract

High performance cars can go from zero to sixty in just a few seconds. Anger can feel a lot like that for teens. One minute they are calm, but the next, something sets them on a course to speed out of control. Getting to anger's edge too fast can get teens in trouble. Expert author Michael Tompkins offers tips and tricks to help stall anger and leave it by the side of the road. Teens will learn how to calm their body, derail thoughts that fuel anger and learn how to communicate and de-escalate situations.

ISBN

9781433832475

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH GL 320 TOM 2020

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Author

Garcia Winner, Michelle

Crooke, Pamela

Ebbeler, Jeff [ill.]

Edition

2nd

Place of Publication

San Jose, CA

Publisher

Think Social Publishing, Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover book: ill., xi, 57 p.

Series

Superflex

Subject

Child Behaviour

Speech. Speech Development.

Speech-Children

Autism

Relationship Conflict

Relationships

Social Skills

Abstract

The social world is a big, complicated place that requires us to constantly figure out hidden rules in situations to help us make sense of how we are all interpreting and responding to each other?s actions and reactions. This book teaches students how to recognize and develop social skills. Every one of us is a Social Detective. We are good Social Detectives when we use our eyes, ears, and brains to figure out what others are planning to do next or are presently doing and what they mean by their words and deeds. This extensively expanded and revised 2nd edition provides all-new illustrations that reflect a broader range of inclusion and diversity in characters, a structured approach to observation, and new and updated lessons which include practice for readers as they learn to become social detectives?a skill set that can then be used everywhere they go, whether it?s at home, school, or within the community. Interventionists will find specific teaching tips and an expanded glossary of Social Thinking Vocabulary and concepts to guide young readers in exploring tools to help them make smart guesses to ultimately figure out the social emotional chain reaction. Enjoy watching your students and own children blossom day-by-day into successful Social Detectives!

Notes

For parents and professionals. Age 5-10.

ISBN

9781936943555

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 850 WIN 2020

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Author

LaVigne, Melissa

Freitas, Irene [illustrator]

Place of Publication

Emeryville, CA

Publisher

Rockridge Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover. 176 pages.

Subject

Play Therapy

Parenting

Abstract

Harness the power of play--101 creative ways for you and your child to bond, have fun, and so much more!

What's the best way for children to relate to the world around them? Play! In this book, you'll find a collection of joyful activities that allow parents of children ages 3 to 9 to unlock the therapeutic benefits of play.

From strengthening your bond to decreasing their screen dependency, Play Therapy Activities offers a variety of simple exercises that can help improve your child's behavior, impulse control, self-awareness, and more. New to the idea of play therapy? This parent-friendly guide offers a comprehensive overview of the practice, as well as advice for making sure you and your child get the most out of your experiences together.

Play Therapy Activities provides:

. Open the play therapy toolbox; Discover how you can help your child hone certain skills and behaviors with arts and crafts, relaxation and breathing activities, and more.

. 101 Fun activities; Whether it's dancing, creating stories, or playing outside, discover on- and off-the-page activities (and tips!) for any number of occasions and moods.

. Play therapy revealed; Find out how and why play therapy is so effective, as well as the ways in which these activities can supplement actual play therapy.

. Bring fun and skill-building games home with Play Therapy Activities.

Notes

For children ages 3-9.

ISBN

9781647391263

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CC 355 LAV 2020

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Author

Gratton, Finn V.

Place of Publication

London, UK

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

softcover; 239 pages

Subject

Gender Reassignment

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues

Young Adults Sexuality

Abstract

Providing advice on how professionals working with autistic trans youth and adults can tailor their practice to best serve their clients and how parents can support their trans autistic children, this book increases awareness of the large overlap between trans identities and autism.

By including chapters on gender diversity basics, neuroqueer trauma and how to support neuroqueer individuals, this book sets out strategies for creating more effective support that takes into account the unique experiences of trans people on the spectrum. Written by a therapist who identifies as neuroqueer, this book is the perfect companion for professionals who want to increase their knowledge of the experiences and needs of their trans autistic clients.

ISBN

9781785928031

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 716 GRA 2020

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Author

Hasson, Gill

Jennings, Sarah [ill.]

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover; illustrated; 30 pages

Series

Kids Can Cope

Subject

Anxiety. Anxiety Disorders

Abstract

All children feel afraid at times, from being afraid of the dark, to monsters, to things that might happen, and need manageable, step-by-step strategies for coping with their fears. This book reassures children that everyone feels scared sometimes and that being afraid is not silly. Kids will learn that they can face their fears in a number of ways

ISBN

9781631985294

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CD 420 HAS 2020

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Author

Garnett, Michelle

Attwood, Tony

Ford, Louise

Runham, Stefanie

Cook, Julia

Place of Publication

London, Eng.

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 96 pages

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Anxiety. Anxiety Disorders

Abstract

This activity book is a helpful and creative tool for children aged 4-8 to learn and understand their emotions to help reduce anxiety. It is intended to be used in conjunction with the 10 Steps to Reducing Your Child's Anxiety on the Autism Spectrum: The CBT-Based 'Fun with Feelings' Parent Manual.

Come and have fun with us, your feelings! Get to know us so that we can help you express your feelings any time you need to!

Say hello to Happy Henry Honeydew and see how his eyes light up, his mouth has a great big smile and how he's always laughing.

Sit beside Sad Sally Strawberry and you'll learn that when she is sad her eyes look down, her face has a frown, and sometimes she cries.

You can show that you are strong, brave and clever by meeting and getting to know all of your feelings. By getting to know your feelings, and learning about the Tools in your Toolbox, you will be able to express and talk about your feelings whenever you need to.

ISBN

9781787753273

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 272 GAR 2020

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Author

Honos-Webb, Lara

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

New Harbinger Publications

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 159 pages

Subject

Developmental Disability

Attention Deficit Disorder. Hyperactivity

Head Injury. Traumatic Brain Injury

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Affective Disorders

Sensory Processing Challenges

Abstract

6 SUPER SKILLS to help teens stay focused and reach their goals!

Do you sometimes have trouble paying attention in school? Do you lose track of time and deadlines? Do you often feel ?scattered? or unorganized? You?re not alone. All teens need a little extra help staying focused?in school and in life. This is especially true if you have attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), autism spectrum disorder, sensory processing disorders, a mood disorder, or have experienced traumatic brain injury. The good news is that there are skills you can learn to help you stay on track.

In this friendly guide, psychologist and ADHD expert Lara Honos-Webb offers six powerful ?super skills? to help you pay attention, increase productivity, and get organized so you can achieve your goals and live your best life. These skills include:

Focusing on the positive

Goal setting

Chunking: breaking big goals down into small manageable chunks

Motivational enhancement

Emotional regulation: dealing with ?big? feelings

Managing attention

Once you learn and practice these skills, you?ll feel empowered to conquer any task?no matter how big. So, why not start learning them today?

ISBN

9781684035335

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH FM 270 HON 2020

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Author

Robbins, Rose

Place of Publication

London, UK

Publisher

Scallywag Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover; [no pagination]

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Siblings of Children with Disabilities

Sibling Relationships

Abstract

This little sister might not use words, but she's got plenty to say. Narrated through thought bubbles, this energetic book invites readers into the day of a nonverbal girl with autism. She has so much to do - games to play, spaghetti to eat, and a missing stuffed animal to find! Sometimes life can be noisy and overwhelming, but something new is always around the corner. Talking isn't the only way to make a joke, ask for Grandma's help, or surprise your brother

Illustrated in bright colors, Talking Is Not My Thing is a joyful portrait of neurodiverse family life.

ISBN

9781912650590

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 272 ROB 2020b

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Author

Verdick, Elizabeth

Heinlen, Marieka (Illustrator)

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MI

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; illustrated; 40 pages

Series

Best Behavior® series

Subject

Child Behaviour

Child Social Behaviour

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

Children are often waiting - for the school bus, their turn on the slide, or their birthday - and waiting can be frustrating! But learning to be patient and developing self-control will equip children with tools for success in school and in social settings. With vivid illustrations and simple strategies, this reassuring book helps children learn to delay gratification and make waiting more fun without relying on electronics.

With her trademark mix of empathy and encouragement, author Elizabeth Verdick provides activities and ideas for children - like observing the world around them, inventing new games, and anticipating what?s to come - that can be adapted for any situation. In this addition to the best-selling Best Behavior series, children will learn how to avoid boredom and replace whining words with waiting words: "This will be worth the wait!"

A section for adults includes tips and activities to foster patience in children.

For ages 4 - 7

ISBN

9781631984693

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GK 800 VER 2020

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Alternate Title

Can I play too?

Author

Cotterill, Samantha

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Dial Books for Young Readers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover; 32 pages

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Life Skills

Abstract

Two friends are building a train track! But one of the boys has a vision of exactly how the train should look, and isn't flexible when his friend joins in. It seems like a disaster for both the train and the friendship, until a kind teacher steps in and explains how to read his friend's social cues of happiness, frustration, or anger in a fun and relatable way...whoot woo!

ISBN

9780525553465

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 272 COT 2020

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Author

Maxwell, Kimberley

deLoache, Shawn

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Jumo Health, Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 16 p.

Subject

Attention Deficit Disorder. Hyperactivity

Abstract

Comic book featuring Medikidz, superhero experts on health and illness. Explains how ADHD affects the body and behaviour.

ISBN

9781644550182

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR FM 265 MAX 2020

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Author

Simon, Rachel E.

Grigni, Noah (illust.)

Place of Publication

London, UK

Philadelphia, PA

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover, 94 pages

Subject

Young adults - Gender identity and expression

Abstract

This vibrant and beautifully illustrated book educates children about sex, gender, and relationships in a way that is inclusive of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Covering puberty, hormones, pregnancy, consent, sex, babies, relationships, and families, it uses gender-neutral language throughout and celebrates diversity in all its forms, including race, ethnicity, faith, bodies, gender, and sexuality. For use with children ages 8-12.

ISBN

9781787751736

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GL 716 SIM 2020

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Author

Rubel, Barbara

Edition

3rd ed.

Place of Publication

Kendall Park, NJ

Publisher

Griefwork Center, Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover, 220 pages

Subject

Survivors of Suicide

Children and Grief

Grief. Bereavement

Abstract

Tells the story, from the perspective of an eleven-year-old boy, Alex, and his family, as they are rocked by suicide and reeling from the aftermath. Through Alex?s eyes, the reader will see the transformation of feelings after going through a suicide.

New to the third edition, each chapter ends with Alex reflecting 10 years later on his experience, introducing family and friends in his recollections. *Barbara Rubel has combined modern academic theories of grieving and then translated them into a readable story. The revised edition is an evidence-informed and contemporary treatment of a devastating form of loss that uses a hypothetical case study to render it in human terms. Through the story, the reader understands what suicide might be like for a family, how to make meaning in the loss, and ways to experience personal growth. *This self-help book was revised to provide guidance for clinicians (e.g., mental health providers, social workers, psychologists, school counselors, case managers) and families to help suicide loss survivors.

Part 1 offers a basic understanding of suicide postvention, suicide loss survivors, complicated grief, mourning theories, and the impact on clinician survivors. Chapters have been updated, based on mourning models and the latest research.

The chapters in Part 2 build upon one another sequentially, from the day of the suicide to the anniversary. At the end of each chapter, there are follow-up questions to explore in counseling sessions, support groups, therapy sessions, or at home. Also, at the end of each chapter, Alex, at the age of 21, reflects back on how his father?s death has changed his life, wounding him, but also helping him to grow.

ISBN

9781892906045

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GV 155 RUB 2020

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Author

Sautter, Elizabeth

Place of Publication

Shawnee Mission, KS

Publisher

AAPC Publishing

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Social Skills

Abstract

A series of activities parents can easily fit into everyday routines as a way to help children gain and improve social competence. Arranged around three major themes: at home, in the community, and holidays and special events

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CF 110 SAU 2020

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Author

Nason, Bill

Place of Publication

London

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; 323 p.

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Autism

Abstract

Anxiety, meltdowns and emotional regulation can be hugely challenging for autistic people. This book is full of proactive strategies for understanding, accepting and respecting the processing differences in autism. It contains tools for reducing sensory, social and mental drain, and offers strategies to protect from ongoing stress and anxiety. These help minimize shutdowns and burnout, while maximizing self-esteem, autistic identity and mental health.

Learn strategies for matching environmental demands to the person's processing needs, how to support vulnerabilities, and how to prevent and manage meltdowns while protecting the identify and self-esteem of the individual with autism.

ISBN

9781785928048

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FM 272 NAS 2020

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Author

Weaver, Meaghann

Wiener Lori (illustrator)

Place of Publication

Washington, DC

Publisher

Magination Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Hardcover ; [30 p.], illustrations

Subject

Death and dying-Children

Abstract

Gerbert the gosling is strong and brave and has fun times with his family and friends but knows that, one day soon, he won't be able to keep up with them anymore. As Gerbert prepares for his final migration, he finds a way to show his flock that he will always be with them. Includes a one-page Note to Readers and an online. Note: with additional information useful for parents, caregivers, grandparents, siblings, and teachers.

ISBN

9781433830235

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GV 100.5 WEA 2020

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Author

Huebner, Dawn

McHale, Kara (illustrator)

Place of Publication

London

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; 78 p., illustrations

Subject

Anxiety

Emotional Health

Abstract

When we learn about something bad - even when we hear only bits and pieces of it - our brains get busy trying to make sense of what we've heard. Seeing distressing events on the news, or hearing about them later, can feel scary and overwhelming. Talking about what happened, and how we feel about it, is hugely important.

Something Bad Happened guides children aged 6 to 12 and the adults who care about them through tough conversations about news of large-scale events, addressing questions such as: "Where did it happen?" "Why did it happen?" And, "Will it happen again?" Feelings like sadness, fear and confusion are normalized, and coping tools provided.

For children and parents to read together, or by a child with a parent nearby, this helpful resource by a child psychologist best-selling author provides comfort, support and action plans for children learning about the big bad things happening in our world.

ISBN

9781787750746

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CD 420 HUE 2020

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Author

Anderson

Place of Publication

[Victoria, BC?]

Publisher

Tellwell Talent

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

25 pages

Subject

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome

Abstract

What You See is Not How I Feel is a visually simple overview of how living with Chronic Fatigue feels. It opens conversation, clears misperceptions, and encourages understanding rather than judgement. Appropriate for children, adults, and professionals, and those with similar chronic illnesses; Fibromyalgia, Lyme, Multiple Sclerosis, Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, and Systemic Exertion Intolerance Disease.

ISBN

9780228819684

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FG 375 AND 2020

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Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; ix, 271 p.

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257929

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020

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