Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Softcover: 332 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:

· Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment

· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful

· Engage your child's willing cooperation

· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill

· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline

· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise

· Resolve family conflicts peacefully

ISBN

9781451663884

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2012

Copies

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 409 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk's powerful communication skills to parents of children ages two to seven.

Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents, teachers, and pediatricians. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and observations from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the children in your life.

What do you do with a little kid who won't brush her teeth?screams in his car seat?pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables?throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized by common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.

This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old.

ISBN

9781501131639

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2017

Copies

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Edition

First Scribner trade paperback edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover : 387 pages

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Abstract

From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.

Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication skills that will transform readers? relationships with children in their lives. In Part Two, Joanna and Julie answer specific questions and share relatable stories, offering practical tools for addressing issues such as homework hassles, sibling battles, digital dilemmas, problems with punishment, and more. Readers can turn directly to any topic of interest and find the help they need, with handy ?reminder pages.?

ISBN

9781982134143

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2021

Copies

Alternate Title

Congrats your're having a teen

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth R.

Place of Publication

Itasca, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 336 pages

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Abstract

Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!

The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.

ISBN

9781610025980

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 GIN 2023

Copies

Author

Phelan, Thomas W.

Place of Publication

Glen Ellyn, IL

Publisher

ParentMagic, Inc.

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

1 DVD: 130 min.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

This DVD features: What is normal adolescent behavior; How to manage teenage risk-taking; Exactly what problems require your "letting go";

The Four Cardinal Sins (What not to do); The relationship between parent/teen communication and safety;

The five ways to improve your relationship; What role to take: Observer, Advisor, Negotiator, Director; How to respond to emotional blackmail; From fashion to passion: Guidelines to specific problems

ISBN

1889140198

Language

English

Material Type

Video

Call Number

GL 450 PHE 2004

Copies

Author

Alexander, Debra Whiting

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

New Harbinger Publications

Publication Date

2001

Physical Description

xiii, 208 p.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

Drawing on detailed interviews, this book offers specific strategies for handling conflicts and power struggles, bolstering a daughter's self-esteem, and coping with problems. The author uses sample dialogues, exercises, and activities to take the terror out of talking about topics such as dating, sexuality, peer pressure, and drugs and alcohol.

ISBN

1572242620

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 ALE 2001

Copies

Author

Neufeld, Gordon

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

Gordon Neufeld

Publication Date

2007

Physical Description

4 DVDs: each DVD has 2 sessions; each session is 60 min.

Subject

Parenting

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Abstract

This course is designed to be used by parents, grandparents, teachers, administrators, professionals - anyone who desires to make sense of adolescence. Dr. Neufeld helps shed light into this often dark and confusing time. He gives both the tools and the eyes to see an adolescent through the journey, and articulates why now more than ever adolescents need our help to cross that bridge.

Language

English

Material Type

Video

Call Number

GL 540 NEU 2007

Copies

Author

Neumark-Sztainer, Dianne.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Guilford Press

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Paperback, 317 p.

Subject

Weight Control

Self-Concept (includes self-esteem)

Parenting

Young Adults-Diet/Nutrition

Young Adults-Fitness

Abstract

Today's media-saturated teenagers are bombarded with mixed messages that distort their self-image and lead many to overeat and others to starve themselves. When "I feel fat" becomes a teen's common refrain, how can worried parents respond constructively? With this book, Dr. Dianne Neumark-Sztainer shows parents how to strike the difficult balance between bolstering self-esteem and offering constructive advice. Drawing on her study, Project EAT (Eating Among Teens), and her experience as a mother of four, Neumark-Sztainer offers science-based, practical ideas for instilling healthy eating and exercise habits, educating teens about nutrition and portion size, and talking about body image. Here is a foundation that parents can build on to help their teens stay fit, eat well, and feel good about their looks in a world where too-perfect bodies are used to sell everything from cosmetic surgery to fast food.

ISBN

1572309806

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

BB 400 NEU 2005

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6002581

Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257936

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020b

Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; ix, 271 p.

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257929

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020

Copies

Author

Guare, Richard

Dawson, Peg

Guare, Colin

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

The Guilford Press

Publication Date

2013

Physical Description

Softcover: 274 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Learning Differences. Learning Disabilities

Parenting

Abstract

If you're the parent of a "smart but scattered" teen, trying to help him or her grow into a self-sufficient, responsible adult may feel like a never-ending battle. Now you have an alternative to micromanaging, cajoling, or ineffective punishments. This positive guide provides a science-based program for promoting teens' independence by building their executive skills--the fundamental brain-based abilities needed to get organized, stay focused, and control impulses and emotions.

ISBN

9781609182298

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FM 261 GUA 2013

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6178168

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth

Jablow, Martha

Edition

4th ed.

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Parenting

Children Mental Health

Abstract

This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.

ISBN

9781610023870

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 600 GIN 2020

Author

Jablow, Martha

Ginsburg, Kenneth

Edition

3rd ed.

Place of Publication

Elk Grove Village, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2015

Subject

Parenting

Children Mental Health

Abstract

This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.

ISBN

9781581108668

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 JAB 2015

Copies

Author

Neufeld, Gordon

Mate, Gabor

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Random House

Publication Date

2013

Physical Description

Softcover: 314 p.

Subject

Parenting

Peer Relationships. Peer Pressure

Abstract

In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advice offers parents the ability to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.

ISBN

9780307361967

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEU 2013

Copies

Author

Solomon, Andrew

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Hardcover: 702 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Relationships

Parenting

Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities

Abstract

Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.

ISBN

9780743236713

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SOL 2012

Copies

Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

Copies

Alternate Title

[Jeux video, alcool, cannabis, prevenir et accompagner son adolescent]

Author

Phan, Olivier

Publisher

Solar

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover ; 356 p.

Subject

Young Adults-At Risk Behaviour

Parenting

Addictive Behaviour

Abstract

Moment charnière entre L'enfance et l'âge adulte, l'adolescence est cette période de la vie où un jeune acquiert son indépendance. Cette quête d'autonomie, qui n'est pas un choix mais une nécessité, passe par des essais et des prises de risque. Les parents peuvent se sentir désarmés, avoir l'impression qu'ils ne sont plus écoutés, que leur adolescent échappe à tout contrôle. Pourtant, ils doivent l'accompagner au mieux pour lui permettre de vivre et de savourer les expériences de son âge, sans perte de chance pour son avenir. Essayer le cannabis ne conduit pas inéluctablement à la toxicomanie. En revanche, fumer pour gérer ses émotions constitue une consommation à risque. De même que jouer est indispensable à l'homme, trouver dans les jeux vidéo un moyen de fuir la réalité pose un vrai problème. Enfin, la fête et l'alcool font très bon ménage, sauf lorsqu'ils transforment la prise de risque en une réelle mise en danger.Quand un adolescent a une conduite problématique, lui faire entendre raison n'est pas chose facile. Son cerveau, encore en développement, privilégie l'émotionnel au rationnel. Face à cette réalité, ce sont des liens de confiance, solides et stables, qui vont permettre aux parents d'accompagner leur enfant. Faire confiance à son adolescent et à ses compétences de parents est un élément clé pour l'épanouissement de tous.Dans cet ouvrage, des spécialistes proposent un autre regard sur l'adolescence et préconisent des attitudes parentales issues de leur pratique clinique auprès de familles d'adolescents.

ISBN

9782263148231

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 330 PHA 2017

Copies

Alternate Title

On ne se comprend plus ! : traverser sans dommage la periode des portes qui claquent entre 12 et 17 ans

Author

Filliozat, Isabelle

Place of Publication

Marabout, DL

Publisher

Vanves

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Softcover ; 249 p.

Subject

Young Adults Health Promotion

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Young Adults-Psychological Development

Young Adults-Education

Parenting

Abstract

Appréhender et tempérer les troubles de l'adolescence. Tous les ados ne se ressemblent pas. Certains vivent cette période repliés dans leur chambre, d'autres ne cessent de sortir. Certains perdent tout intérêt pour les études, d'autres sont toujours premiers, certains ont le joint aux lèvres dès le lever, d'autres n'y toucheraient pour rien au monde et d'autres encore oscillent entre les deux extrêmes. Il reste que certains traits se dégagent et que tous vivent une période complexe. Crise ? Oui, en quelque sorte. L'adolescent traverse une crise, une transformation. L'adolescence inquiète parce que les risques sont effectivement là. Et pour traverser cette étape, Les ados ont besoin de leurs parents. A leurs côtés et non en face d'eux. Conçu comme les précédents - par tranche d'âge -, ce livre explore la psychologie des adolescents, ainsi que certaines composantes biologiques et physiologiques, et aide ainsi à poser un regard nouveau sur les motivations de leurs comportements.

ISBN

9782709658614

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 300 FIL 2017

Copies

Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Bantam

Publication Date

2018

Physical Description

Softcover ; xii, 187 p. ; ill.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be taught to approach life with openness and curiosity. When kids work from a Yes Brain, they?re more willing to take chances and explore. They?re more curious and imaginative. They?re better at relationships and handling adversity. In The Yes Brain, the authors give parents skills, scripts, and activities to bring kids of all ages into the beneficial ?yes? state.

ISBN

9780399594687

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2018

Copies

Alternate Title

[L estime de soi de nos adolescents: Guide pratique a l intention des parents]

Author

Germain Duclos,

Danielle Laporte,

Jacques Ross

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

Spiral bound, 175 p.

Subject

Parenting

Self-Concept (includes self-esteem)

Young Adults

Abstract

Offert dans une toute nouvelle présentation, l?estime de soi de nos adolescents présente de façon concrète et très accessible les principales notions théoriques concernant l?estime de soi des jeunes. Il rappelle que la confiance en soi et en ceux qu?on aime est à la base de l?estime de soi et au c?ur de toute la stratégie qui vise à prévenir la violence et la dépression.

Grâce aux nombreux questionnaires et exercices que le livre contient, les adolescents et leurs parents peuvent aspirer à une bonne connaissance de soi et une meilleure communication, éléments clés qui permettent de développer une relation basée sur la compréhension, l?écoute, la confiance mutuelle, le respect et la coopération. Les parents peuvent ainsi mieux accompagner leur adolescent et l?encourager à vivre des expériences positives et du succès.

ISBN

9782896197798

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 GER 2016

Copies