Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 352 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9780143188865

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 280 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9787309099058

Language

English

Chinese

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015b

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Author

Solomon, Andrew

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Hardcover: 702 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Relationships

Parenting

Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities

Abstract

Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.

ISBN

9780743236713

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SOL 2012

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Author

Hellerstein, Lynn F.

Place of Publication

Centennial, CO

Publisher

HiCLEAR Publishing

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Softcover: 238 p.

Subject

Parenting

Visualization

Abstract

When kids feel good about themselves, they naturally perform better. This book will take you step-by-step through the process of helping your children transform negative thoughts, images and feelings into positive affirming ones that result in successful behavior and feelings of greater confidence.

ISBN

9780984177905

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 HEL 2012

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Author

Webster-Stratton, Carolyn

Edition

3rd edition

Place of Publication

United States

Publisher

The Incredible Years, Inc.

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Softcover; 480 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The 3rd edition of this book for parents has been revised to include new and expanded chapters on coaching (academic, persistence, social and emotion coaching), plus new chapters on social media, screen time, and promoting a healthy lifestyle. This is an amazing book that covers research-based parenting strategies for all families. Positive discipline techniques are described in detail illustrated with true-to-life examples to help parents prevent behavior problems and promote their children?s social and emotional competence.

ISBN

9780578434513

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 WEB 2019

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Author

Lafrance, Adele

Miller, Ashley

Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge Taylor & Francis Group

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

259 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.

With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.

Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.

ISBN

9781138344631

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 LAF 2020

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URL

http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCCH1299_Colic_2012.pdf

Website Notes

Click the link to view or print.

Corporate Author

Emergency Department

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

BC Children's Hospital

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

PDF file: 2 p.

Subject

Infants

Parenting

Abstract

Advice sheet for parents on how to take care of your baby when he or she has colic. Includes tips on what you can do to help, when to see your family doctor, and when to bring your baby to the Emergency Deparment.

Language

English

Material Type

Handout

Online

Call Number

BCCH1299

Author

LaVigne, Melissa

Freitas, Irene [illustrator]

Place of Publication

Emeryville, CA

Publisher

Rockridge Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover. 176 pages.

Subject

Play Therapy

Parenting

Abstract

Harness the power of play--101 creative ways for you and your child to bond, have fun, and so much more!

What's the best way for children to relate to the world around them? Play! In this book, you'll find a collection of joyful activities that allow parents of children ages 3 to 9 to unlock the therapeutic benefits of play.

From strengthening your bond to decreasing their screen dependency, Play Therapy Activities offers a variety of simple exercises that can help improve your child's behavior, impulse control, self-awareness, and more. New to the idea of play therapy? This parent-friendly guide offers a comprehensive overview of the practice, as well as advice for making sure you and your child get the most out of your experiences together.

Play Therapy Activities provides:

. Open the play therapy toolbox; Discover how you can help your child hone certain skills and behaviors with arts and crafts, relaxation and breathing activities, and more.

. 101 Fun activities; Whether it's dancing, creating stories, or playing outside, discover on- and off-the-page activities (and tips!) for any number of occasions and moods.

. Play therapy revealed; Find out how and why play therapy is so effective, as well as the ways in which these activities can supplement actual play therapy.

. Bring fun and skill-building games home with Play Therapy Activities.

Notes

For children ages 3-9.

ISBN

9781647391263

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CC 355 LAV 2020

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Author

Delahooke, Mona

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper Wave

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover : 343 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.

When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.

When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

ISBN

9780063061316

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 DEL 2022

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URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6223889

Author

Blackstone, Jann

Hill, David

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Divorce

Parenting

Abstract

Parents going through separation or divorce are understandably worried about how the change in the family will affect their children This guide walks parents through all the factors they should consider and offers step-by-step guidance on how to work together to put their children first.

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 605 BLA 2020

Author

Pollak, Susan M.

Publisher

Guildford Press

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Softcover : 246 pages

Subject

Parenting

Mental Health

Abstract

Parenting is hard. That's why self-compassion is so important. In this empathic resource, mindfulness expert and psychologist Susan M. Pollak helps you let go of constant self-judgment and treat yourself with the same kindness and caring you strive to offer your kids. Simple yet powerful guided meditation techniques (most under three minutes long) are easy to practice while doing the dishes, driving to work, or soothing a fussy baby. Learn to respond to your own imperfections like a supportive friend, not a harsh critic. You will find yourself happier and more energized--and will discover new reserves of patience and appreciation for your kids.

ISBN

9781462533091

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 POL 2019

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Penguin Random house

Publication Date

2014

Physical Description

Hardcover: 316 p.

Subject

Parenting

Social Behaviour

Social Skills

Abstract

In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research, Dr. Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, joyful, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success.

ISBN

9780670067565

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Status

Processing

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2014

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Author

Rotbart, Harley A.

Place of Publication

Kansas City, Missouri

Publisher

Andrews McMeel Publishing

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Paperback: 202 p.

Subject

Parenting

Child Behaviour

Abstract

Each exhausting day with young kids can feel like it will never end, yet the years streak by at warp speed. No Regrets Parenting is about time with your kids - finding enough of it and making the most of it. It blends parenting philosophy with practical applications to promote special, everyday moments with your kids.

ISBN

9781449410940

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 ROT 2012

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6203120

Author

Steinberg, Stacey

Publisher

Sourcebooks

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Parenting

Internet

Abstract

Growing Up Shared investigates the benefits and risks of sharing our kids' lives on social media, and will help any parent decide on the right path for their family to follow in the online world.

ISBN

9781492698128

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 650 STE 2020

Author

Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy

Edition

3rd ed.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

William Morrow

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover; 505 pages

Subject

Child Behaviour

Parenting

Abstract

In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition, parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do. Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and proven strategies for handling the toughest times.

Dr. Kurcinka has devised a plan for success with a simple, four-step program that will help you discover the power of positive - rather than negative - labels, understand your child's and your own temperamental traits, cope with tantrums and blowups when they do occur, develop strategies for handling mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school, and many other situations.

ISBN

9780062403063

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 800 KUR 2015

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Author

Phelan, Thomas W.

Edition

6th ed.

Place of Publication

Naperville, IL

Publisher

ParentMagic Inc.

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

softcover; xvii, 265 p.

Subject

Parenting

Child Social Behaviour

Abstract

1-2-3 Magic allows you to get back in charge of your home and enjoy your kids again by helping you set limits for your children, and by breaking down the complex task of parenting into three straightforward steps:

1. Controlling obnoxious behavior: Learn an amazingly simple technique to get the kids to STOP doing what you don't want them to do (whining, arguing, tantrums, sibling rivalry, etc.).

2. Encouraging good behavior: Learn several effective methods to get your kids to START doing what you want them to do (picking up, eating, going to bed--and staying there!, chores, etc.).

3. Strengthening your relationships: Learn powerful techniques that reinforce the bond between you and your children.

ISBN

9781492629887

Language

English

Spanish

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 PHE 2016

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Author

Nelsen, Jane

Tamborski, Mary Nelsen

Ainge, Brad

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harmony Books

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

Softcover. 365 pages.

Subject

Parenting

Child Development

Abstract

Using these 49 Positive Discipline tools, honed and perfected after years of real-world research and feedback, you'll be able to work with your children instead of against them. The goal isn't perfection but providing you with the techniques you need to help your children develop the life and social skills you hope for them, such as respect for self and others, problem-solving ability, and self-regulation.

The tenets of Positive Discipline consistently foster mutual respect so that any child - from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager - can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline without losing his or her dignity. In this new parenting guidebook, you'll find day-to-day exercises for parents to improve their parenting skills, along with success stories from parents worldwide who have benefited from the Positive Discipline philosophy. With training tools and personal examples from the authors, you will learn:

· The 'hidden belief' behind a child's misbehavior, and how to respond accordingly

· The best way to focus on solutions instead of dwelling on the negative

· How to encourage your child without pampering or praising

· How to teach your child to make mistakes and follow through on agreements

· How to foster creative thinking

ISBN

9781101905340

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEL 2016

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Author

Brooks, Yvonne

Place of Publication

Bloomington, IN

Publisher

iUniverse

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Softcover 155 p.

Subject

Self-Concept (includes self-esteem)

Children's Emotions

Parenting

Abstract

Practical and hands-on, with clear and concise instructions, Building Your Child's Self-Esteem shows parents how to identify healthy and low self-esteem behaviors in their children. Parents will also learn how to overcome and correct unproductive habits that limit their child's performance.

From developing a series of ideas for empowering children toward self-responsibility and awareness, parents will get the information needed to activate their child's potential for maximum success. Parents will learn how self-esteem manifests in children, how children with healthy and low self-esteem communicate, and how healthy and low self-esteem characteristics affect parenting skills.

ISBN

9781469746753

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CF 200 BRO 2012

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Author

Neufeld, Gordon

Mate, Gabor

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Random House

Publication Date

2013

Physical Description

Softcover: 314 p.

Subject

Parenting

Peer Relationships. Peer Pressure

Abstract

In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advice offers parents the ability to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.

ISBN

9780307361967

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEU 2013

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