Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

Copies

Author

Gardner, Debbie

Gardner, Mike

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

McGraw-Hill

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

Paperback; viii, 183 p.

Subject

Parenting

Child Development

Self Defense Training

Abstract

Shows how to teach kids to protect themselves when parents aren't there to take care of them. Includes age-appropriate methods for overcoming fear, reducing vulnerability, and building self-protection instincts; courage coaching as a way to create a "family" defense system; life-saving skills, such as quality eye contact, voice control, breathing, control of inappropriate crying, development of positive self-talk, and space awareness.

Notes

Reviewed by BCCH/BCW Health Professional on 2013.

ISBN

0071437983

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 GAR 2004

Copies

Author

Biddulph, Steve

Edition

2nd edition

Place of Publication

Berkeley, CA

Publisher

Cellestial Arts

Publication Date

2008

Physical Description

Softcover: 215 p.

Subject

Male Emotional Health

Parenting

Abstract

Written by an Australian family therapist, this practical guide provides a supportive approach to parenting boys. Citing such gender specific risks facing boys as a higher percentage of learning disabilities to greater threats of violence and suicide, the author offers parenting strategies for three distinct stages of growth: birth to six years; six to 14; and 14 to adult. It includes sidebars, photos and cartoons, and each chapter wraps up with a summary. For parents of both boys and girls.

ISBN

9781587613289

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 195 BID 2008

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6178168

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth

Jablow, Martha

Edition

4th ed.

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Parenting

Children Mental Health

Abstract

This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.

ISBN

9781610023870

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 600 GIN 2020

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Edition

First Scribner trade paperback edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover : 387 pages

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Abstract

From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.

Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication skills that will transform readers? relationships with children in their lives. In Part Two, Joanna and Julie answer specific questions and share relatable stories, offering practical tools for addressing issues such as homework hassles, sibling battles, digital dilemmas, problems with punishment, and more. Readers can turn directly to any topic of interest and find the help they need, with handy ?reminder pages.?

ISBN

9781982134143

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2021

Copies

Author

LaVigne, Melissa

Freitas, Irene [illustrator]

Place of Publication

Emeryville, CA

Publisher

Rockridge Press

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover. 176 pages.

Subject

Play Therapy

Parenting

Abstract

Harness the power of play--101 creative ways for you and your child to bond, have fun, and so much more!

What's the best way for children to relate to the world around them? Play! In this book, you'll find a collection of joyful activities that allow parents of children ages 3 to 9 to unlock the therapeutic benefits of play.

From strengthening your bond to decreasing their screen dependency, Play Therapy Activities offers a variety of simple exercises that can help improve your child's behavior, impulse control, self-awareness, and more. New to the idea of play therapy? This parent-friendly guide offers a comprehensive overview of the practice, as well as advice for making sure you and your child get the most out of your experiences together.

Play Therapy Activities provides:

. Open the play therapy toolbox; Discover how you can help your child hone certain skills and behaviors with arts and crafts, relaxation and breathing activities, and more.

. 101 Fun activities; Whether it's dancing, creating stories, or playing outside, discover on- and off-the-page activities (and tips!) for any number of occasions and moods.

. Play therapy revealed; Find out how and why play therapy is so effective, as well as the ways in which these activities can supplement actual play therapy.

. Bring fun and skill-building games home with Play Therapy Activities.

Notes

For children ages 3-9.

ISBN

9781647391263

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CC 355 LAV 2020

Copies

Author

Phelan, Thomas W.

Place of Publication

Glen Ellyn, IL

Publisher

ParentMagic, Inc.

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

1 DVD: 130 min.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

This DVD features: What is normal adolescent behavior; How to manage teenage risk-taking; Exactly what problems require your "letting go";

The Four Cardinal Sins (What not to do); The relationship between parent/teen communication and safety;

The five ways to improve your relationship; What role to take: Observer, Advisor, Negotiator, Director; How to respond to emotional blackmail; From fashion to passion: Guidelines to specific problems

ISBN

1889140198

Language

English

Material Type

Video

Call Number

GL 450 PHE 2004

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6223889

Author

Blackstone, Jann

Hill, David

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Divorce

Parenting

Abstract

Parents going through separation or divorce are understandably worried about how the change in the family will affect their children This guide walks parents through all the factors they should consider and offers step-by-step guidance on how to work together to put their children first.

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 605 BLA 2020

Author

Lafrance, Adele

Miller, Ashley

Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge Taylor & Francis Group

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

259 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.

With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.

Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.

ISBN

9781138344631

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 LAF 2020

Copies

URL

https://www.healthlinkbc.ca/pregnancy-parenting/toddlers-first-steps

Publisher

HealthLinkBC

Publication Date

2022

Subject

Pregnancy

Toddlers

Parenting

Child Health - Diet/Nutrition

Child Development

Childcare

Abstract

Toddler's First Steps provides trusted information on how to nurture the healthy development of your child. As your child grows, they will learn and change at an amazing speed. This resource provides guidance on how to support your child as they go through the many stages of toddlerhood and encounter new experiences such as the arrival of a new baby or entering child care. You will also find information on where to find additional resources to support you and your family.

Language

English

Chinese

French

Arabic

Farsi (Persian)

Punjabi

Spanish

Tagalog

Material Type

Website

Online

Author

Blanco, Jodee

Place of Publication

Avon, MA

Publisher

Adams Media Corporation

Publication Date

2003

Physical Description

Paperback: 276 p.

Subject

Bullying

Parenting

Abstract

From fifth grade through high school, Blanco was teased, shunned, and, at times, physically assaulted by her classmates because she was different. This memoir provides an unflinching look at what it means to be the outcast, how even the most loving parents can get it all wrong, why schools are often unable to prevent disaster, and how bullying has been misunderstood and mishandled by the mental health community.

ISBN

1580628362

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

BE 965 BLA 2003

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6002581

Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257936

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020b

Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; ix, 271 p.

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257929

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020

Copies

Author

Greene, Ross W.

Edition

6th ed,

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Paperback: 254 p.

Subject

Anger

Child Behaviour

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Ross Greene, a distinguished clinician and pioneer in the treatment of kids with social, emotional, and behavioral challenges, has worked with thousands of explosive children, and he has good news: these kids aren?t attention-seeking, manipulative, or unmotivated, and their parents aren?t passive, permissive pushovers. Rather, explosive kids are lacking some crucial skills in the domains of flexibility/adaptability, frustration tolerance, and problem solving, and they require a different approach to parenting.

Throughout this compassionate, insightful, and practical book, Dr. Greene provides a new conceptual framework for understanding their difficulties, based on research in the neurosciences. He explains why traditional parenting and treatment often don?t work with these children, and he describes what to do instead. Instead of relying on rewarding and punishing, Dr. Greene?s Collaborative Problem Solving model promotes working with explosive children to solve the problems that precipitate explosive episodes, and teaching these kids the skills they lack.

ISBN

9780063092464

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 900 GRE 2021a

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6203120

Author

Steinberg, Stacey

Publisher

Sourcebooks

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Parenting

Internet

Abstract

Growing Up Shared investigates the benefits and risks of sharing our kids' lives on social media, and will help any parent decide on the right path for their family to follow in the online world.

ISBN

9781492698128

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 650 STE 2020

Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Viking Penguin Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

320 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The Tech Solution is a to-the-point resource for parents and educators who want the best approach for raising kids in our digital world. It outlines all you need to know about the short-term and potential long-term consequences of tech use. Dr. Kang simplifies cutting edge neuroscience to reveal a new understanding around how we metabolize experiences with technology that will lay the foundation for lasting success. On top of that, she offers practical advice for tackling specific concerns in the classroom or at home, whether it's possible tech addiction, anxiety, cyberbullying, or loneliness. With her 6-week 6-step plan for rebalancing your family's tech diet, Dr. Kang will help your child build healthy habits and make smart choices that will maximize the benefits of tech and minimize its risks.

ISBN

9780735239548

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2020

Copies

Alternate Title

Congrats your're having a teen

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth R.

Place of Publication

Itasca, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 336 pages

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Abstract

Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!

The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.

ISBN

9781610025980

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 GIN 2023

Copies

Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

HarperCollins Publishers

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Paperback: 196 p.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Language/Communication

Abstract

This down-to-earth guide provides parents with an approach for maintaining a candid, open, mutually respectful dialogue with their teens. They cover how to: listen and respond helpfully to your teenager's concerns; express your irritation or anger without being hurtful; take action without punishing; encourage your teen to assume responsibility; work out problems together; and talk about sex and drugs without preaching or alienating.

ISBN

9780060741266

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 FAB 2005

Copies

Author

Kulp, Jodee

Edition

2nd ed.

Place of Publication

Brooklyn Park, MN

Publisher

Better Endings New Beginnings

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

Paperback; xii, 298 p.

Subject

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome/Fetal Alcohol Effects. FAS/FAE

Head Injury (includes brain damage)

Parenting

Abstract

Introduces a path in working with prenatally exposed children and provides a wealth of knowledge and practical experience for helping youth with prenatal brain injury. Readers will: discover creative approaches in reaching and loving children with attachment issues; understand how alcohol affects the growing brains of children; become familiar with brain terminology; uncover ideas to help a child nutritionally; wade through school and behavior issues with tears, laughter and strategies you may not have tried.

Notes

Reviewed by BCCH/BCW Health Professionals on 2013.

ISBN

0963707248

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 590 KUL 2004

Copies

Author

Douglas, Ann

Place of Publication

Etobicoke, ON

Publication Date

2002

Subject

Parenting

Parenting Toddlers

Abstract

Provides the inside scoop on what it's really like to raise a toddler—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Includes proven strategies for coping with whining, biting, dawdling, temper tantrums, and other hazards of toddlerhood; sensible advice on making toilet-training as stress-free as possible for you and your child; creative suggestions for arts and crafts projects and other activities that you and your toddler will enjoy doing together; comprehensive, medically-reviewed answers to all your toddler-related health questions; a directory of key Canadian parenting and pediatric health organizations; a list of Internet resources of interest to Canadian parents; Canadian immunization schedules, toddler growth charts, child safety checklists, and much more.

ISBN

1553350162

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 601 TOD 2002