Author

Herman, Judith

Publisher

Basic Books

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover; 326 pages

Subject

Trauma Survivors

Trauma

Sexual Assault

Sexual Assault-Coping

Abusive Relationships

Abusive Relationships-Coping

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder & Other Trauma- & Stressor-related Disorders

Abstract

Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war.

Hailed by the New York Times as "one of the most important psychiatry works to be published since Freud," Trauma and Recovery is essential reading for anyone who seeks to understand how we heal and are healed.

Notes

Recommended by CCDP.

ISBN

978-0465061716

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 710 HER 2015

Copies

Author

Hudson, Kareen

Rahman, Shahnaz

Penfold, Sue

Corporate Author

Mental Health Program

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

BC Children's Hospital

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Paperback, 8.5 x 11 in.: 36 pages

Subject

Battering. Spouse Abuse. Partner Abuse/Domestic Violence

Battering. Spouse Abuse. Partner Abuse-Coping

Abusive Relationships-Coping

Domestic Abuse

Abstract

This guide, intended for children aged five through twelve years, has been developed using children’s ideas, artwork and play. It shares children’s worries and feelings about living in violent homes.

ISBN

097373891x

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CE 300 HUD 2005

Copies

Author

Biddulph, Steve

Edition

2nd edition

Place of Publication

Berkeley, CA

Publisher

Cellestial Arts

Publication Date

2008

Physical Description

Softcover: 215 p.

Subject

Male Emotional Health

Parenting

Abstract

Written by an Australian family therapist, this practical guide provides a supportive approach to parenting boys. Citing such gender specific risks facing boys as a higher percentage of learning disabilities to greater threats of violence and suicide, the author offers parenting strategies for three distinct stages of growth: birth to six years; six to 14; and 14 to adult. It includes sidebars, photos and cartoons, and each chapter wraps up with a summary. For parents of both boys and girls.

ISBN

9781587613289

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 195 BID 2008

Copies

Author

Shanker, Dr. Stuart

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Penguin Canada

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 307 p.

Subject

Parenting

Stress Reduction Techniques

Emotional Health

Social Behaviour

Behaviour Therapy. Behaviour Modification

Abstract

The first parenting book to bring the science and psychology of children's behavior together to build brain/body awareness for self-regulation and success Self-Reg is a ground-breaking book that presents an entirely new understanding of your child's emotions and behavior that serves as a practical guide for parents to help their kids engage calmly and successfully in learning and life. Rooted in decades of clinical practice and research by leading child psychologist Dr. Stuart Shanker, Self-Reg realigns the power of the parent-child relationship for positive change. Self-regulation is the nervous system's way of responding to stress. We are seeing a generation of children and teens with excessively high levels of stress and, as a result, an explosion of emotional, social, learning, behavior, and physical health problems. But few parents recognize the "hidden stressors" that their children are struggling with: physiological as well as social and emotional. An entrenched view of child rearing is seeing our children as lacking self-control or will-power, but the real basis for these problems lies in excessive stress. Self-regulation can dramatically improve a child's mood, attention, and concentration. It can help children to feel empathy and to develop the sorts of virtues that every parent knows are vital for their child's long-term well-being. Self-regulation brings about profound and lasting transformation that continues to mature throughout life. Shanker translates decades of his findings from working with children into practical, prescriptive advice for parents, giving them concrete ways to develop their self-regulation skills and teach their children how to do the same for optimal learning, social, and emotional growth as well as for overall well-being.

ISBN

9780143191575

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 200 SHA 2017

Copies

Author

Phelan, Thomas W.

Place of Publication

Glen Ellyn, IL

Publisher

ParentMagic, Inc.

Publication Date

2004

Physical Description

1 DVD: 130 min.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

This DVD features: What is normal adolescent behavior; How to manage teenage risk-taking; Exactly what problems require your "letting go";

The Four Cardinal Sins (What not to do); The relationship between parent/teen communication and safety;

The five ways to improve your relationship; What role to take: Observer, Advisor, Negotiator, Director; How to respond to emotional blackmail; From fashion to passion: Guidelines to specific problems

ISBN

1889140198

Language

English

Material Type

Video

Call Number

GL 450 PHE 2004

Copies

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Edition

First Scribner trade paperback edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover : 387 pages

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Abstract

From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.

Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication skills that will transform readers? relationships with children in their lives. In Part Two, Joanna and Julie answer specific questions and share relatable stories, offering practical tools for addressing issues such as homework hassles, sibling battles, digital dilemmas, problems with punishment, and more. Readers can turn directly to any topic of interest and find the help they need, with handy ?reminder pages.?

ISBN

9781982134143

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2021

Copies

Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

HarperCollins Publishers

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Paperback: 196 p.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Language/Communication

Abstract

This down-to-earth guide provides parents with an approach for maintaining a candid, open, mutually respectful dialogue with their teens. They cover how to: listen and respond helpfully to your teenager's concerns; express your irritation or anger without being hurtful; take action without punishing; encourage your teen to assume responsibility; work out problems together; and talk about sex and drugs without preaching or alienating.

ISBN

9780060741266

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 FAB 2005

Copies

Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Softcover: 332 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:

· Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment

· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful

· Engage your child's willing cooperation

· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill

· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline

· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise

· Resolve family conflicts peacefully

ISBN

9781451663884

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2012

Copies

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 409 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk's powerful communication skills to parents of children ages two to seven.

Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents, teachers, and pediatricians. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and observations from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the children in your life.

What do you do with a little kid who won't brush her teeth?screams in his car seat?pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables?throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized by common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.

This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old.

ISBN

9781501131639

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2017

Copies

Alternate Title

Congrats your're having a teen

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth R.

Place of Publication

Itasca, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 336 pages

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Abstract

Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!

The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.

ISBN

9781610025980

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 GIN 2023

Copies

Author

Alexander, Debra Whiting

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

New Harbinger Publications

Publication Date

2001

Physical Description

xiii, 208 p.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

Drawing on detailed interviews, this book offers specific strategies for handling conflicts and power struggles, bolstering a daughter's self-esteem, and coping with problems. The author uses sample dialogues, exercises, and activities to take the terror out of talking about topics such as dating, sexuality, peer pressure, and drugs and alcohol.

ISBN

1572242620

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 ALE 2001

Copies

Author

Neufeld, Gordon

Mate, Gabor

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Random House

Publication Date

2013

Physical Description

Softcover: 314 p.

Subject

Parenting

Peer Relationships. Peer Pressure

Abstract

In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advice offers parents the ability to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.

ISBN

9780307361967

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEU 2013

Copies

Author

Neufeld, Gordon

Place of Publication

[Vancouver, BC?]

Publisher

Gordon Neufeld

Publication Date

2007

Physical Description

4 DVDs: each DVD has 2 sessions; each session is 60 min.

Subject

Parenting

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Abstract

This course is designed to be used by parents, grandparents, teachers, administrators, professionals - anyone who desires to make sense of adolescence. Dr. Neufeld helps shed light into this often dark and confusing time. He gives both the tools and the eyes to see an adolescent through the journey, and articulates why now more than ever adolescents need our help to cross that bridge.

Language

English

Material Type

Video

Call Number

GL 540 NEU 2007

Copies

Author

Kaiser Greenland, Susan

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Atria Paperback

Publication Date

2010

Physical Description

Softcover: 219 p.

Subject

Mind/Body

Children's Health-Complementary Therapies

Parenting

Abstract

Mindful awareness works by enabling you to pay closer attention to what is happening within you - your thoughts, feelings, and emotions - so you can better understand what is happening to you. "The Mindful Child" extends the vast benefits of mindfulness training to children from four to eighteen years old with age-appropriate exercises, songs, games, and fables that Susan Kaiser Greenland has developed over more than a decade of teaching mindful awareness to kids.

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

EG 200 KAI 2010

Copies

Author

Solomon, Andrew

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Hardcover: 702 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Relationships

Parenting

Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities

Abstract

Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.

ISBN

9780743236713

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SOL 2012

Copies

Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

Copies

Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Bantam

Publication Date

2018

Physical Description

Softcover ; xii, 187 p. ; ill.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be taught to approach life with openness and curiosity. When kids work from a Yes Brain, they?re more willing to take chances and explore. They?re more curious and imaginative. They?re better at relationships and handling adversity. In The Yes Brain, the authors give parents skills, scripts, and activities to bring kids of all ages into the beneficial ?yes? state.

ISBN

9780399594687

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2018

Copies

Author

Delahooke, Mona

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper Wave

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover : 343 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.

When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.

When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

ISBN

9780063061316

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 DEL 2022

Copies

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6203120

Author

Steinberg, Stacey

Publisher

Sourcebooks

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Parenting

Internet

Abstract

Growing Up Shared investigates the benefits and risks of sharing our kids' lives on social media, and will help any parent decide on the right path for their family to follow in the online world.

ISBN

9781492698128

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

GK 650 STE 2020

URL

https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6002581

Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257936

Language

English

Material Type

Ebook

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020b