Author

Cooper, Scott

Edition

Revised and updated edition

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Softcover; 129 pages

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Child Social Behaviour

Emotional Health

Abstract

Every child could use help with social skills and making friends. This book provides twenty-one concrete strategies children can use to express themselves, build relationships, end arguments and fights, halt bullying, and beat unhappy feelings. It?s like a toolbox of kid-friendly social skills?just open it up and pull out tools like:

Mighty Might, which takes all the fun out of teasing

Thought Chop, which helps kids resist self-defeating thoughts

Squeaky Wheel, a type of persistence that gets results

Coin Toss, a simple way to resolve small conflicts

Each tool is clearly described, illustrated with true-to-life examples, and accompanied by dialogue and lines children can practice and use. Authentic stories and anecdotes show each tool in action.

This revised and updated second edition incorporates electronic communication, cyberbullying, and social media with age-appropriate guidelines and stories. A note to adults includes up-to-date research on and recommendations for social skills and bullying. For kids, Speak Up and Get Along! makes learning social skills accessible and fun.

ISBN

9781631983856

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 COO 2019

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Author

Meiners, Cheri J.

Weber, Penny [illustrator]

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Board book; [no pagination]

Series

Learning about me & you

Subject

Emotional Health

Child Behavior

Children's Emotions

Children's Anger

Mindfulness

Abstract

A little girl works through strong feelings and learns how to calm down. "Sometimes things seem hard, and my feelings are really big."

Strong emotions can be overwhelming for young children, and at times they need help identifying and coping with what they're feeling. "I want to feel peaceful. I won't hit or hurt."

Gentle and encouraging, this board book helps toddlers work through strong feelings like anger and worry. Children learn to use deep breaths, mental images, and other simple strategies to calm themselves. With straightforward words and warm illustrations, I Calm Down helps children understand that feelings change and that their own actions can make a difference in how they feel. When their feelings are too big to manage, children can ask for help and comfort from a trusted adult.

A section for adults offers tips on talking about the book together, along with activities for helping children learn to calm themselves. Access to a digital download with ideas for helping toddlers feel calm is also provided.

Recommended for children ages 1 - 4.

ISBN

9781631984556

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CA 200 MEI 2020

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Alternate Title

NowMaps Jr.

Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Place of Publication

Eau Claire, WI

Publisher

PESI Publishing

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover; 55 pages

Subject

Emotional Health

Mindfulness

Abstract

Written by world-renowned neuropsychiatrist and co-author of The Whole-Brain Child, Dr. Dan Siegel, NowMaps Jr. is a delightful rhyming story that introduces kids to the neuroscience of early childhood social-emotional learning in a captivating, interactive way! Kids ages 3-6 will love this beautifully illustrated choose-your-own adventure book that whisks them off to distant lands - including a jungle, a desert, and a pirate ship - as they learn about their thoughts, feelings, and sensory experiences.

ISBN

9781683735328

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CA 200 SIE 2022

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Author

Wiens, Kristin

Place of Publication

[Victoria, BC?]

Publisher

First Choice Books

Publication Date

2014

Physical Description

Paperback, 25 p.

Subject

Mindfulness

Emotional Health

Gratitude

Abstract

In this story, Jacob learns the value of gratitude (a key component of mindfulness).

ISBN

9781770845152

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GK 720 WIE 2014

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Author

Reynolds, Peter H.

Place of Publication

London

Publisher

Walker Books Ltd

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Softcover ; [29 p.], illustrations

Subject

Creativity

Mental Health

Emotional Health

Abstract

Ramon loves to draw, especially when he learns that he doesn't have to worry about getting it "just right."

ISBN

9781844282968

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CA 190 REY 2005

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Author

Allen, Vanessa Green

Rebar, Sarah [ill.]

Place of Publication

Emeryville, CA

Publisher

Rockridge Press

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Softcover : 108 pages

Subject

Mental Health

Emotional Health

Abstract

Sometimes, emotions like anger or jealousy or excitement can seem too big to keep inside. Me and My Feelings is here to teach kids that it?s okay to have big feelings! They will learn how to calm down those strong emotions so they don?t feel overwhelmed and can continue to take on the world.

This book gives kids the skills to stay in control - by breathing deeply, saying positive things to themselves, talking about their feelings instead of keeping them inside, and more. Help young girls and boys learn to deal with all kinds of feelings, including the hard ones like sadness, anxiety, or even fear.

Inside Me and My Feelings, you?ll find:

- TANGIBLE IDEAS THAT HELP: This book is packed with informative ways to help kids handle their feelings. They can use the exercises to see which tips, tricks, and habits work best for them.

- QUIZZES & ACTIVITIES: Kids can get to know themselves with quizzes like 'Do My Emotions Rule Me?,' along with other fun exercises and activities created especially for kids ages 7-10.

- EMPATHY FOR THE EMOTIONS OF OTHERS: When kids understand their own emotions and feelings, they can also empathize with other people?s feelings - like their family and friends.

With Me and My Feelings, the next time big feelings get too big - kids will know just what to do!

Notes

For ages 7 to 10

ISBN

9781641524964

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GK 720 ALL 2019

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Author

Huebner, Dawn

McHale, Kara (illustrator)

Place of Publication

London

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; 78 p., illustrations

Subject

Anxiety

Emotional Health

Abstract

When we learn about something bad - even when we hear only bits and pieces of it - our brains get busy trying to make sense of what we've heard. Seeing distressing events on the news, or hearing about them later, can feel scary and overwhelming. Talking about what happened, and how we feel about it, is hugely important.

Something Bad Happened guides children aged 6 to 12 and the adults who care about them through tough conversations about news of large-scale events, addressing questions such as: "Where did it happen?" "Why did it happen?" And, "Will it happen again?" Feelings like sadness, fear and confusion are normalized, and coping tools provided.

For children and parents to read together, or by a child with a parent nearby, this helpful resource by a child psychologist best-selling author provides comfort, support and action plans for children learning about the big bad things happening in our world.

ISBN

9781787750746

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CD 420 HUE 2020

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Author

Fernando, Peter

Place of Publication

Boulder

Publisher

Shambhala Publications, Inc.

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

Softcover ; ix, 222 p.

Subject

Mindfulness

Mind/Body

Chronic Illness

Chronic Pain

Emotional Health

Self-Concept (includes self-esteem)

Abstract

"'Let your illness be your spiritual teacher!' Make a statement like that to someone who's struggled for years with, say, rheumatoid arthritis, and be prepared for an eye roll (at best). To Peter Fernando's credit, he makes that statement, and no such impulse arises. We believe him because he's been there himself and because he backs up the statements with his own real experiences and with real wisdom from the Buddhist teachings. Fernando starts by defusing the pernicious belief that anyone is somehow responsible for their illness: you're not "wrong" for being sick. Then, having gotten past self-blame, one can begin to learn self-kindness. From there, one moves to mindfulness practices and cultivating body awareness?even if body awareness is distasteful when the body isn't behaving the way you like. Further topics include getting intimate with dark emotions (fear, despair, the scary future, frustration, grief, etc.), learning equanimity (rejoicing in the good fortune of those who don't share your suffering), cultivating healthy relationships in the midst of everything, and practical advice for living with pain. Each chapter comes with one or more practices or guided meditations for putting the teachings into practice"--from publisher.

ISBN

9781611802634

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

EF 850 FER 2016

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Author

Van Dijk, Sheri, MSW

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

Instant Help Books

Publication Date

2011

Subject

Emotional Health

Anger

Behaviour Therapy. Behaviour Modification

Young Adults-Self-Help

Abstract

Based in dialectical behavior therapy, this workbook helps teens learn the skills they need to ride the ups and downs of life with grace and confidence. This book offers techniques to help teenagers: 1) stay calm and mindful in difficult situations, 2) effectively manage out-of-control emotions, 3) Reduce the pain of intense emotions, and 4) get along with family and friends.

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH CA 200 VAN 2011

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Author

Brown, Brené [Brene]

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Avery

Publication Date

2007

Physical Description

Softcover ; xxvii, 303 p.

Subject

Mental Health

Emotional Health

Empathy

Abstract

"Researcher, thought leader, and New York Times bestselling author Brené Brown offers a liberating study on the importance of our imperfections?both to our relationships and to our own sense of self

"The quest for perfection is exhausting and unrelenting. There is a constant barrage of social expectations that teach us that being imperfect is synonymous with being inadequate. Everywhere we turn, there are messages that tell us who, what and how we?re supposed to be. So, we learn to hide our struggles and protect ourselves from shame, judgment, criticism and blame by seeking safety in pretending and perfection"--from the Publisher.

ISBN

9781592403356

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 200 BRO 2007

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Author

Shanker, Dr. Stuart

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Penguin Canada

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 307 p.

Subject

Parenting

Stress Reduction Techniques

Emotional Health

Social Behaviour

Behaviour Therapy. Behaviour Modification

Abstract

The first parenting book to bring the science and psychology of children's behavior together to build brain/body awareness for self-regulation and success Self-Reg is a ground-breaking book that presents an entirely new understanding of your child's emotions and behavior that serves as a practical guide for parents to help their kids engage calmly and successfully in learning and life. Rooted in decades of clinical practice and research by leading child psychologist Dr. Stuart Shanker, Self-Reg realigns the power of the parent-child relationship for positive change. Self-regulation is the nervous system's way of responding to stress. We are seeing a generation of children and teens with excessively high levels of stress and, as a result, an explosion of emotional, social, learning, behavior, and physical health problems. But few parents recognize the "hidden stressors" that their children are struggling with: physiological as well as social and emotional. An entrenched view of child rearing is seeing our children as lacking self-control or will-power, but the real basis for these problems lies in excessive stress. Self-regulation can dramatically improve a child's mood, attention, and concentration. It can help children to feel empathy and to develop the sorts of virtues that every parent knows are vital for their child's long-term well-being. Self-regulation brings about profound and lasting transformation that continues to mature throughout life. Shanker translates decades of his findings from working with children into practical, prescriptive advice for parents, giving them concrete ways to develop their self-regulation skills and teach their children how to do the same for optimal learning, social, and emotional growth as well as for overall well-being.

ISBN

9780143191575

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 200 SHA 2017

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Author

Lesser, Elizabeth

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Villard Books

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Softcover; 311 pages

Subject

Emotional Health

Stress

Stress Reduction

Stress Reduction Techniques

Abstract

In the more than twenty-five years since she co-founded Omega Institute - now the world's largest center for spiritual retreat and personal growth -Elizabeth Lesser has been an intimate witness to the ways in which people weather change and transition. In a beautifully crafted blend of moving stories, humorous insights, practical guidance, and personal memoir, she offers tools to help us make the choice we all face in times of challenge: Will we be broken down and defeated, or broken open and transformed? Lesser shares tales of ordinary people who have risen from the ashes of illness, divorce, loss of a job or a loved one - stronger, wiser, and more in touch with their purpose and passion. And she draws on the world's great spiritual and psychological traditions to support us as we too learn to break open and blossom into who we were meant to be.

Notes

Recommended by CCDP

ISBN

9780375759918

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 200 LES 2004

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Alternate Title

Fifty ways to soothe yourself without food

Author

Albers, Susan

Place of Publication

Oakland, California

Publisher

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

Publication Date

2009

Physical Description

Softcover ; 217 p.

Subject

Food

Eating Disorders

Mindfulness

Emotional Health

Emotions

Abstract

Food has the power to temporarily alleviate stress and sadness, enhance joy, and bring us comfort when we need it most. It's no wonder experts estimate that 75 percent of overeating is triggered by our emotions, not physical hunger. The good news is you can instead soothe yourself through dozens of mindful activities that are healthy for both body and mind.

Susan Albers, author of Eating Mindfully, now offers 50 Ways to Soothe Yourself Without Food, a collection of mindfulness skills and practices for relaxing the body in times of stress and ending your dependence on eating as a means of coping with difficult emotions. You'll not only discover easy ways to soothe urges to overeat, you'll also learn how to differentiate emotion-driven hunger from healthy hunger. Reach for this book instead of the refrigerator next time you feel the urge to snack-these alternatives are just as satisfying!

Notes

Recommended by CCDP

ISBN

9781572246768

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

EG 220 ALB 2009

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