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Surviving your adolescents: How to manage-and let go of-your 13- to 18-year-olds

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Phelan, Thomas W. Glen Ellyn, IL: ParentMagic, Inc. , 2004.
Material Type
Video
Call Number
GL 450 PHE 2004
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This DVD features: What is normal adolescent behavior; How to manage teenage risk-taking; Exactly what problems require your "letting go";; The Four Cardinal Sins (What not to do); The relationship between parent/teen communication and safety;; The five ways to improve your relationship; What role …
Author
Phelan, Thomas W.
Place of Publication
Glen Ellyn, IL
Publisher
ParentMagic, Inc.
Publication Date
2004
Physical Description
1 DVD: 130 min.
Subject
Parent-Young Adult Relationships
Parenting
Abstract
This DVD features: What is normal adolescent behavior; How to manage teenage risk-taking; Exactly what problems require your "letting go";
The Four Cardinal Sins (What not to do); The relationship between parent/teen communication and safety;
The five ways to improve your relationship; What role to take: Observer, Advisor, Negotiator, Director; How to respond to emotional blackmail; From fashion to passion: Guidelines to specific problems
ISBN
1889140198
Language
English
Material Type
Video
Call Number
GL 450 PHE 2004

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Twins, triplets and more : Resource guide for multiple pregnancy and parenthood

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Leonard, Linda G. Vancouver, BC: University of British Columbia , 2020. The final edition.
URL
https://nursing.ubc.ca/sites/default/files/files/event/attachments/TwinsTripletsMoreGuide2020%20.pdf
Material Type
Handout
Online
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This resource guide is designed for multiple birth families living in Canada, particularly those in British Columbia and the Lower Mainland. Includes information on multiple birth statistics, nutrition and multiple pregnancy, pregnancy at-home care programs, safety, telephone support, and other res…
  1 url  
URL
https://nursing.ubc.ca/sites/default/files/files/event/attachments/TwinsTripletsMoreGuide2020%20.pdf
Author
Leonard, Linda G.
Corporate Author
School of Nursing, University of British Columbia
Edition
The final edition
Place of Publication
Vancouver, BC
Publisher
University of British Columbia
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
PDF; 39 pages
Subject
Multiple Births (includes twins, triplets etc.)
Parenting Multiples (includes twins, triplets etc.)
Pregancy/Childbirth. Obstetrics
Infant Feeding
Infants
Parenting
Abstract
This resource guide is designed for multiple birth families living in Canada, particularly those in British Columbia and the Lower Mainland. Includes information on multiple birth statistics, nutrition and multiple pregnancy, pregnancy at-home care programs, safety, telephone support, and other resources.
Notes
SUBJECT Parenting Infants & Toddlers
Language
English
Material Type
Handout
Online

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Live 5-2-1-0: Mobile App (iOS)

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Shazhan Amed. , 2021.
URL
https://apps.apple.com/ca/app/live-5-2-1-0/id1463825801
Material Type
Online
This app is designed for children aged 8-12 and their parents to build healthy habits by following the simple, yet effective, Live 5-2-1-0 message: FIVE or more vegetables and fruits, no more than TWO hours of recreational screen time, at least ONE hour of active play, and ZERO sugary drinks every …
  1 url  
URL
https://apps.apple.com/ca/app/live-5-2-1-0/id1463825801
Author
Shazhan Amed
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Mobile App
Subject
Children's Health-Diet/Nutrition
Children's Health-Fitness
Parenting
Abstract
This app is designed for children aged 8-12 and their parents to build healthy habits by following the simple, yet effective, Live 5-2-1-0 message: FIVE or more vegetables and fruits, no more than TWO hours of recreational screen time, at least ONE hour of active play, and ZERO sugary drinks every day. Kids can set a goal, then choose fun daily challenges to work towards a reward!
Language
English
Material Type
Online
URLs
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Live 5-2-1-0: Mobile App (Android)

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Shazhan Amed. , 2021.
URL
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.shazhanamed.live5210&hl=en_CA&gl=US
Material Type
Online
This app is designed for children aged 8-12 and their parents to build healthy habits by following the simple, yet effective, Live 5-2-1-0 message: FIVE or more vegetables and fruits, no more than TWO hours of recreational screen time, at least ONE hour of active play, and ZERO sugary drinks every …
  1 url  
URL
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.shazhanamed.live5210&hl=en_CA&gl=US
Author
Shazhan Amed
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Mobile App
Subject
Children's Health-Diet/Nutrition
Children's Health-Fitness
Parenting
Abstract
This app is designed for children aged 8-12 and their parents to build healthy habits by following the simple, yet effective, Live 5-2-1-0 message: FIVE or more vegetables and fruits, no more than TWO hours of recreational screen time, at least ONE hour of active play, and ZERO sugary drinks every day. Kids can set a goal, then choose fun daily challenges to work towards a reward!
Language
English
Material Type
Online
URLs
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How to talk when kids won't listen: Whining, fighting, meltdowns, defiance, and other challenges of childhood

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Faber, Joanna, King, Julie. New York, NY: Scribner , 2021. First Scribner trade paperback edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2021
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.; Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication ski…
Author
Faber, Joanna
King, Julie
Edition
First Scribner trade paperback edition
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Softcover : 387 pages
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Abstract
From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.
Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication skills that will transform readers? relationships with children in their lives. In Part Two, Joanna and Julie answer specific questions and share relatable stories, offering practical tools for addressing issues such as homework hassles, sibling battles, digital dilemmas, problems with punishment, and more. Readers can turn directly to any topic of interest and find the help they need, with handy ?reminder pages.?
ISBN
9781982134143
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2021

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Raising your spirited child: A guide for parents whose child is more intense, sensitive, perceptive, persistent, and energetic

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Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy. New York, NY: William Morrow , 2015. 3rd ed.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 800 KUR 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition, parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do. Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and pr…
Author
Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy
Edition
3rd ed.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
William Morrow
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Softcover; 505 pages
Subject
Child Behaviour
Parenting
Abstract
In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition, parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do. Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and proven strategies for handling the toughest times.
Dr. Kurcinka has devised a plan for success with a simple, four-step program that will help you discover the power of positive - rather than negative - labels, understand your child's and your own temperamental traits, cope with tantrums and blowups when they do occur, develop strategies for handling mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school, and many other situations.
ISBN
9780062403063
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 800 KUR 2015

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Congrats - You're having a teen!: Strengthen your family and raise a good person

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124261
Ginsburg, Kenneth R. Itasca, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics , 2023.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 GIN 2023
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help yo…
Alternate Title
Congrats your're having a teen
Author
Ginsburg, Kenneth R.
Place of Publication
Itasca, IL
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2023
Physical Description
Softcover; 336 pages
Subject
Parent-Young Adult Relationships
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Abstract
Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!
The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.
ISBN
9781610025980
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 GIN 2023

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How to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk

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Faber, Adele, Mazlish, Elaine. New York, NY: Scribner , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:; · Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, …
Author
Faber, Adele
Mazlish, Elaine
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Softcover: 332 p.
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Language/Communication
Abstract
This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:
· Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment
· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful
· Engage your child's willing cooperation
· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill
· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline
· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise
· Resolve family conflicts peacefully
ISBN
9781451663884
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2012

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Far from the tree: Parents, children, and the search for identity

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Solomon, Andrew. [Toronto, ON]: Scribner , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SOL 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodi…
Author
Solomon, Andrew
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Hardcover: 702 p.
Subject
Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities
Parenting Children with Disabilities
Relationships
Parenting
Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities
Abstract
Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
ISBN
9780743236713
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SOL 2012

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The explosive child: A new approach for understanding and parenting easily frustrated, chronically inflexible children

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Greene, Ross W. New York, NY: Harper , 2021. 6th ed,.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
CD 900 GRE 2021a
Availability
3 copies, 1 available
Dr. Ross Greene, a distinguished clinician and pioneer in the treatment of kids with social, emotional, and behavioral challenges, has worked with thousands of explosive children, and he has good news: these kids aren?t attention-seeking, manipulative, or unmotivated, and their parents aren?t passi…
Author
Greene, Ross W.
Edition
6th ed,
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Harper
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Paperback: 254 p.
Subject
Anger
Child Behaviour
Parenting
Abstract
Dr. Ross Greene, a distinguished clinician and pioneer in the treatment of kids with social, emotional, and behavioral challenges, has worked with thousands of explosive children, and he has good news: these kids aren?t attention-seeking, manipulative, or unmotivated, and their parents aren?t passive, permissive pushovers. Rather, explosive kids are lacking some crucial skills in the domains of flexibility/adaptability, frustration tolerance, and problem solving, and they require a different approach to parenting.
Throughout this compassionate, insightful, and practical book, Dr. Greene provides a new conceptual framework for understanding their difficulties, based on research in the neurosciences. He explains why traditional parenting and treatment often don?t work with these children, and he describes what to do instead. Instead of relying on rewarding and punishing, Dr. Greene?s Collaborative Problem Solving model promotes working with explosive children to solve the problems that precipitate explosive episodes, and teaching these kids the skills they lack.
ISBN
9780063092464
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
CD 900 GRE 2021a

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Raising an organized child: 5 steps to boost independence, ease frustration, and promote confidence

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Korb, Damon. Itasca, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics , 2019.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KOR 2019
Organized children are raised, not born. That?s the philosophy behind this confidence-building, sanity-saving book. Fostering organized thinking in your child will help with concrete concerns (think a tidier bedroom!) and build critical life skills like learning to plan and grasping the big picture…
Author
Korb, Damon
Place of Publication
Itasca, IL
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2019
Physical Description
Softcover; 236 pages
Subject
Parenting
Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities
Learning Differences. Learning Disabilities
Abstract
Organized children are raised, not born. That?s the philosophy behind this confidence-building, sanity-saving book. Fostering organized thinking in your child will help with concrete concerns (think a tidier bedroom!) and build critical life skills like learning to plan and grasping the big picture.
Dr. Korb?s 5 Steps to Raising an Organized Child apply to all ages. So, whether you have an infant or a teenager, it?s never too late (or too early!) to foster organization in him or her and harmony in your whole family. Raising an Organized Child presents specific activities for your child?s age and developmental level to improve executive function. *
No matter if your child is just your average chaotic kid or struggling with additional challenges like ADHD, you can boost your child?s organization and lower your frustration with Dr. Korb?s guidance.
ISBN
9781610022828
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KOR 2019
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This is Gabriel making sense of school : A book about sensory processing disorder

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Steiner, Hartley, Fall, Brandon [illustrator]. Sensory World , 2012. 2nd.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR FM 100.6 STE 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This is Gabriel Making Sense of School provides a look into the challenges children with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) face in the classroom. This easy-to-read and beautifully illustrated picture book gives teachers, parents, and students a better understanding of all seven senses, how they are…
Author
Steiner, Hartley
Fall, Brandon [illustrator]
Edition
2nd
Publisher
Sensory World
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
27 p.
Subject
Sensory Processing Challenges
Sensory Processing Disorder
Parenting
Sensory Awareness
Abstract
This is Gabriel Making Sense of School provides a look into the challenges children with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) face in the classroom. This easy-to-read and beautifully illustrated picture book gives teachers, parents, and students a better understanding of all seven senses, how they are each affected at school, and what kinds of accommodations are necessary to help children with SPD become learning sensations.
Ages 5-12
ISBN
9781935567349
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR FM 100.6 STE 2012

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My child's sexuality

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Saint-Pierre, Frédérique, Viau, Marie-France. Montréal: QC: Éditions du CHU Sainte-Justine , 2009.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 880 SAU 2009
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
The authors answer parents' questions about their child's sexuality.
Author
Saint-Pierre, Frédérique
Viau, Marie-France
Place of Publication
Montréal: QC
Publisher
Éditions du CHU Sainte-Justine
Publication Date
2009
Physical Description
Paperback, 76 p.
Subject
Sexuality
Child Behaviour
Parenting
Sexual Health
Abstract
The authors answer parents' questions about their child's sexuality.
ISBN
9782896191499
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 880 SAU 2009

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This is a book for parents of gay kids: A question & answer guide to everyday life

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Owens-Reid, Dannielle, Russo, Kristin. San Francisco, CA: Chronicle Books
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GA 600 OWE 2014
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical to…
Author
Owens-Reid, Dannielle
Russo, Kristin
Place of Publication
San Francisco, CA
Publisher
Chronicle Books
Physical Description
Paperback: 240 pages
Subject
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues
Children's Self-Identity
LGBT
Parenting
Young Adults Sexuality
Abstract
Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical topics. Filled with real-life experiences from gay kids and parents, this is the book gay kids want their parents to read.
ISBN
9781452127538
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GA 600 OWE 2014

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On ne se comprend plus ! : traverser sans dommage la période des portes qui claquent entre 12 et 17 ans

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Filliozat, Isabelle. Marabout, DL: Vanves , 2019.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 300 FIL 2017
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Appréhender et tempérer les troubles de l'adolescence. Tous les ados ne se ressemblent pas. Certains vivent cette période repliés dans leur chambre, d'autres ne cessent de sortir. Certains perdent tout intérêt pour les études, d'autres sont toujours premiers, certains ont le joint aux lèvres dès le…
Alternate Title
On ne se comprend plus ! : traverser sans dommage la periode des portes qui claquent entre 12 et 17 ans
Author
Filliozat, Isabelle
Place of Publication
Marabout, DL
Publisher
Vanves
Publication Date
2019
Physical Description
Softcover ; 249 p.
Subject
Young Adults Health Promotion
Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology
Young Adults-Psychological Development
Young Adults-Education
Parenting
Abstract
Appréhender et tempérer les troubles de l'adolescence. Tous les ados ne se ressemblent pas. Certains vivent cette période repliés dans leur chambre, d'autres ne cessent de sortir. Certains perdent tout intérêt pour les études, d'autres sont toujours premiers, certains ont le joint aux lèvres dès le lever, d'autres n'y toucheraient pour rien au monde et d'autres encore oscillent entre les deux extrêmes. Il reste que certains traits se dégagent et que tous vivent une période complexe. Crise ? Oui, en quelque sorte. L'adolescent traverse une crise, une transformation. L'adolescence inquiète parce que les risques sont effectivement là. Et pour traverser cette étape, Les ados ont besoin de leurs parents. A leurs côtés et non en face d'eux. Conçu comme les précédents - par tranche d'âge -, ce livre explore la psychologie des adolescents, ainsi que certaines composantes biologiques et physiologiques, et aide ainsi à poser un regard nouveau sur les motivations de leurs comportements.
ISBN
9782709658614
Language
French
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 300 FIL 2017

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Making sense of preschoolers: A six hour course explaining what every child needs us to know about them

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Neufeld, Gordon. [Vancouver, BC?]: Gordon Neufeld , 2012.
Material Type
Video
Call Number
GK 601 NEU 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Dr. Neufeld leads us into the interior landscape of the preschooler. He provides insight into their shyness, separation anxieties, aggression, resistance, oppositionality and more. Making sense of these confusing yet wondrous creatures lays the foundation for intuitive and fruitful interaction with…
Author
Neufeld, Gordon
Place of Publication
[Vancouver, BC?]
Publisher
Gordon Neufeld
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
4 DVDs; 6 hours total playing time.
Subject
Parenting
Parenting preschoolers
Abstract
Dr. Neufeld leads us into the interior landscape of the preschooler. He provides insight into their shyness, separation anxieties, aggression, resistance, oppositionality and more. Making sense of these confusing yet wondrous creatures lays the foundation for intuitive and fruitful interaction with them.
This videocourse is intended for parents as well as professionals, early educators as well as daycare providers. The format of this course is highly flexible for study, easily divided into twelve ½ hour sessions, or six 1-hour sessions or four 1 ½ hour sessions.
ISBN
6123430369
Language
English
Material Type
Video
Call Number
GK 601 NEU 2012

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The power of showing up: How parental presence shapes who our kids become and how their brains get wired

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Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. New York: Ballantine Books , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2020
One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distraction…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Place of Publication
New York
Publisher
Ballantine Books
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
Softcover; 238 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.
But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.
Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:
- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.
- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.
- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.
- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!
Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape
ISBN
9781524797737
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2020
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The yes brain: How to cultivate courage, curiosity, and resilience in your child

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Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. New York, NY: Bantam , 2018.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2018
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Bantam
Publication Date
2018
Physical Description
Softcover ; xii, 187 p. ; ill.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be taught to approach life with openness and curiosity. When kids work from a Yes Brain, they?re more willing to take chances and explore. They?re more curious and imaginative. They?re better at relationships and handling adversity. In The Yes Brain, the authors give parents skills, scripts, and activities to bring kids of all ages into the beneficial ?yes? state.
ISBN
9780399594687
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2018

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What to say to kids when nothing seems to work: A practical guide for parents and caregivers

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Lafrance, Adele, Miller, Ashley, Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]. New York, NY: Routledge Taylor & Francis Group , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 LAF 2020
Availability
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What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to e…
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Author
Lafrance, Adele
Miller, Ashley
Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Routledge Taylor & Francis Group
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
259 p.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.
With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.
Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.
ISBN
9781138344631
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 LAF 2020

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copy 2 BC Children's and Women's Family Library On Loan, due Tuesday, December 12, 2023
copy 1 BC Children's and Women's Family Library On Loan, due Wednesday, February 14, 2024
copy 3 BC Children's and Women's Family Library On Loan, due Friday, January 26, 2024
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No-drama discipline: The whole-brain way to calm the chaos and nurture your child's developing mind

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Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. Bantam , 2016.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2016
Availability
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Defining the true meaning of the d-word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as pro…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Publisher
Bantam
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
288 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Defining the true meaning of the d-word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you?ll discover:
? strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy?and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart
? facts on child brain development?and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages
? the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child?no matter how extreme the behavior?while still setting clear and consistent limits
? tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair
? twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make?and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques.
ISBN
978-0345548061
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2016

Copies

copy 1 BC Children's and Women's Family Library On Loan, due Tuesday, May 21, 2024
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