Author

Langley, Jenny

Place of Publication

London, UK

Publisher

Paul Chapman Publishing

Publication Date

2006

Physical Description

Paperback, 178 p.

Subject

Anorexia Nervosa

Eating Disorders

Male Emotional Health

Abstract

A case study of a twelve-year-old boy who developed anorexia nervosa. Contains information intended to be helpful for parents, teachers and sports coaching staff.

ISBN

9781412920223

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

BB 520 LAN 2006

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 352 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9780143188865

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 280 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9787309099058

Language

English

Chinese

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015b

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Author

Kaiser Greenland, Susan

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Atria Paperback

Publication Date

2010

Physical Description

Softcover: 219 p.

Subject

Mind/Body

Children's Health-Complementary Therapies

Parenting

Abstract

Mindful awareness works by enabling you to pay closer attention to what is happening within you - your thoughts, feelings, and emotions - so you can better understand what is happening to you. "The Mindful Child" extends the vast benefits of mindfulness training to children from four to eighteen years old with age-appropriate exercises, songs, games, and fables that Susan Kaiser Greenland has developed over more than a decade of teaching mindful awareness to kids.

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

EG 200 KAI 2010

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Author

Nelsen, Jane

Foster, Steven

Raphael, Arlene

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Three Rivers Press

Publication Date

2011

Physical Description

Softcover: 220 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Social Skills

Abstract

Part of the bestselling "Positive Discipline" series, this book teaches an approach to child rearing and teaching that emphasizes helping children learn valuable social and life skills that will help them make responsible decisions that lead to a more productive and satisfying life. This book is appropriate for children with a wide variety of "special needs," including autism, fetal alcohol effect, and traumatic brain injury, among others.

ISBN

9780307589828

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 670 NEL 2011

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Penguin Random house

Publication Date

2014

Physical Description

Hardcover: 316 p.

Subject

Parenting

Social Behaviour

Social Skills

Abstract

In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research, Dr. Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, joyful, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success.

ISBN

9780670067565

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Status

Processing

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2014

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Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth

Ginsburg, Ilana

Ginsburg, Talia

Place of Publication

Elk Grove Village, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Paperback: 275 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The authors explore an innovative idea in parenting: "The Lighthouse Parenting Strategy." This strategy answers 2 of the toughest questions with which parents struggle: 1) How do I give my child the unconditional love he needs to thrive, while also holding him to high expectations? and 2)How do I protect my child while also letting her learn life's lessons?

ISBN

9781581108675

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 GIN 2015

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Author

Grahl, Gary A.

Place of Publication

Clearfield, UT

Publisher

American Legacy Media

Publication Date

2007

Physical Description

Paperback, 243 p.

Subject

Anorexia Nervosa

Eating Disorders

Male Emotional Health

Abstract

A biographical account of a young man's battle and triumph over the eating disorder anorexia nervosa.

ISBN

9780976154747

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH BB 520 GRA 2007

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Alternate Title

I am happy sad today

Author

Brittain, Lory

Rivera, Matthew [ill.]

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Hardcover; 35 pages

Subject

Emotional Health

Abstract

This friendly picture book helps young children make sense of mixed-up emotions.

Happy, and also sad. Excited, but nervous too. Feeling friendly, with a little shyness mixed in. Mixed feelings are natural, but they can be confusing. There are different kinds of happy - the quiet kind and the noisy, giggly, jump and run kind. And there are conflicting feelings, like proud and jealous, frustrated and determined. With gentle messaging and charming illustrations, a little girl talks about her many layered feelings, ultimately concluding, 'When I have more than one feeling inside me, I don't have to choose just one. I know that all my feelings are okay at the same time.'

A special section for adults presents ideas for helping children explore their emotions, build a vocabulary of feeling words, know what to do if they feel overwhelmed, and more.

ISBN

9781631983054

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CA 200 BRI 2019

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Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

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Author

Allen, Vanessa Green

Place of Publication

Emeryville, CA

Publisher

Rockridge Press

Publication Date

2018

Physical Description

Softcover : 76 pages

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

The term bullying is used a lot these days. What does bullying actually mean? How do you know if it's happening to you? And if you are being bullied, what can you do about it? Being bullied hurts and it's easy to feel as though you don't have any power, which can be scary and lonely. But you're not powerless, and you're definitely not alone. Here you'll find the information you need to know about bullying as well as tips and tricks for dealing with specific situations when you or someone you know is being bullied

Notes

Recommended for ages 7-12.

ISBN

9781641520713

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 ALL 2018

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Author

Delahooke, Mona

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper Wave

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover : 343 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.

When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.

When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

ISBN

9780063061316

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 DEL 2022

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Author

Shanker, Dr. Stuart

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Penguin Canada

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 307 p.

Subject

Parenting

Stress Reduction Techniques

Emotional Health

Social Behaviour

Behaviour Therapy. Behaviour Modification

Abstract

The first parenting book to bring the science and psychology of children's behavior together to build brain/body awareness for self-regulation and success Self-Reg is a ground-breaking book that presents an entirely new understanding of your child's emotions and behavior that serves as a practical guide for parents to help their kids engage calmly and successfully in learning and life. Rooted in decades of clinical practice and research by leading child psychologist Dr. Stuart Shanker, Self-Reg realigns the power of the parent-child relationship for positive change. Self-regulation is the nervous system's way of responding to stress. We are seeing a generation of children and teens with excessively high levels of stress and, as a result, an explosion of emotional, social, learning, behavior, and physical health problems. But few parents recognize the "hidden stressors" that their children are struggling with: physiological as well as social and emotional. An entrenched view of child rearing is seeing our children as lacking self-control or will-power, but the real basis for these problems lies in excessive stress. Self-regulation can dramatically improve a child's mood, attention, and concentration. It can help children to feel empathy and to develop the sorts of virtues that every parent knows are vital for their child's long-term well-being. Self-regulation brings about profound and lasting transformation that continues to mature throughout life. Shanker translates decades of his findings from working with children into practical, prescriptive advice for parents, giving them concrete ways to develop their self-regulation skills and teach their children how to do the same for optimal learning, social, and emotional growth as well as for overall well-being.

ISBN

9780143191575

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 200 SHA 2017

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Author

Meeker, Meg

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

368 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Boys today face unique challenges and pressures, and the burden on mothers to guide their boys through them can feel overwhelming. This book offers a road map to help mothers find the strength and confidence to raise extraordinary sons by providing encouragement, education, and practical advice about:

? the need for mothers to exercise courage and be bolder and more confident about advising and directing their boys

? the crucial role mothers play in expressing love to sons in healthy ways so they learn to respect and appreciate women as they grow up

? the importance of teaching sons about the values of hard work, community service, and a well-developed inner life

? the natural traps mothers of boys often fall into?and how to avoid them

? the need for a mother to heal her own wounds with the men in her life so she can raise her son without baggage and limitations

? the best ways to survive the moments when the going gets tough and a mom?s natural ways of communicating?talking, analyzing, exploring?only fuel the fire.

ISBN

978-0345518101

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 MEE 2015

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Alternate Title

Men, women and worthiness

Author

Brown, Brene

Place of Publication

Boulder, CO

Publisher

Sounds True

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Audio CD: 2 discs (134 min.)

Subject

Emotional Health

Shame

Abstract

Dr. Brene Brown draws upon more than twelve years of investigation to reveal how we can disarm the influence of shame to cultivate a life of greater courage, joy, and love. She invites you to explore: 1. The differences and similarities between the experience of shame for men and women; 2. Guilt vs. shame - why one helps us grow, while the other keeps us small; 3. The four elements of shame resilience - identifying our triggers, practicing critical awareness, sharing our story, and speaking honestly; 4. Empathy as the primary antidote to shame.

Notes

Recommended by CCDP

Language

English

Material Type

CD

Audio

Call Number

CA 235 BRO 2012

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Author

Lynn, Kathy

Place of Publication

North Vancouver, BC

Publisher

Whitecap Books Ltd.

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Softcover: 136 p.

Subject

Young Adults-Life Transitions

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Abstract

Covering all stages in a child's life, from toddlers to teenagers and their postsecondary years, this book offers practical advice to parents that will help their children develop into capable, independent adults. This resource examines a parent's influence over a child's playtime, temperament, friendships and disappointments, and offers suggestions about when to encourage children and youth to make their own decisions.

ISBN

I552857034

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 800 LYN 2005

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URL

www.parentsupportbc.ca/for-grandparents/

Corporate Author

Parent Support Services Society of BC

University of Victoria School of Social Work

Place of Publication

[Victoria, BC?]

Publisher

Parent Support Services Society of BC; University of Victoria School of Social Work

Publication Date

2014

Subject

Parenting Grandchildren

Legal Works

Abstract

This book is of use to grandparents as well as the professionals and legal service providers that support them. It is based on interviews with nearly 200 grandparents across the

province of British Columbia who have had to deal with the issues and challenges of raising their grandchildren. It provides legal information, useful tips and also lists community resources.

Language

English

Material Type

Online

Author

Lesser, Elizabeth

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Villard Books

Publication Date

2005

Physical Description

Softcover; 311 pages

Subject

Emotional Health

Stress

Stress Reduction

Stress Reduction Techniques

Abstract

In the more than twenty-five years since she co-founded Omega Institute - now the world's largest center for spiritual retreat and personal growth -Elizabeth Lesser has been an intimate witness to the ways in which people weather change and transition. In a beautifully crafted blend of moving stories, humorous insights, practical guidance, and personal memoir, she offers tools to help us make the choice we all face in times of challenge: Will we be broken down and defeated, or broken open and transformed? Lesser shares tales of ordinary people who have risen from the ashes of illness, divorce, loss of a job or a loved one - stronger, wiser, and more in touch with their purpose and passion. And she draws on the world's great spiritual and psychological traditions to support us as we too learn to break open and blossom into who we were meant to be.

Notes

Recommended by CCDP

ISBN

9780375759918

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CA 200 LES 2004

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Author

Nelsen, Jane

Erwin, Cheryl

Duffy, Rosslyn Ann

Edition

4th Edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harmony Books

Publication Date

2019

Subject

Parenting

Parenting Toddlers

Abstract

Caring for young children is one of the most challenging tasks an adult will ever face. No matter how much you love your child, there will be moments filled with frustration, anger, and even desperation. There will also be questions: Why does my four-year-old deliberately lie to me? Why is everything a struggle with my three-year-old? Should I ever spank my preschooler when she is disobedient? Over the years, millions of parents have come to trust the Positive Discipline series and its common-sense approach to child-rearing.

This revised and updated fourth edition includes a new chapter on the importance of play and outdoor experiences on child development, along with new information on school readiness, childhood brain growth, and social/emotional learning. You'll also find practical solutions for how to:

- Teach appropriate social skills at an early age

- Avoid the power struggles that often come with mastering sleeping, eating, and potty training

- See misbehavior as an opportunity to teach nonpunitive discipline--not punishment

ISBN

978-0525576419

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 NEL 2019

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Author

Reynolds, Kate E.

Powell, Jonathan (Ill.)

Place of Publication

Philadelphia, PA

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Hardcover

Subject

Sexuality

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Abstract

Tom notices that his body is changing. Tom's voice is different and hair is growing in new places. There are other changes happening too. Tom learns that he has started growing into a man.

Following Tom as he begins to notice changes to his body, this simple resource helps parents and carers teach boys with autism or other special needs about puberty. It covers all the changes that they will experience, both emotional such as new feelings and physical such as wet dreams. This fully illustrated positive and entertaining book provides the perfect opportunity to talk about puberty with boys and young men with autism or special needs.

ISBN

9781849055239

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH GA 100 REY 2015b

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