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Raising kids who can protect themselves

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Gardner, Debbie, Gardner, Mike. New York, NY: McGraw-Hill , 2004.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 GAR 2004
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Shows how to teach kids to protect themselves when parents aren't there to take care of them. Includes age-appropriate methods for overcoming fear, reducing vulnerability, and building self-protection instincts; courage coaching as a way to create a "family" defense system; life-saving skills, such…
Author
Gardner, Debbie
Gardner, Mike
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
McGraw-Hill
Publication Date
2004
Physical Description
Paperback; viii, 183 p.
Subject
Parenting
Child Development
Self Defense Training
Abstract
Shows how to teach kids to protect themselves when parents aren't there to take care of them. Includes age-appropriate methods for overcoming fear, reducing vulnerability, and building self-protection instincts; courage coaching as a way to create a "family" defense system; life-saving skills, such as quality eye contact, voice control, breathing, control of inappropriate crying, development of positive self-talk, and space awareness.
Notes
Reviewed by BCCH/BCW Health Professional on 2013.
ISBN
0071437983
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 GAR 2004

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Dolphin parent: A guide to raising healthy, happy, and self-motivated kids

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Kang, Shimi K. New York, NY: Penguin , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Penguin
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Softcover, 352 p.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
ISBN
9780143188865
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015

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Dolphin parent: A guide to raising healthy, happy, and self-motivated kids

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Kang, Shimi K. New York, NY: Penguin , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015b
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Penguin
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Softcover, 280 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.
ISBN
9787309099058
Language
English
Chinese
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2015b

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Brain-body parenting : How to stop managing behavior and start raising joyful, resilient kids

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Delahooke, Mona. New York, NY: Harper Wave , 2022. First edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 DEL 2022
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the es…
Author
Delahooke, Mona
Edition
First edition
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Harper Wave
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
Hardcover : 343 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.
When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.
When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.
ISBN
9780063061316
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 DEL 2022

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Raising boys: Why boys are different - and how to help them become happy and well-balanced men

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Biddulph, Steve. Berkeley, CA: Cellestial Arts , 2008. 2nd edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
CA 195 BID 2008
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Written by an Australian family therapist, this practical guide provides a supportive approach to parenting boys. Citing such gender specific risks facing boys as a higher percentage of learning disabilities to greater threats of violence and suicide, the author offers parenting strategies for thre…
Author
Biddulph, Steve
Edition
2nd edition
Place of Publication
Berkeley, CA
Publisher
Cellestial Arts
Publication Date
2008
Physical Description
Softcover: 215 p.
Subject
Male Emotional Health
Parenting
Abstract
Written by an Australian family therapist, this practical guide provides a supportive approach to parenting boys. Citing such gender specific risks facing boys as a higher percentage of learning disabilities to greater threats of violence and suicide, the author offers parenting strategies for three distinct stages of growth: birth to six years; six to 14; and 14 to adult. It includes sidebars, photos and cartoons, and each chapter wraps up with a summary. For parents of both boys and girls.
ISBN
9781587613289
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
CA 195 BID 2008

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The dolphin way: A parent's guide to raising healthy, happy, and motivated kids without turning into a tiger

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Kang, Shimi K. [Toronto, ON]: Penguin Random house , 2014.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2014
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral res…
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Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Penguin Random house
Publication Date
2014
Physical Description
Hardcover: 316 p.
Subject
Parenting
Social Behaviour
Social Skills
Abstract
In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research, Dr. Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, joyful, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success.
ISBN
9780670067565
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Status
Processing
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2014

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Letting go with love and confidence: Raising responsible, resilient, self-sufficient teens in the 21st century

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Ginsburg, Kenneth, Fitzgerald, Susan. [Toronto, ON]: Penguin Group , 2011.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 GIN 2011
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A parenting guide to adolescence - a sensible and considerate resource for navigating your teen to adulthood, transforming a traditional time of strife into an opportunity for positive growth for both you and your child. Letting Go with Live and Confidence is filled with the latest findings on succ…
Author
Ginsburg, Kenneth
Fitzgerald, Susan
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Penguin Group
Publication Date
2011
Physical Description
Softcover: 335 p.
Subject
Parent-Young Adult Relationships
Abstract
A parenting guide to adolescence - a sensible and considerate resource for navigating your teen to adulthood, transforming a traditional time of strife into an opportunity for positive growth for both you and your child. Letting Go with Live and Confidence is filled with the latest findings on successful parenting and is infused with Dr. Ginsburg's expert advice on how to build resilience in teens. This comprehensive volume also contains stories from real parents from diverse backgrounds who have faced the challenges of raising teens. Empowering and groundbreaking, this book is a one-stop resource to parenting teens in the twenty-first century.
ISBN
9781583334294
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 GIN 2011

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Grandparents raising grandchildren: A legal guide

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Parent Support Services Society of BC, University of Victoria School of Social Work. [Victoria, BC?]: Parent Support Services Society of BC; University of Victoria School of Social Work , 2014.
URL
www.parentsupportbc.ca/for-grandparents/
Material Type
Online
This book is of use to grandparents as well as the professionals and legal service providers that support them. It is based on interviews with nearly 200 grandparents across the; province of British Columbia who have had to deal with the issues and challenges of raising their grandchildren. It prov…
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URL
www.parentsupportbc.ca/for-grandparents/
Corporate Author
Parent Support Services Society of BC
University of Victoria School of Social Work
Place of Publication
[Victoria, BC?]
Publisher
Parent Support Services Society of BC; University of Victoria School of Social Work
Publication Date
2014
Subject
Parenting Grandchildren
Legal Works
Abstract
This book is of use to grandparents as well as the professionals and legal service providers that support them. It is based on interviews with nearly 200 grandparents across the
province of British Columbia who have had to deal with the issues and challenges of raising their grandchildren. It provides legal information, useful tips and also lists community resources.
Language
English
Material Type
Online
URLs
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Positive discipline for preschoolers: For their early years -raising children who are responsible, respectful and resourceful

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Nelsen, Jane, Erwin, Cheryl, Duffy, Rosslyn Ann. New York, NY: Harmony Books , 2019. 4th Edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEL 2019
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Caring for young children is one of the most challenging tasks an adult will ever face. No matter how much you love your child, there will be moments filled with frustration, anger, and even desperation. There will also be questions: Why does my four-year-old deliberately lie to me? Why is everythi…
Author
Nelsen, Jane
Erwin, Cheryl
Duffy, Rosslyn Ann
Edition
4th Edition
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Harmony Books
Publication Date
2019
Subject
Parenting
Parenting Toddlers
Abstract
Caring for young children is one of the most challenging tasks an adult will ever face. No matter how much you love your child, there will be moments filled with frustration, anger, and even desperation. There will also be questions: Why does my four-year-old deliberately lie to me? Why is everything a struggle with my three-year-old? Should I ever spank my preschooler when she is disobedient? Over the years, millions of parents have come to trust the Positive Discipline series and its common-sense approach to child-rearing.
This revised and updated fourth edition includes a new chapter on the importance of play and outdoor experiences on child development, along with new information on school readiness, childhood brain growth, and social/emotional learning. You'll also find practical solutions for how to:
- Teach appropriate social skills at an early age
- Avoid the power struggles that often come with mastering sleeping, eating, and potty training
- See misbehavior as an opportunity to teach nonpunitive discipline--not punishment
ISBN
978-0525576419
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEL 2019

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Raising an organized child: 5 steps to boost independence, ease frustration, and promote confidence

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Korb, Damon. Itasca, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics , 2019.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KOR 2019
Organized children are raised, not born. That?s the philosophy behind this confidence-building, sanity-saving book. Fostering organized thinking in your child will help with concrete concerns (think a tidier bedroom!) and build critical life skills like learning to plan and grasping the big picture…
Author
Korb, Damon
Place of Publication
Itasca, IL
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2019
Physical Description
Softcover; 236 pages
Subject
Parenting
Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities
Learning Differences. Learning Disabilities
Abstract
Organized children are raised, not born. That?s the philosophy behind this confidence-building, sanity-saving book. Fostering organized thinking in your child will help with concrete concerns (think a tidier bedroom!) and build critical life skills like learning to plan and grasping the big picture.
Dr. Korb?s 5 Steps to Raising an Organized Child apply to all ages. So, whether you have an infant or a teenager, it?s never too late (or too early!) to foster organization in him or her and harmony in your whole family. Raising an Organized Child presents specific activities for your child?s age and developmental level to improve executive function. *
No matter if your child is just your average chaotic kid or struggling with additional challenges like ADHD, you can boost your child?s organization and lower your frustration with Dr. Korb?s guidance.
ISBN
9781610022828
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KOR 2019
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Raising twins: Parenting multiples from pregnancy through the school years

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Vaziri Flais, Shelly. American Academy of Pediatrics , 2019. 3rd ed.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=5884307
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
GK 602 VAZ 2019
Pediatrician and twin-mom, Dr. Shelly Vaziri Flais, offers expert advice for raising healthy, well-adjusted twins and triplets. Her guidance will help parents of multiples prepare for their babies' arrival, weather the first few months of infancy, manage toddlerhood, and help establish individual i…
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URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=5884307
Author
Vaziri Flais, Shelly
Edition
3rd ed.
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2019
Subject
Parenting Multiples (includes twins, triplets etc.)
Abstract
Pediatrician and twin-mom, Dr. Shelly Vaziri Flais, offers expert advice for raising healthy, well-adjusted twins and triplets. Her guidance will help parents of multiples prepare for their babies' arrival, weather the first few months of infancy, manage toddlerhood, and help establish individual identities through the school-age and teenage years. The combination of sound medical advice and real-world experience will give twin-parents the direction and reassurance that they need. Packed with thoughtful advice, parenting tips, and anecdotes from twin-moms and -dads, this edition also includes interviews with twins, like astronaut Scott Kelly.
ISBN
9781610023351
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
GK 602 VAZ 2019
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Positive discipline for children with special needs: Raising and teaching all children to become resilient, responsible, and respectful

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Nelsen, Jane, Foster, Steven, Raphael, Arlene. New York, NY: Three Rivers Press , 2011.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 670 NEL 2011
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Part of the bestselling "Positive Discipline" series, this book teaches an approach to child rearing and teaching that emphasizes helping children learn valuable social and life skills that will help them make responsible decisions that lead to a more productive and satisfying life. This book is ap…
Author
Nelsen, Jane
Foster, Steven
Raphael, Arlene
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Three Rivers Press
Publication Date
2011
Physical Description
Softcover: 220 p.
Subject
Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities
Parenting Children with Disabilities
Social Skills
Abstract
Part of the bestselling "Positive Discipline" series, this book teaches an approach to child rearing and teaching that emphasizes helping children learn valuable social and life skills that will help them make responsible decisions that lead to a more productive and satisfying life. This book is appropriate for children with a wide variety of "special needs," including autism, fetal alcohol effect, and traumatic brain injury, among others.
ISBN
9780307589828
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 670 NEL 2011

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Raising your spirited child: A guide for parents whose child is more intense, sensitive, perceptive, persistent, and energetic

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Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy. New York, NY: William Morrow , 2015. 3rd ed.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 800 KUR 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition, parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do. Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and pr…
Author
Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy
Edition
3rd ed.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
William Morrow
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Softcover; 505 pages
Subject
Child Behaviour
Parenting
Abstract
In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition, parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do. Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and proven strategies for handling the toughest times.
Dr. Kurcinka has devised a plan for success with a simple, four-step program that will help you discover the power of positive - rather than negative - labels, understand your child's and your own temperamental traits, cope with tantrums and blowups when they do occur, develop strategies for handling mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school, and many other situations.
ISBN
9780062403063
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 800 KUR 2015

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Positive discipline parenting tools: the 49 most effective methods to stop power struggles, build communication, and raise empowered, capable kids

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Nelsen, Jane, Tamborski, Mary Nelsen, Ainge, Brad. New York, NY: Harmony Books , 2016. First edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEL 2016
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Using these 49 Positive Discipline tools, honed and perfected after years of real-world research and feedback, you'll be able to work with your children instead of against them. The goal isn't perfection but providing you with the techniques you need to help your children develop the life and socia…
Author
Nelsen, Jane
Tamborski, Mary Nelsen
Ainge, Brad
Edition
First edition
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Harmony Books
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
Softcover. 365 pages.
Subject
Parenting
Child Development
Abstract
Using these 49 Positive Discipline tools, honed and perfected after years of real-world research and feedback, you'll be able to work with your children instead of against them. The goal isn't perfection but providing you with the techniques you need to help your children develop the life and social skills you hope for them, such as respect for self and others, problem-solving ability, and self-regulation.
The tenets of Positive Discipline consistently foster mutual respect so that any child - from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager - can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline without losing his or her dignity. In this new parenting guidebook, you'll find day-to-day exercises for parents to improve their parenting skills, along with success stories from parents worldwide who have benefited from the Positive Discipline philosophy. With training tools and personal examples from the authors, you will learn:
· The 'hidden belief' behind a child's misbehavior, and how to respond accordingly
· The best way to focus on solutions instead of dwelling on the negative
· How to encourage your child without pampering or praising
· How to teach your child to make mistakes and follow through on agreements
· How to foster creative thinking
ISBN
9781101905340
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEL 2016

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How to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk

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Faber, Adele, Mazlish, Elaine. New York, NY: Scribner , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:; · Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, …
Author
Faber, Adele
Mazlish, Elaine
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Softcover: 332 p.
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Language/Communication
Abstract
This is the latest edition of the classic book. It includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including ways to:
· Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment
· Express your strong feelings without being hurtful
· Engage your child's willing cooperation
· Set firm limits and maintain goodwill
· Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline
· Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise
· Resolve family conflicts peacefully
ISBN
9781451663884
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2012

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The highly sensitive child: Helping our children thrive when the world overwhelms them

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Aron, Elaine N. , 2002.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 ARO 2002
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
The Highly Sensitive Child shows how HSCs are born deeply reflective, sensitive to the subtle, and easily overwhelmed. These qualities can make for smart, conscientious, creative children, but with the wrong parenting or schooling, they can become unusually shy or timid, or begin acting out. In thi…
Website Notes
GK 600 ARO 2002
Author
Aron, Elaine N.
Publication Date
2002
Physical Description
368 p.
Subject
Parenting
Child Development
Child Social Behaviour
Abstract
The Highly Sensitive Child shows how HSCs are born deeply reflective, sensitive to the subtle, and easily overwhelmed. These qualities can make for smart, conscientious, creative children, but with the wrong parenting or schooling, they can become unusually shy or timid, or begin acting out. In this pioneering work, parents will find helpful self-tests and case studies to help them understand their HSC, along with thorough advice on parenting a highly sensitive child.
ISBN
9780767908726
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 ARO 2002

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What to say to kids when nothing seems to work: A practical guide for parents and caregivers

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Lafrance, Adele, Miller, Ashley, Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]. New York, NY: Routledge Taylor & Francis Group , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 LAF 2020
Availability
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What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to e…
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Author
Lafrance, Adele
Miller, Ashley
Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Routledge Taylor & Francis Group
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
259 p.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.
With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.
Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.
ISBN
9781138344631
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 LAF 2020

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Feeding with love and good sense : The first 2 years

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Satter, Ellyn. Madison, WI: Kelcy Press , 2013.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
BB 200 SAT 2013
Availability
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A good feeding relationship with your child starts at day one and makes all the difference between joy or struggle in feeding. This brief, beautiful, compact, engaging booklet gets today?s busy parents off to a good and authoritative start with feeding. Full of Satter's pithy advice and real-life f…
Author
Satter, Ellyn
Place of Publication
Madison, WI
Publisher
Kelcy Press
Publication Date
2013
Subject
Feeding and Nutrition
Parenting
Nutrition
Abstract
A good feeding relationship with your child starts at day one and makes all the difference between joy or struggle in feeding. This brief, beautiful, compact, engaging booklet gets today?s busy parents off to a good and authoritative start with feeding. Full of Satter's pithy advice and real-life feeding stories. Gives a concise behavioral and nutritional guide to feeding children, emphasizing what to do in words and pictures, and demonstrating why to do it with feeding stories. The emphasis is on tuning in on, understanding, and feeding children in a stage-appropriate way. Sixth grade reading level.
ISBN
9780967118956
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
BB 200 SAT 2013

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Raising my rainbow: Adventures in raising a fabulous, gender creative son

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Duron, Lori, Harris, Neil Patrick (foreword), Burtka, David (foreword). New York, NY: Broadway Books , 2013.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 716 DUR 2013
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Raising My Rainbow is Lori Duron's frank, heartfelt, and brutally funny account of her and her family's adventures of distress and happiness raising a gender-creative son. Whereas her older son, Chase, is a Lego-loving, sports-playing boy's boy, her younger son, C.J., would much rather twirl around…
Author
Duron, Lori
Harris, Neil Patrick (foreword)
Burtka, David (foreword)
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Broadway Books
Publication Date
2013
Physical Description
Softcover: 278 p.
Subject
Gender Reassignment
Sexual Health
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues
Children's Self-Identity
Young Adults Sexuality
LGBT
Abstract
Raising My Rainbow is Lori Duron's frank, heartfelt, and brutally funny account of her and her family's adventures of distress and happiness raising a gender-creative son. Whereas her older son, Chase, is a Lego-loving, sports-playing boy's boy, her younger son, C.J., would much rather twirl around in a pink sparkly tutu, with a Disney Princess in each hand while singing Lady Gaga's "Paparazzi."
C.J. is gender variant or gender nonconforming, whichever you prefer. Whatever the term, Lori has a boy who likes girl stuff - really likes girl stuff. He floats on the gender-variation spectrum from super-macho-masculine on the left all the way to super-girly-feminine on the right. He's not all pink and not all blue. He's a muddled mess or a rainbow creation. Lori and her family choose to see the rainbow.
ISBN
9780770437725
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 716 DUR 2013

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Receiving David: The gift of a son who taught us how to live and love

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Knol, Faye. Grand Rapids, Michigan: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company , 2010.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 655 KNO 2010
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
David Knol was born dangerously premature and wasn?t expected to live more than a few hours. He not only survived but went on to live a life full of joy and blessing, despite severe physical and intellectual disabilities. In this memoir, David's mother shares the story of David's life and the remar…
Author
Knol, Faye
Place of Publication
Grand Rapids, Michigan
Publisher
William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company
Publication Date
2010
Physical Description
Softcover: 163 p.
Subject
Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities
Parenting Children with Disabilities
Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities
Developmental Disability
Intensive Care Units-Neonatal. Infants
Abstract
David Knol was born dangerously premature and wasn?t expected to live more than a few hours. He not only survived but went on to live a life full of joy and blessing, despite severe physical and intellectual disabilities. In this memoir, David's mother shares the story of David's life and the remarkable gifts he taught those around him during his 22 years.
ISBN
9780802865434
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 655 KNO 2010

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Feeding with love and good sense : 18 months through 6 years

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Satter, Ellyn. Madison, WI: Kelcy Press , 2013.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
BB 200 SAT 2013b
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
Feeding with Love and Good Sense: 18 Months through 6 Years provides supportive, concise, accessible, and authoritative parent guidance relative to feeding and parenting. Appropriate for medical and educational settings, health care, public health, mental health, and public service.
Author
Satter, Ellyn
Place of Publication
Madison, WI
Publisher
Kelcy Press
Publication Date
2013
Subject
Feeding and Nutrition
Parenting
Nutrition
Abstract
Feeding with Love and Good Sense: 18 Months through 6 Years provides supportive, concise, accessible, and authoritative parent guidance relative to feeding and parenting. Appropriate for medical and educational settings, health care, public health, mental health, and public service.
ISBN
9780967118970
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
BB 200 SAT 2013b

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How to talk when kids won't listen: Whining, fighting, meltdowns, defiance, and other challenges of childhood

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Faber, Joanna, King, Julie. New York, NY: Scribner , 2021. First Scribner trade paperback edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2021
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.; Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication ski…
Author
Faber, Joanna
King, Julie
Edition
First Scribner trade paperback edition
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Softcover : 387 pages
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Abstract
From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.
Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication skills that will transform readers? relationships with children in their lives. In Part Two, Joanna and Julie answer specific questions and share relatable stories, offering practical tools for addressing issues such as homework hassles, sibling battles, digital dilemmas, problems with punishment, and more. Readers can turn directly to any topic of interest and find the help they need, with handy ?reminder pages.?
ISBN
9781982134143
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2021

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Strong mothers, strong sons: Lessons mothers need to raise extraordinary men

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Meeker, Meg. Ballantine Books , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 MEE 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Boys today face unique challenges and pressures, and the burden on mothers to guide their boys through them can feel overwhelming. This book offers a road map to help mothers find the strength and confidence to raise extraordinary sons by providing encouragement, education, and practical advice abo…
Author
Meeker, Meg
Publisher
Ballantine Books
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
368 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Boys today face unique challenges and pressures, and the burden on mothers to guide their boys through them can feel overwhelming. This book offers a road map to help mothers find the strength and confidence to raise extraordinary sons by providing encouragement, education, and practical advice about:
? the need for mothers to exercise courage and be bolder and more confident about advising and directing their boys
? the crucial role mothers play in expressing love to sons in healthy ways so they learn to respect and appreciate women as they grow up
? the importance of teaching sons about the values of hard work, community service, and a well-developed inner life
? the natural traps mothers of boys often fall into?and how to avoid them
? the need for a mother to heal her own wounds with the men in her life so she can raise her son without baggage and limitations
? the best ways to survive the moments when the going gets tough and a mom?s natural ways of communicating?talking, analyzing, exploring?only fuel the fire.
ISBN
978-0345518101
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 MEE 2015

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See it. Say it. Do it!: The Parent's & teacher's action guide to creating successful students and confident kids

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Hellerstein, Lynn F. Centennial, CO: HiCLEAR Publishing , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 HEL 2012
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
When kids feel good about themselves, they naturally perform better. This book will take you step-by-step through the process of helping your children transform negative thoughts, images and feelings into positive affirming ones that result in successful behavior and feelings of greater confidence.
Author
Hellerstein, Lynn F.
Place of Publication
Centennial, CO
Publisher
HiCLEAR Publishing
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Softcover: 238 p.
Subject
Parenting
Visualization
Abstract
When kids feel good about themselves, they naturally perform better. This book will take you step-by-step through the process of helping your children transform negative thoughts, images and feelings into positive affirming ones that result in successful behavior and feelings of greater confidence.
ISBN
9780984177905
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 HEL 2012

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The tech solution : Creating healthy habits for kids growing up in a digital world: Includes a 6-step plan for success

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Kang, Shimi K. Toronto, ON: Viking Penguin Inc. , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2020
Availability
3 copies, 2 available
The Tech Solution is a to-the-point resource for parents and educators who want the best approach for raising kids in our digital world. It outlines all you need to know about the short-term and potential long-term consequences of tech use. Dr. Kang simplifies cutting edge neuroscience to reveal a …
Author
Kang, Shimi K.
Place of Publication
Toronto, ON
Publisher
Viking Penguin Inc.
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
320 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
The Tech Solution is a to-the-point resource for parents and educators who want the best approach for raising kids in our digital world. It outlines all you need to know about the short-term and potential long-term consequences of tech use. Dr. Kang simplifies cutting edge neuroscience to reveal a new understanding around how we metabolize experiences with technology that will lay the foundation for lasting success. On top of that, she offers practical advice for tackling specific concerns in the classroom or at home, whether it's possible tech addiction, anxiety, cyberbullying, or loneliness. With her 6-week 6-step plan for rebalancing your family's tech diet, Dr. Kang will help your child build healthy habits and make smart choices that will maximize the benefits of tech and minimize its risks.
ISBN
9780735239548
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 KAN 2020

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The power of showing up: How parental presence shapes who our kids become and how their brains get wired

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Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. New York: Ballantine Books , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2020
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distraction…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Place of Publication
New York
Publisher
Ballantine Books
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
Softcover; 238 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.
But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.
Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:
- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.
- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.
- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.
- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!
Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape
ISBN
9781524797737
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2020

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Building resilience in children and teens : Giving kids roots and wings

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Ginsburg, Kenneth, Jablow, Martha. American Academy of Pediatrics , 2020. 4th ed.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6178168
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
GK 600 GIN 2020
This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.
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URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6178168
Author
Ginsburg, Kenneth
Jablow, Martha
Edition
4th ed.
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2020
Subject
Parenting
Children Mental Health
Abstract
This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.
ISBN
9781610023870
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
GK 600 GIN 2020
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Building resilience in children and teens : Giving kids roots and wings

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Jablow, Martha, Ginsburg, Kenneth. Elk Grove Village, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics , 2015. 3rd ed.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 JAB 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.
Author
Jablow, Martha
Ginsburg, Kenneth
Edition
3rd ed.
Place of Publication
Elk Grove Village, IL
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2015
Subject
Parenting
Children Mental Health
Abstract
This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.
ISBN
9781581108668
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 JAB 2015

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No regrets parenting: Turning long days and short years into cherished moments with your kids

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog112010
Rotbart, Harley A. Kansas City, Missouri: Andrews McMeel Publishing , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 ROT 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Each exhausting day with young kids can feel like it will never end, yet the years streak by at warp speed. No Regrets Parenting is about time with your kids - finding enough of it and making the most of it. It blends parenting philosophy with practical applications to promote special, everyday mom…
Author
Rotbart, Harley A.
Place of Publication
Kansas City, Missouri
Publisher
Andrews McMeel Publishing
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Paperback: 202 p.
Subject
Parenting
Child Behaviour
Abstract
Each exhausting day with young kids can feel like it will never end, yet the years streak by at warp speed. No Regrets Parenting is about time with your kids - finding enough of it and making the most of it. It blends parenting philosophy with practical applications to promote special, everyday moments with your kids.
ISBN
9781449410940
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 ROT 2012

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How to talk so little kids will listen : A survival guide to life with children ages 2-7

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Faber, Joanna, King, Julie. New York, NY: Scribner , 2017.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2017
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, ta…
Author
Faber, Joanna
King, Julie
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2017
Physical Description
Softcover: 409 p.
Subject
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Communication
Language/Communication
Abstract
For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk's powerful communication skills to parents of children ages two to seven.
Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents, teachers, and pediatricians. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and observations from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the children in your life.
What do you do with a little kid who won't brush her teeth?screams in his car seat?pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables?throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized by common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.
This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old.
ISBN
9781501131639
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 FAB 2017

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Balancing our minds: Inspiring action and creating change for mental health : A toolkit for youth, by youth

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BC Children's Hospital. Vancouver, BC:
URL
https://balancingourminds.ca/
Material Type
Website
Online
The Balancing our Minds Inspiring Action Toolkit aims to support youth wanting to make changes for improved mental health and well-being in their schools and communities. By advocating for change, youth can help create connections and supportive, healthy environments.; Topics to explore:; - How to …
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URL
https://balancingourminds.ca/
Alternate Title
Balancing our minds inspiring action toolkit
Corporate Author
BC Children's Hospital
Place of Publication
Vancouver, BC
Subject
Mental Health
Mental Disorders-Coping
Mental Disorders-Directories. Resource Guides
Abstract
The Balancing our Minds Inspiring Action Toolkit aims to support youth wanting to make changes for improved mental health and well-being in their schools and communities. By advocating for change, youth can help create connections and supportive, healthy environments.
Topics to explore:
- How to start advocating for change for mental well-being
- How to create a safe space
- How to inspire change through storytelling
- How to start a mental health event, club or initiative
- How to start the conversation about mental health
Includes links to additional resources.
Language
English
Material Type
Website
Online
URLs
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Congrats - You're having a teen!: Strengthen your family and raise a good person

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124261
Ginsburg, Kenneth R. Itasca, IL: American Academy of Pediatrics , 2023.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 GIN 2023
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help yo…
Alternate Title
Congrats your're having a teen
Author
Ginsburg, Kenneth R.
Place of Publication
Itasca, IL
Publisher
American Academy of Pediatrics
Publication Date
2023
Physical Description
Softcover; 336 pages
Subject
Parent-Young Adult Relationships
Parenting
Relationships-Parent/Child
Abstract
Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!
The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.
ISBN
9781610025980
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 GIN 2023

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Why will no one play with me?: the play better plan to help kids make friends and thrive

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Maguire, Caroline. London: Penguin Random House UK , 2019.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 850 MAG 2019
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
Why Will No One Play with Me is a groundbreaking program that has helped thousands of children struggling with social skills to make friends, find acceptance, and have a happy childhood.; Every parent wants their child to be okay--to have friends, to be successful, to feel comfortable in his or her…
Author
Maguire, Caroline
Place of Publication
London
Publisher
Penguin Random House UK
Publication Date
2019
Physical Description
Softcover. 354 pages.
Subject
Child Social Behaviour
Friendship
Abstract
Why Will No One Play with Me is a groundbreaking program that has helped thousands of children struggling with social skills to make friends, find acceptance, and have a happy childhood.
Every parent wants their child to be okay--to have friends, to be successful, to feel comfortable in his or her own skin. But many children lack important social and executive functioning skills that allow them to navigate through the world with ease.
In-demand parenting expert and former Hallowell Center coach Caroline Maguire has worked with thousands of families dealing with chronic social dilemmas, ranging from shyness to aggression to ADHD, and more.
In this groundbreaking book named one of the "Best ADHD Books of All Time" by BookAuthority, she shares her decade-in-the-making protocol -- The Play Better Plan -- to help parents coach children of any background to connect with others and make friends. Children of all ages -- truly, from Kindergarten to college age -- will gain the confidence to make friends and get along with others, using tools such as:
Social Sleuthing: learn to pay attention to social cues
. Post-Play Date Huddles: help kids figure out what to look for in a friendship
. Reflective Listening: improve your child's relationship with their peers
With compassion and ease, this program gives parents a tangible, easy-to-follow guide for helping kids develop the executive function and social skills they need to thrive.
ISBN
9781785042232
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 850 MAG 2019

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Loving your teenage daughter (whether she likes it or not): The complete insider's guide for moms

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Alexander, Debra Whiting. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 ALE 2001
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Drawing on detailed interviews, this book offers specific strategies for handling conflicts and power struggles, bolstering a daughter's self-esteem, and coping with problems. The author uses sample dialogues, exercises, and activities to take the terror out of talking about topics such as dating,…
Author
Alexander, Debra Whiting
Place of Publication
Oakland, CA
Publisher
New Harbinger Publications
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
xiii, 208 p.
Subject
Parent-Young Adult Relationships
Parenting
Abstract
Drawing on detailed interviews, this book offers specific strategies for handling conflicts and power struggles, bolstering a daughter's self-esteem, and coping with problems. The author uses sample dialogues, exercises, and activities to take the terror out of talking about topics such as dating, sexuality, peer pressure, and drugs and alcohol.
ISBN
1572242620
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GL 450 ALE 2001

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Hold on to your kids: Why parents need to matter more than peers

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Neufeld, Gordon, Mate, Gabor. [Toronto, ON]: Random House , 2013.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEU 2013
Availability
2 copies, 1 available
In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advic…
Author
Neufeld, Gordon
Mate, Gabor
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Random House
Publication Date
2013
Physical Description
Softcover: 314 p.
Subject
Parenting
Peer Relationships. Peer Pressure
Abstract
In this updated 2013 edition, this book discusses the phenomenon of peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction. It provides a powerful explanation for school yard bullying and youth violence. The concepts, principles and practical advice offers parents the ability to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.
ISBN
9780307361967
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 NEU 2013

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When you're expecting twins, triplets, or quads: Proven guidelines for a healthy multiple pregnancy

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Luke, Barbara, Eberlein, Tamara. New York, NY: HarperCollins Publishers , 2017. 4th ed.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GH 120 LUK 2017
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Describes what to expect during a multiple-child pregnancy, and covers doctor selection, nutrition, exercise, and signs of preterm labor.
Author
Luke, Barbara
Eberlein, Tamara
Edition
4th ed.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
HarperCollins Publishers
Publication Date
2017
Physical Description
Paperback; xvii, 621 p. : ill. ; 24 cm.
Subject
Multiple Births (includes twins, triplets etc.)
Pregnancy/Childbirth. Obstetrics
Parenting Multiples (includes Twins, Triplets, etc)
Abstract
Describes what to expect during a multiple-child pregnancy, and covers doctor selection, nutrition, exercise, and signs of preterm labor.
ISBN
9780062379481
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GH 120 LUK 2017

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This is a book for parents of gay kids: A question & answer guide to everyday life

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Owens-Reid, Dannielle, Russo, Kristin. San Francisco, CA: Chronicle Books
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GA 600 OWE 2014
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical to…
Author
Owens-Reid, Dannielle
Russo, Kristin
Place of Publication
San Francisco, CA
Publisher
Chronicle Books
Physical Description
Paperback: 240 pages
Subject
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues
Children's Self-Identity
LGBT
Parenting
Young Adults Sexuality
Abstract
Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical topics. Filled with real-life experiences from gay kids and parents, this is the book gay kids want their parents to read.
ISBN
9781452127538
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GA 600 OWE 2014

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Thriving with ADHD workbook for kids: 60 fun activities to help children self-regulate, focus, and succeed

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Miller, Kelli. Emeryville, CA: Althea Press , 2018.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR FM 265 MIL 2018
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Help your child understand and manage their ADHD with engaging activities for kids ages 7 to 12; "I always advise starting treatment with behavioral interventions. Some parents struggle to find the right book to help them develop a behavioral parenting plan, but now they have the perfect book!" - D…
Author
Miller, Kelli
Place of Publication
Emeryville, CA
Publisher
Althea Press
Publication Date
2018
Physical Description
Softcover; xiii, 130 pages : illustrations ; 26 cm
Series
Health and wellness workbooks for kids
Subject
Attention Deficit Disorder. Hyperactivity
Abstract
Help your child understand and manage their ADHD with engaging activities for kids ages 7 to 12
"I always advise starting treatment with behavioral interventions. Some parents struggle to find the right book to help them develop a behavioral parenting plan, but now they have the perfect book!" - Dr. Keith Seibert, pediatrician
With the right tools, kids can learn to think positively about their ADHD and see it as a special asset. Thriving with ADHD is filled with easy exercises to help your child with the many facets of ADHD, from self-control and organization to getting tasks done and making friends - so they can flourish at home, school, and beyond.
Written by a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist, this workbook offers a strength-based approach to help your child gain a better understanding of themselves, their ADHD, and the simple things they can do to feel more confident and in control.
This ADHD workbook for kids includes:
- An overview of ADHD: Teach your child about common symptoms, different ADHD types, and how ADHD can be an advantage.
- Skill-building exercises: Establish key executive functioning skills, like dealing with anger and frustration, staying focused, controlling impulses, and communicating effectively.
- Action-oriented learning: Help kids learn to reframe the way they think about ADHD with fun lessons for creating a morning routine, making a homework chart, expressing themselves when they're upset, and more.
Show your child how to harness their own unique talents and live life to the fullest with their ADHD - this practical workbook will help guide the way.
ISBN
9781641520416
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR FM 265 MIL 2018

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Gender born, gender made: Raising healthy gender-nonconforming children

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Ehrensaft, Diane. New York, NY: The Experiment , 2011.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 716 EHR 2011
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A guide for parents, clinicians, and educators on both the philosophical dilemmas and the practical, daily concerns of working with children who do not fit a "typical" gender mold.; Table of Contents:; Chapter 1 Relearning gender; Chapter 2 The family's path is covered with roses and thorns; Chapte…
Author
Ehrensaft, Diane
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
The Experiment
Publication Date
2011
Physical Description
Softcover: 275 p.
Subject
Children's Gender Identity and Expression
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues
Children's Self-Identity
Young Adults Sexuality
LGBT
Abstract
A guide for parents, clinicians, and educators on both the philosophical dilemmas and the practical, daily concerns of working with children who do not fit a "typical" gender mold.
Table of Contents:
Chapter 1 Relearning gender
Chapter 2 The family's path is covered with roses and thorns
Chapter 3 True gender self, false gender self, gender creativity
Chapter 4 The gender-creative parent
Chapter 5 One pill makes you girl, one pill makes you boy
Chapter 6 We are family
Chapter 7 The gender-creative therapist
Chapter 8 Who are the genders in your neighborhood?
ISBN
9781615190010
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 716 EHR 2011

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The mindful child: How to help your kid manage stress and become happier, kinder, and more compassionate

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Kaiser Greenland, Susan. [Toronto, ON]: Atria Paperback , 2010.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
EG 200 KAI 2010
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Mindful awareness works by enabling you to pay closer attention to what is happening within you - your thoughts, feelings, and emotions - so you can better understand what is happening to you. "The Mindful Child" extends the vast benefits of mindfulness training to children from four to eighteen ye…
Author
Kaiser Greenland, Susan
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Atria Paperback
Publication Date
2010
Physical Description
Softcover: 219 p.
Subject
Mind/Body
Children's Health-Complementary Therapies
Parenting
Abstract
Mindful awareness works by enabling you to pay closer attention to what is happening within you - your thoughts, feelings, and emotions - so you can better understand what is happening to you. "The Mindful Child" extends the vast benefits of mindfulness training to children from four to eighteen years old with age-appropriate exercises, songs, games, and fables that Susan Kaiser Greenland has developed over more than a decade of teaching mindful awareness to kids.
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
EG 200 KAI 2010

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Mother of all toddler books: An all-Canadian guide to your child's second and third years

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog104769
Douglas, Ann. Etobicoke, ON: , 2002.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 601 TOD 2002
Provides the inside scoop on what it's really like to raise a toddler—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Includes proven strategies for coping with whining, biting, dawdling, temper tantrums, and other hazards of toddlerhood; sensible advice on making toilet-training as stress-free as possible for yo…
Author
Douglas, Ann
Place of Publication
Etobicoke, ON
Publication Date
2002
Subject
Parenting
Parenting Toddlers
Abstract
Provides the inside scoop on what it's really like to raise a toddler—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Includes proven strategies for coping with whining, biting, dawdling, temper tantrums, and other hazards of toddlerhood; sensible advice on making toilet-training as stress-free as possible for you and your child; creative suggestions for arts and crafts projects and other activities that you and your toddler will enjoy doing together; comprehensive, medically-reviewed answers to all your toddler-related health questions; a directory of key Canadian parenting and pediatric health organizations; a list of Internet resources of interest to Canadian parents; Canadian immunization schedules, toddler growth charts, child safety checklists, and much more.
ISBN
1553350162
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 601 TOD 2002
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Making sense of preschoolers: A six hour course explaining what every child needs us to know about them

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Neufeld, Gordon. [Vancouver, BC?]: Gordon Neufeld , 2012.
Material Type
Video
Call Number
GK 601 NEU 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Dr. Neufeld leads us into the interior landscape of the preschooler. He provides insight into their shyness, separation anxieties, aggression, resistance, oppositionality and more. Making sense of these confusing yet wondrous creatures lays the foundation for intuitive and fruitful interaction with…
Author
Neufeld, Gordon
Place of Publication
[Vancouver, BC?]
Publisher
Gordon Neufeld
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
4 DVDs; 6 hours total playing time.
Subject
Parenting
Parenting preschoolers
Abstract
Dr. Neufeld leads us into the interior landscape of the preschooler. He provides insight into their shyness, separation anxieties, aggression, resistance, oppositionality and more. Making sense of these confusing yet wondrous creatures lays the foundation for intuitive and fruitful interaction with them.
This videocourse is intended for parents as well as professionals, early educators as well as daycare providers. The format of this course is highly flexible for study, easily divided into twelve ½ hour sessions, or six 1-hour sessions or four 1 ½ hour sessions.
ISBN
6123430369
Language
English
Material Type
Video
Call Number
GK 601 NEU 2012

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Finding unity in our diversity : Family stories of raising young children who are deaf or hard of hearing

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog123119
British Columbia (BC) Hands and Voices , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
FI 400.5 GOW 2020
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This collection of family stories shares experiences of raising young children who are Deaf and hard of hearing. It brings together articles written by a diverse range of families from British Columbia, Canada. We hope this book provides you with hopeful, insightful stories and practical wisdom.
Editor
Gow, Jennifer
Ho, Amy
Kazemir, Teresa
Shauer, Kim
Publisher
British Columbia (BC) Hands and Voices
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
107 pages
Subject
Deafness-Children
Deafness-Coping
Hearing. Hard of Hearing
Hearing. Hard of Hearing-Children
Abstract
This collection of family stories shares experiences of raising young children who are Deaf and hard of hearing. It brings together articles written by a diverse range of families from British Columbia, Canada. We hope this book provides you with hopeful, insightful stories and practical wisdom.
ISBN
9781777078706
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
FI 400.5 GOW 2020

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Depression: A teen's guide to survive and thrive

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124117
Toner, Jaqueline B., Freeland, Claire A.B. Washington, DC: Magination Press , 2016.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH CD 302 TON 2016
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Depression: A Teen's Guide to Survive and Thrive is a guidebook for teenagers who are depressed or at risk for depression, full of useful information, helpful self-reflection quizzes, and easy-to-do exercises. This guide discusses depression and provides guidance on cognitive?behavioral therapy pri…
Author
Toner, Jaqueline B.
Freeland, Claire A.B
Place of Publication
Washington, DC
Publisher
Magination Press
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
Paperback; 154p.
Subject
Depression
Young Adults-Self-Help
Abstract
Depression: A Teen's Guide to Survive and Thrive is a guidebook for teenagers who are depressed or at risk for depression, full of useful information, helpful self-reflection quizzes, and easy-to-do exercises. This guide discusses depression and provides guidance on cognitive?behavioral therapy principles to help teens take a problem-solving, strategy-based approach to deal with depressed moods, thoughts, and behavior. Intended to serve as an adjunct to therapy, this is a very practical and easy-to-read book that is not overwhelming for teens.
ISBN
9781433822742
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH CD 302 TON 2016

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Far from the tree: Parents, children, and the search for identity

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog112354
Solomon, Andrew. [Toronto, ON]: Scribner , 2012.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SOL 2012
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodi…
Author
Solomon, Andrew
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
2012
Physical Description
Hardcover: 702 p.
Subject
Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities
Parenting Children with Disabilities
Relationships
Parenting
Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities
Abstract
Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
ISBN
9780743236713
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SOL 2012

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No-drama discipline: The whole-brain way to calm the chaos and nurture your child's developing mind

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog123126
Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. Bantam , 2016.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2016
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Defining the true meaning of the d-word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as pro…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Publisher
Bantam
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
288 pages
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Defining the true meaning of the d-word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you?ll discover:
? strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy?and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart
? facts on child brain development?and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages
? the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child?no matter how extreme the behavior?while still setting clear and consistent limits
? tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair
? twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make?and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques.
ISBN
978-0345548061
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2016

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De l'opposition à la communication: Entendre et comprendre vraiment vos enfants et vos adolescents

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog125039
Hammarrenger, Benoit. TBD: Editions Midi trente , 2022.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 HAM 2022
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Dans le cadre de sa pratique comme psychologue et neuropsychologue, Benoît Hammarrenger rencontre souvent des parents qui souhaitent améliorer leurs relations avec leurs enfants et leurs adolescents. Ceux-ci lui racontent alors toutes sortes de situations marquées par des crises, de l'opposition, d…
Author
Hammarrenger, Benoit
Place of Publication
TBD
Publisher
Editions Midi trente
Publication Date
2022
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Dans le cadre de sa pratique comme psychologue et neuropsychologue, Benoît Hammarrenger rencontre souvent des parents qui souhaitent améliorer leurs relations avec leurs enfants et leurs adolescents. Ceux-ci lui racontent alors toutes sortes de situations marquées par des crises, de l'opposition, de la tristesse, de l'anxiété ou de la colère, mais aussi par leur propre sentiment d'impuissance en regard de la distance qu'ils voient s'installer entre les membres de la famille. Or, au fil des ans, Benoît a observé qu'une constante se dégage de toutes les situations de détresse familiale. Cette constante, c'est le besoin de cultiver une meilleure communication, c'est-à-dire une communication profonde et authentique, au-delà des mots, là où se jouent les vrais enjeux. Selon lui, il existe sept clés essentielles à l'établissement d'une communication saine et enrichissante dans la famille :
- Être à l'écoute des émotions des jeunes et se placer en synchronie avec eux
- Laisser une place à la colère en montrant qu'il s'agit d'une émotion légitime
- Cultiver l'empathie et l'esprit d'équipe entre frères et soeurs
- Installer une autorité parentale légitime, que les enfants auront envie de suivre
- Aider les jeunes à mieux connaître leurs parents pour consolider leur lien avec eux
- Composer avec les enjeux spécifiques de l'adolescence
- Tenter de comprendre ce que le jeune vit et cherche vraiment à exprimer, alors que ses habiletés de communication sont encore en construction.
Dans ce nouveau livre accessible et teinté d'humour, Benoît aide les parents à faire alliance avec leur jeune, à créer un climat sain dans la famille... et il en profite pour leur rappeler d'arrêter de parler de bière lorsque leur jeune, lui, parle d'ours
ISBN
9782925213147
Language
French
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 HAM 2022

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La pédagogie Montessori à la maison: 200 activités: Toutes les clés pour un enfant épanoui et autonome!

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog114659
Santini, Celine, Kachel, Vendula. Paris, France: First Editions , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SAN 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Autonomie, confiance en soi, concentration, créativité... Voici quelques-uns des nombreux potentiels que la pédagogie Montessori permet de développer chez l'enfant. Souhaitant rendre accessible au plus grand nombre cette pédagogie, les auteurs proposent 200 activités pour les enfants de 0 à 12 ans …
Alternate Title
[La pedagogie Montessori a la maison 200 activites: Toutes les cles pour un enfant epanoui et autonome!]
Author
Santini, Celine
Kachel, Vendula
Place of Publication
Paris, France
Publisher
First Editions
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Paperback, 250 p., ill.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
Autonomie, confiance en soi, concentration, créativité... Voici quelques-uns des nombreux potentiels que la pédagogie Montessori permet de développer chez l'enfant. Souhaitant rendre accessible au plus grand nombre cette pédagogie, les auteurs proposent 200 activités pour les enfants de 0 à 12 ans s'articulant autour de
l'éveil à la nature, à la culture et au monde, du corps et des cinq sens et à la vie pratique.
Une mine d'or pour les parents qui souhaitent mettre en oeuvre facilement cette pédagogie au quotidien afin de développer l'épanouissement et les savoirs de leur(s) enfant(s)!
ISBN
9782754074513
Language
French
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SAN 2015

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The yes brain: How to cultivate courage, curiosity, and resilience in your child

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Siegel, Daniel J., Bryson, Tina Payne. New York, NY: Bantam , 2018.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2018
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be…
Author
Siegel, Daniel J.
Bryson, Tina Payne
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Bantam
Publication Date
2018
Physical Description
Softcover ; xii, 187 p. ; ill.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be taught to approach life with openness and curiosity. When kids work from a Yes Brain, they?re more willing to take chances and explore. They?re more curious and imaginative. They?re better at relationships and handling adversity. In The Yes Brain, the authors give parents skills, scripts, and activities to bring kids of all ages into the beneficial ?yes? state.
ISBN
9780399594687
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 SIE 2018

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Les dépendances affectives : aimer et être soi

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Berger, Véronique. Paris: Eyrolles , 2016.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 BER 2016
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
" Tu es tout pour moi ", " je n'ai besoin de personne ", " nous ne faisons qu'un ", " être ensemble est insupportable mais nous quitter est impossible ".. . Angoisse d'abandon, mécanismes d'isolement ou désir de fusion à l'autre, sont divers visages d'un même phénomène : la dépendance affective. Co…
Alternate Title
[Les dependances affectives : aimer et etre soi]
Author
Berger, Véronique
Place of Publication
Paris
Publisher
Eyrolles
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
Softcover ; xviii, 345 p.
Subject
Parenting
Abstract
" Tu es tout pour moi ", " je n'ai besoin de personne ", " nous ne faisons qu'un ", " être ensemble est insupportable mais nous quitter est impossible ".. . Angoisse d'abandon, mécanismes d'isolement ou désir de fusion à l'autre, sont divers visages d'un même phénomène : la dépendance affective. Comment la reconnaître ? D'où vient-elle ? Peut-on s'en libérer ? À travers des témoignages riches et éclairants, ce livre met au jour les origines familiales et généalogiques des dépendances affectives : accaparement de l'enfant par le parent, emprise, désamour, violences et abus, traumatismes transmis de génération en génération... Surtout, il nous invite à mobiliser les ressources dont nous disposons pour accéder à la liberté d'être soi. Le choix d'une vie non plus subie mais incarnée, même s'il est difficile, nous appartient.
ISBN
9782212565041
Language
French
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 600 BER 2016

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