Alternate Title

[A chaque jour ses prodiges: Etre parent en pleine conscience]

Author

Kabat-Zinn, Myla

Kabat-Zinn, Jon

Place of Publication

Paris, France

Publisher

Les Arènes

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Paperback, 412 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Un guide et des conseils pour expliquer aux parents non pas ce qu'ils doivent faire avec leurs enfants, mais ce qu'ils doivent être, notamment en leur montrant comment se décentrer de leur point de vue de parents pour adopter plus souvent celui de l'enfant.

ISBN

9782352042242

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAB 2012

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Author

Lafrance, Adele

Miller, Ashley

Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge Taylor & Francis Group

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

259 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.

With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.

Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.

ISBN

9781138344631

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 LAF 2020

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Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Publisher

Bantam

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

288 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Defining the true meaning of the d-word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you?ll discover:

? strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy?and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart

? facts on child brain development?and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages

? the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child?no matter how extreme the behavior?while still setting clear and consistent limits

? tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair

? twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make?and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques.

ISBN

978-0345548061

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2016

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Author

Delahooke, Mona

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper Wave

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover : 343 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.

When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.

When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

ISBN

9780063061316

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 DEL 2022

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Author

Hammarrenger, Benoit

Place of Publication

TBD

Publisher

Editions Midi trente

Publication Date

2022

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dans le cadre de sa pratique comme psychologue et neuropsychologue, Benoît Hammarrenger rencontre souvent des parents qui souhaitent améliorer leurs relations avec leurs enfants et leurs adolescents. Ceux-ci lui racontent alors toutes sortes de situations marquées par des crises, de l'opposition, de la tristesse, de l'anxiété ou de la colère, mais aussi par leur propre sentiment d'impuissance en regard de la distance qu'ils voient s'installer entre les membres de la famille. Or, au fil des ans, Benoît a observé qu'une constante se dégage de toutes les situations de détresse familiale. Cette constante, c'est le besoin de cultiver une meilleure communication, c'est-à-dire une communication profonde et authentique, au-delà des mots, là où se jouent les vrais enjeux. Selon lui, il existe sept clés essentielles à l'établissement d'une communication saine et enrichissante dans la famille :

- Être à l'écoute des émotions des jeunes et se placer en synchronie avec eux

- Laisser une place à la colère en montrant qu'il s'agit d'une émotion légitime

- Cultiver l'empathie et l'esprit d'équipe entre frères et soeurs

- Installer une autorité parentale légitime, que les enfants auront envie de suivre

- Aider les jeunes à mieux connaître leurs parents pour consolider leur lien avec eux

- Composer avec les enjeux spécifiques de l'adolescence

- Tenter de comprendre ce que le jeune vit et cherche vraiment à exprimer, alors que ses habiletés de communication sont encore en construction.

Dans ce nouveau livre accessible et teinté d'humour, Benoît aide les parents à faire alliance avec leur jeune, à créer un climat sain dans la famille... et il en profite pour leur rappeler d'arrêter de parler de bière lorsque leur jeune, lui, parle d'ours

ISBN

9782925213147

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 HAM 2022

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Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth

Ginsburg, Ilana

Ginsburg, Talia

Place of Publication

Elk Grove Village, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Paperback: 275 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The authors explore an innovative idea in parenting: "The Lighthouse Parenting Strategy." This strategy answers 2 of the toughest questions with which parents struggle: 1) How do I give my child the unconditional love he needs to thrive, while also holding him to high expectations? and 2)How do I protect my child while also letting her learn life's lessons?

ISBN

9781581108675

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 GIN 2015

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 352 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9780143188865

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015

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Alternate Title

[La pedagogie Montessori a la maison 200 activites: Toutes les cles pour un enfant epanoui et autonome!]

Author

Santini, Celine

Kachel, Vendula

Place of Publication

Paris, France

Publisher

First Editions

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Paperback, 250 p., ill.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Autonomie, confiance en soi, concentration, créativité... Voici quelques-uns des nombreux potentiels que la pédagogie Montessori permet de développer chez l'enfant. Souhaitant rendre accessible au plus grand nombre cette pédagogie, les auteurs proposent 200 activités pour les enfants de 0 à 12 ans s'articulant autour de

l'éveil à la nature, à la culture et au monde, du corps et des cinq sens et à la vie pratique.

Une mine d'or pour les parents qui souhaitent mettre en oeuvre facilement cette pédagogie au quotidien afin de développer l'épanouissement et les savoirs de leur(s) enfant(s)!

ISBN

9782754074513

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SAN 2015

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Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Bantam

Publication Date

2018

Physical Description

Softcover ; xii, 187 p. ; ill.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselling authors Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson call a No Brain response. But our kids can be taught to approach life with openness and curiosity. When kids work from a Yes Brain, they?re more willing to take chances and explore. They?re more curious and imaginative. They?re better at relationships and handling adversity. In The Yes Brain, the authors give parents skills, scripts, and activities to bring kids of all ages into the beneficial ?yes? state.

ISBN

9780399594687

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2018

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Alternate Title

[Les dependances affectives : aimer et etre soi]

Author

Berger, Véronique

Place of Publication

Paris

Publisher

Eyrolles

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

Softcover ; xviii, 345 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

" Tu es tout pour moi ", " je n'ai besoin de personne ", " nous ne faisons qu'un ", " être ensemble est insupportable mais nous quitter est impossible ".. . Angoisse d'abandon, mécanismes d'isolement ou désir de fusion à l'autre, sont divers visages d'un même phénomène : la dépendance affective. Comment la reconnaître ? D'où vient-elle ? Peut-on s'en libérer ? À travers des témoignages riches et éclairants, ce livre met au jour les origines familiales et généalogiques des dépendances affectives : accaparement de l'enfant par le parent, emprise, désamour, violences et abus, traumatismes transmis de génération en génération... Surtout, il nous invite à mobiliser les ressources dont nous disposons pour accéder à la liberté d'être soi. Le choix d'une vie non plus subie mais incarnée, même s'il est difficile, nous appartient.

ISBN

9782212565041

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 BER 2016

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Alternate Title

[100 facons de se faire obeir (sans cris ni fessees)]

Author

Bacus, Anne

Publisher

Marabout

Publication Date

2016

Physical Description

Softcover ; 252 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Le monde change, l'éducation de nos enfants aussi.Quelle place faire à l'autorité et à la discipline face au dialogue, à l'ouverture sur le monde, au respect de l'enfant ?De nombreux parents se retrouvent démunis, confrontés à ce dilemme.Arrêter de crierDonner de l'autonomieProfiter des moments en familleAnne Bacus, psychologue, donne 100 conseils simples, sous forme de fiches pratiques, pour se faire obéir et offrir la juste dose d'autorité.À vous de faire un choix parmi ces 100 conseils, en fonction de la situation qui se présente, de votre enfant et de votre culture familiale.

ISBN

9782501076487

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 BAC 2016

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Alternate Title

[J'eleve mon enfant]

Author

Pernoud, Laurence

Publisher

Horay

Publication Date

2018

Physical Description

Hardcover ; 509 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Votre bébé vient de naître... Vous vous posez 1 001 questions ? Le livre de Laurence Pernoud vous donne confiance dans vos nouvelles responsabilités et répond à toutes vos interrogations.Incontournable. Cet ouvrage de référence vous accompagne tout au long des premières années de votre enfant et vous indique les repères essentiels sur la petite enfance.Exhaustif. Dans un style clair et chaleureux, tous les sujets de la vie quotidienne sont abordés : sommeil, alimentation, santé, éducation, éveil et développement de votre enfant à chaque étape de son évolution...Interactif. Ce livre s'appuie sur les nombreux témoignages des lecteurs, reflet des interrogations des parents. Si vous souhaitez nous poser une question ou partager une expérience, vous pouvez nous écrire à : courrier@laurencepernoud.com. Nous vous répondrons de façon personnelle, en toute confidentialité.Autour d'Agnès Grison, une équipe pluridisciplinaire de spécialistes participe chaque année à l'actualisation de J'élève mon enfant. Expertise et mises à jour régulières sont les secrets de réussite de ce livre, plébiscité par les parents d'aujourd'hui.À ne pas manquer¤ Le suivi mois par mois de l'éveil psychologique de votre enfant, ses acquisitions, ses progrès et ses apprentissages.¤ Un dictionnaire de la santé de l'enfant, qui décrit les symptômes et les pathologies les plus fréquentes.¤ Plus de 100 visuels - photos, tableaux, schémas - et des codes à flasher pour accéder à des ressources sur smartphone et tablette.¤ Un guide des principales démarches administratives, juridiques et pratiques.

ISBN

9782705805548

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 PER 2018

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Viking Penguin Inc.

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

320 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The Tech Solution is a to-the-point resource for parents and educators who want the best approach for raising kids in our digital world. It outlines all you need to know about the short-term and potential long-term consequences of tech use. Dr. Kang simplifies cutting edge neuroscience to reveal a new understanding around how we metabolize experiences with technology that will lay the foundation for lasting success. On top of that, she offers practical advice for tackling specific concerns in the classroom or at home, whether it's possible tech addiction, anxiety, cyberbullying, or loneliness. With her 6-week 6-step plan for rebalancing your family's tech diet, Dr. Kang will help your child build healthy habits and make smart choices that will maximize the benefits of tech and minimize its risks.

ISBN

9780735239548

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2020

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Alternate Title

[Parler pour que les enfants ecoutent, ecouter pour que les enfants parlent]

Author

Faber, Adele

Mazlish, Elaine

Coe, Kimberly Ann (ill.)

Roy, Roseline (trans.)

Place of Publication

Cap-Pelé, NB

Publisher

Aux Éditions du Phare

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Book; 407 pages.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Pourquoi se quereller avec les enfants quand il est possible de faire autrement ? Basé sur de récentes prises de conscience en psychologie, ce livre présente des façons innovatrices de résoudre les problèmes qu'on rencontre dans toute relation parent-enfant. Il met de l'avant une approche lucide, sensible et respectueuse, qui entraîne moins de stress et plus de gratification pour les parents comme pour les enfants. On y trouve des techniques à la fois concrètes, pratiques et surtout efficaces. Ça fonctionne, les résultats sont là! De charmantes bandes dessinées illustrent comment les habiletés de communication s'appliquent dans la vie quotidienne. Les parents apprennent comment : s'y prendre avec les sentiments négatifs de l'enfant, ses frustrations, ses déceptions, sa colère, etc ; suciter le désir de coopérer ; mettre des limites fermes tout en maintenant un climat d'ouverture ; éviter le recours à la punition ; favoriser l'image positive de l'enfant ; résoudre les conflits familiaux dans une atmosphère de calme.

Translation of 'How to talk so kids will listen, and listen so kids will talk'

ISBN

9782981161062

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2012a

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Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 280 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9787309099058

Language

English

Chinese

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015b

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Author

Meeker, Meg

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

368 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Boys today face unique challenges and pressures, and the burden on mothers to guide their boys through them can feel overwhelming. This book offers a road map to help mothers find the strength and confidence to raise extraordinary sons by providing encouragement, education, and practical advice about:

? the need for mothers to exercise courage and be bolder and more confident about advising and directing their boys

? the crucial role mothers play in expressing love to sons in healthy ways so they learn to respect and appreciate women as they grow up

? the importance of teaching sons about the values of hard work, community service, and a well-developed inner life

? the natural traps mothers of boys often fall into?and how to avoid them

? the need for a mother to heal her own wounds with the men in her life so she can raise her son without baggage and limitations

? the best ways to survive the moments when the going gets tough and a mom?s natural ways of communicating?talking, analyzing, exploring?only fuel the fire.

ISBN

978-0345518101

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 MEE 2015

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Author

MacNamara, Deborah

Publisher

Aona Books

Physical Description

304 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

This book offers a road map to making sense of young children, and is what every toddler, preschooler, and kindergartner wishes we understood about them.

Baffling and beloved, with the capacity to go from joy to frustration in seconds, young children are some of the most misunderstood people on the planet. Parents and caregivers struggle with these little ones, who are known for their extreme behaviour, from tantrums, resistance, and aggression to separation anxiety, bedtime protests, and not listening. The key to understanding youngsters lies in realizing that their challenging behaviour is not personal, nor is it a disorder or deficit.

Based on science and the relational developmental approach of renowned psychologist and bestselling author Gordon Neufeld, Rest, Play, Grow reveals how critical adults are in shaping the conditions to ensure young children flourish.

This is the story of how young children develop, from their intense need for attachment and the vital importance of play to discipline that preserves growth. Engagingly written, with compassion for its subjects and rich with stories from them and their parents, Rest, Play, Grow will forever change the way you think of the preschoolers in your life.

ISBN

9780995051201

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 MAC 2016

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Author

Siegel, Daniel J.

Bryson, Tina Payne

Place of Publication

New York

Publisher

Ballantine Books

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover; 238 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out - in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships - is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order.

But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development.

Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's:

- Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change.

- Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior.

- Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way.

- Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive!

Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your child's healthy emotional landscape

ISBN

9781524797737

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SIE 2020

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Author

Webster-Stratton, Carolyn

Edition

3rd edition

Place of Publication

United States

Publisher

The Incredible Years, Inc.

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Softcover; 480 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The 3rd edition of this book for parents has been revised to include new and expanded chapters on coaching (academic, persistence, social and emotion coaching), plus new chapters on social media, screen time, and promoting a healthy lifestyle. This is an amazing book that covers research-based parenting strategies for all families. Positive discipline techniques are described in detail illustrated with true-to-life examples to help parents prevent behavior problems and promote their children?s social and emotional competence.

ISBN

9780578434513

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 WEB 2019

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Author

Douglas, Ann

Place of Publication

Etobicoke, ON

Publication Date

2002

Subject

Parenting

Parenting Toddlers

Abstract

Provides the inside scoop on what it's really like to raise a toddler—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Includes proven strategies for coping with whining, biting, dawdling, temper tantrums, and other hazards of toddlerhood; sensible advice on making toilet-training as stress-free as possible for you and your child; creative suggestions for arts and crafts projects and other activities that you and your toddler will enjoy doing together; comprehensive, medically-reviewed answers to all your toddler-related health questions; a directory of key Canadian parenting and pediatric health organizations; a list of Internet resources of interest to Canadian parents; Canadian immunization schedules, toddler growth charts, child safety checklists, and much more.

ISBN

1553350162

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 601 TOD 2002