Author

Lafrance, Adele

Miller, Ashley

Carlson, Patrick [Ill.]

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Routledge Taylor & Francis Group

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

259 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12. Written by mental health professionals with over 30 years' experience listening to kids' thoughts and feelings, this book provides a framework to explore new ways of responding to your child that will help them calm down faster and boost their resilience to stress.

With a dose of humor and plenty of real-life examples, the authors will guide you to "build a bridge" into your child's world to make sense of their emotions and behavior. Sample scenarios and scripts are provided for you to customize based on your caregiving style and your child's personality. These are then followed by concrete support strategies to help you manage current and future situations in a way that leaves everyone feeling better. Chapters are organized by common kid-related issues so you can quickly find what's relevant to you.

Suitable for parents, grandparents, and other caregivers of children and pre-teens, as well as professionals working closely with families, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work is an accessible resource for efficiently navigating the twists, turns, and sometimes total chaos of life with kids.

ISBN

9781138344631

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 LAF 2020

Copies

Author

Hammarrenger, Benoit

Edition

2nd

Place of Publication

TBD

Publisher

Editions Midi trente

Publication Date

2023

Subject

Disruptive Behavior Disorders

Attention Deficit Disorder. Hyperactivity

Anxiety. Anxiety Disorders

Tourette Syndrome. Gilles De La Tourette Syndrome

Parenting

Abstract

Voici la nouvelle édition revue et mise à jour de ce bestseller de Benoit Hammarrenger pour mieux comprendre l?opposition et les comportements difficiles des enfants de 4 à 12 ans. Le neuropsychologue y communique son expertise de manière simple et accessible, car selon lui : « les parents et les intervenants seront nettement plus efficaces s?ils parviennent à cibler les causes sous-jacentes aux manifestations d?opposition du jeune et à intervenir à la source du comportement ».

Selon Benoit, l?opposition est souvent un symptôme, une manifestation visible (et parfois difficile à comprendre) de quelque chose d?autre qui ne va pas. Ainsi, dans bien des cas, elle émerge de facteurs présents dans l?environnement, sur lesquels il est possible d?agir. Il explique comment, en s?attardant plus précisément au développement du cerveau, aux styles d?autorité, aux conflits familiaux, à l?anxiété, au TDAH, au syndrome de Gilles de la Tourette et à la douance, entre autres thèmes abordés. Des interventions spécifiques, ciblant les causes réelles des comportements d?opposition, sont ensuite détaillées.

ISBN

9782925213260

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 900 HAM 2023

Copies

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Edition

First Scribner trade paperback edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Softcover : 387 pages

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Abstract

From tantrums to technology to talking to kids about tough topics, How To Talk When Kids Won?t Listen offers concrete strategies for these and many more difficult situations.

Part One introduces readers to the How To Talk ?toolbox,? with whimsical cartoons demonstrating the basic communication skills that will transform readers? relationships with children in their lives. In Part Two, Joanna and Julie answer specific questions and share relatable stories, offering practical tools for addressing issues such as homework hassles, sibling battles, digital dilemmas, problems with punishment, and more. Readers can turn directly to any topic of interest and find the help they need, with handy ?reminder pages.?

ISBN

9781982134143

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2021

Copies

Author

Douglas, Ann

Place of Publication

Etobicoke, ON

Publication Date

2002

Subject

Parenting

Parenting Toddlers

Abstract

Provides the inside scoop on what it's really like to raise a toddler—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Includes proven strategies for coping with whining, biting, dawdling, temper tantrums, and other hazards of toddlerhood; sensible advice on making toilet-training as stress-free as possible for you and your child; creative suggestions for arts and crafts projects and other activities that you and your toddler will enjoy doing together; comprehensive, medically-reviewed answers to all your toddler-related health questions; a directory of key Canadian parenting and pediatric health organizations; a list of Internet resources of interest to Canadian parents; Canadian immunization schedules, toddler growth charts, child safety checklists, and much more.

ISBN

1553350162

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 601 TOD 2002

Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 352 p.

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9780143188865

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015

Copies

Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Penguin

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover, 280 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

In The Dolphin Parent, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, expert in human motivation, and mother of three Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and lifelong personal aspirations.

ISBN

9787309099058

Language

English

Chinese

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2015b

Copies

Author

Webster-Stratton, Carolyn

Edition

3rd edition

Place of Publication

United States

Publisher

The Incredible Years, Inc.

Publication Date

2019

Physical Description

Softcover; 480 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

The 3rd edition of this book for parents has been revised to include new and expanded chapters on coaching (academic, persistence, social and emotion coaching), plus new chapters on social media, screen time, and promoting a healthy lifestyle. This is an amazing book that covers research-based parenting strategies for all families. Positive discipline techniques are described in detail illustrated with true-to-life examples to help parents prevent behavior problems and promote their children?s social and emotional competence.

ISBN

9780578434513

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 WEB 2019

Copies

Author

Small, Mindy

Kontente, Lisa

Place of Publication

Shawnee Mission, KS

Publisher

Autism Asperger Publishing Company

Publication Date

2003

Physical Description

Softcover: 111 p.

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Parenting

Autism

Abstract

This manual offers practical approaches to families struggling to help their children solve the many puzzles of daily living. The strategies and selected examples and vignettes provide parents with a foundation for building more precise and effective teaching methods.

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FM 272 SMA 2003

Copies

Author

Cooper-Kahn, Joyce

Dietzel, Laurie C.

Place of Publication

[Bethesda, MD]

Publisher

Woodbine House

Publication Date

2008

Physical Description

Paperback: 217 p.

Subject

Children's Psychological Development

Child Development

Parenting

Young Adults

ADD

Abstract

A guide for parents of children and adolescents who have difficulty with executive functioning skills including; planning and organization, self-monitoring, impulse control, working memory, and initiating tasks. This book offers short-term strategies and ways to build skills needed for long-term, life-long success, whether a child has ADHD, autism, learning disabilities, or no specific diagnosis.

ISBN

9781890627843

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 710 COO 2008

Copies

Author

Alexander, Debra Whiting

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

New Harbinger Publications

Publication Date

2001

Physical Description

xiii, 208 p.

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Abstract

Drawing on detailed interviews, this book offers specific strategies for handling conflicts and power struggles, bolstering a daughter's self-esteem, and coping with problems. The author uses sample dialogues, exercises, and activities to take the terror out of talking about topics such as dating, sexuality, peer pressure, and drugs and alcohol.

ISBN

1572242620

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 ALE 2001

Copies

Author

Hammarrenger, Benoit

Place of Publication

TBD

Publisher

Editions Midi trente

Publication Date

2022

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dans le cadre de sa pratique comme psychologue et neuropsychologue, Benoît Hammarrenger rencontre souvent des parents qui souhaitent améliorer leurs relations avec leurs enfants et leurs adolescents. Ceux-ci lui racontent alors toutes sortes de situations marquées par des crises, de l'opposition, de la tristesse, de l'anxiété ou de la colère, mais aussi par leur propre sentiment d'impuissance en regard de la distance qu'ils voient s'installer entre les membres de la famille. Or, au fil des ans, Benoît a observé qu'une constante se dégage de toutes les situations de détresse familiale. Cette constante, c'est le besoin de cultiver une meilleure communication, c'est-à-dire une communication profonde et authentique, au-delà des mots, là où se jouent les vrais enjeux. Selon lui, il existe sept clés essentielles à l'établissement d'une communication saine et enrichissante dans la famille :

- Être à l'écoute des émotions des jeunes et se placer en synchronie avec eux

- Laisser une place à la colère en montrant qu'il s'agit d'une émotion légitime

- Cultiver l'empathie et l'esprit d'équipe entre frères et soeurs

- Installer une autorité parentale légitime, que les enfants auront envie de suivre

- Aider les jeunes à mieux connaître leurs parents pour consolider leur lien avec eux

- Composer avec les enjeux spécifiques de l'adolescence

- Tenter de comprendre ce que le jeune vit et cherche vraiment à exprimer, alors que ses habiletés de communication sont encore en construction.

Dans ce nouveau livre accessible et teinté d'humour, Benoît aide les parents à faire alliance avec leur jeune, à créer un climat sain dans la famille... et il en profite pour leur rappeler d'arrêter de parler de bière lorsque leur jeune, lui, parle d'ours

ISBN

9782925213147

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 HAM 2022

Copies

Author

Hellerstein, Lynn F.

Place of Publication

Centennial, CO

Publisher

HiCLEAR Publishing

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Softcover: 238 p.

Subject

Parenting

Visualization

Abstract

When kids feel good about themselves, they naturally perform better. This book will take you step-by-step through the process of helping your children transform negative thoughts, images and feelings into positive affirming ones that result in successful behavior and feelings of greater confidence.

ISBN

9780984177905

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 HEL 2012

Copies

Author

Faber, Joanna

King, Julie

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2017

Physical Description

Softcover: 409 p.

Subject

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Communication

Language/Communication

Abstract

For more than thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele's daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk's powerful communication skills to parents of children ages two to seven.

Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents, teachers, and pediatricians. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and observations from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the children in your life.

What do you do with a little kid who won't brush her teeth?screams in his car seat?pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables?throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized by common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.

This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old.

ISBN

9781501131639

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 FAB 2017

Copies

Author

Owens-Reid, Dannielle

Russo, Kristin

Place of Publication

San Francisco, CA

Publisher

Chronicle Books

Physical Description

Paperback: 240 pages

Subject

Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues

Children's Self-Identity

LGBT

Parenting

Young Adults Sexuality

Abstract

Written in an accessible Q&A format this is the resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child. Through their LGBTQ-oriented site, the authors are uniquely experienced to answer parents' many questions and share insight and guidance on both emotional and practical topics. Filled with real-life experiences from gay kids and parents, this is the book gay kids want their parents to read.

ISBN

9781452127538

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GA 600 OWE 2014

Copies

Author

Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy

Edition

3rd ed.

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

William Morrow

Publication Date

2015

Physical Description

Softcover; 505 pages

Subject

Child Behaviour

Parenting

Abstract

In Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition, parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D, offers ALL parents a glimpse into what makes their children behave the way they do. Through vivid examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide offers parents emotional support and proven strategies for handling the toughest times.

Dr. Kurcinka has devised a plan for success with a simple, four-step program that will help you discover the power of positive - rather than negative - labels, understand your child's and your own temperamental traits, cope with tantrums and blowups when they do occur, develop strategies for handling mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school, and many other situations.

ISBN

9780062403063

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 800 KUR 2015

Copies

Author

Kang, Shimi K.

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Penguin Random house

Publication Date

2014

Physical Description

Hardcover: 316 p.

Subject

Parenting

Social Behaviour

Social Skills

Abstract

In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research, Dr. Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, joyful, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success.

ISBN

9780670067565

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Status

Processing

Call Number

GK 600 KAN 2014

Copies

Author

Bryden, Pier

Szatmari, Peter

Place of Publication

Toronto, ON

Publisher

Simon & Schuster

Publication Date

2020

Physical Description

Softcover ; ix, 271 p.

Subject

Mental Health

Mental Health/Illness

Parenting

Young Adults-Mental Health. Psychology

Children Mental Health

Abstract

"As parents, we worry about our children - about their physical health, performance at school, the types of friends they have, and, of course, their mental health. Every day seems to bring new and expanding issues and disorders and troubling statistics about the rise of mental illness in children and teens. It's usually obvious what to do for physical injuries like broken bones, but when it comes to our children's mental health, the answers are much less clear, and sometimes even contradictory.

"Pier Bryden and Peter Szatmari, top child and adolescent psychiatrists, are here to help. Using their combined six decades working with families and kids - and their own experiences as parents - they break down the stigma of mental health illness and walk parents through the warning signs, risk factors, prevention strategies, and the process of diagnosis and treatment for mental health challenges arising from: anxiety, substance use disorders, eating disorders, sleep disorders, depression, trauma, suicidal thoughts and behaviors, psychosis, ADHD, and autism.

"The most important thing to remember as a parent is that you and your child are not alone and there is a lot you can do to improve your child's mental health. The road ahead isn't always easy or straightforward, but start here to learn how to advocate for your child's well-being"--from the inside front cover.

ISBN

9781508257929

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 100 BRY 2020

Author

Siegel, Michele

Brisman, Judith

Weinshel, Margot

Edition

3rd

Publisher

Harper

Publication Date

2009

Physical Description

300 p.

Subject

Eating Disorders

Anorexia Nervosa

Bulimia

Parenting

Abstract

Thoroughly revised and updated with the latest research and methodologies, the fourth edition of the classic guide written specifically for parents, friends, and caregivers of individuals with eating disorders.

For more than thirty years, this classic guide has been an essential resource for the ?silent sufferers??those affected by a loved one?s eating disorder. This revised edition put family and friends at the center of the treatment process, providing the latest information on the methods and practices available to facilitate the recovery process.

Surviving an Eating Disorder is the first book for family and friends to use a psychological perspective to understand eating disorders. Other treatment manuals or self-help books propose change but Surviving is the first to consider why change can be so hard for everyone involved. The factors that can hinder progress are discussed and the methods that can work are emphasized. *Illustrated with case examples, this fourth edition explains the latest treatments and provides the necessary tools to carefully evaluate what can be most effective for each reader?s individual care. The authors offer concrete advice and support, urging readers to care for both themselves and their relationships as they support their loved ones struggling with food and eating issues.

ISBN

9780062954145

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

BB 500 SIE 2021

Copies

Author

Solomon, Andrew

Place of Publication

[Toronto, ON]

Publisher

Scribner

Publication Date

2012

Physical Description

Hardcover: 702 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Developmental Disabilities

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Relationships

Parenting

Parenting Children with Physical Disabilities

Abstract

Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.

ISBN

9780743236713

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 SOL 2012

Copies

Author

Guare, Richard

Dawson, Peg

Guare, Colin

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

The Guilford Press

Publication Date

2013

Physical Description

Softcover: 274 p.

Subject

Parenting Children with Disabilities

Learning Differences. Learning Disabilities

Parenting

Abstract

If you're the parent of a "smart but scattered" teen, trying to help him or her grow into a self-sufficient, responsible adult may feel like a never-ending battle. Now you have an alternative to micromanaging, cajoling, or ineffective punishments. This positive guide provides a science-based program for promoting teens' independence by building their executive skills--the fundamental brain-based abilities needed to get organized, stay focused, and control impulses and emotions.

ISBN

9781609182298

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FM 261 GUA 2013

Copies