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Giving hope: Conversations with children about illness, death, and loss

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Lister, Elena, Schwartzman, Michael. New York, NY: Penguin Random house , 2022.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100 LIS 2022
Availability
1 copy, 0 available
Just as death is inevitable, talking about death is an inevitable part of parenting. Drs. Lister and Schwartzman offer us the way to have conversations that are as much about life as they are about death; conversations that anyone who parents, teaches, or counsels children can have. Giving Hope is …
Author
Lister, Elena
Schwartzman, Michael
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Penguin Random house
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
Hardcover; 275 pages
Subject
Death and Dying
Grief. Bereavement
Suicide
Death and dying-Children
Abstract
Just as death is inevitable, talking about death is an inevitable part of parenting. Drs. Lister and Schwartzman offer us the way to have conversations that are as much about life as they are about death; conversations that anyone who parents, teaches, or counsels children can have. Giving Hope is a must-have resource that expands our understanding of how to prepare for, initiate, and facilitate these personal and profound conversations. The approach is honest, practical, and compassionate, and will benefit a grieving child now and in the future. Giving Hope gives us tools to make our children's experiences positive and life-affirming.
ISBN
9780593419151
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100 LIS 2022

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Helping children locked in rage or hate: A guidebook

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Sunderland, Margot, Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator). Oxon, UK: Speechmark , 2003.
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
CA 250 SUN 2003
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Hattie lives by herself on an island. Lots of people try to bring kindness to Hattie, but each time she is very horrid to them, smashing and spoiling everything they try to do for her. So after a while they all stop trying and Hattie is very alone. With the help of the lapping water-over-her-toes, …
Author
Sunderland, Margot
Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator)
Place of Publication
Oxon, UK
Publisher
Speechmark
Publication Date
2003
Physical Description
Spiral bound, paperback; 182 p. and picture book: paperback, col. ill.; (unpaged).
Series
Helping children with feelings
Subject
Anger
Children's Anger
Children's Emotions
Abstract
Hattie lives by herself on an island. Lots of people try to bring kindness to Hattie, but each time she is very horrid to them, smashing and spoiling everything they try to do for her. So after a while they all stop trying and Hattie is very alone. With the help of the lapping water-over-her-toes, Hattie understands that because she'd been a very sad and frightened little girl in a too hard world, she had become hard too, so that the awful fear and the awful pain would go away. The guidebook is to help children who: hurt, hit, bite, smash, kick, shout, scream or who are out of control, hyperaroused or hyperactive; can only discharge their angry feelings in verbal or physical attacks, rather than being able to think about and reflect on what they feel; are angry because it is easier than feeling hurt or sad are locked in anger or rage because of sibling rivalry; are controlling and punitive; regularly defy authority or are diagnosed with a conduct disorder; commit cold acts of cruelty, hurt animals or do not cry any more; spoil, damage or destroy what others do or make create fear in others because they have locked away their own fears.
Notes
Accompanied by the story book, How Hattie hated kindness, (ISBN 086388461X)
ISBN
0863884652
Language
English
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
CA 250 SUN 2003

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Helping children who bottle up their feelings: A guidebook

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Sunderland, Margot, Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator). Oxon, UK: Speechmark , 2000.
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
GK 720 SUN 2000
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Nevermind always carries on whatever happens! Each time something horrible happens to him he just tucks his feelings away and carries on with life. Find out what happens to Nevermind and how he begins to understand that his feelings do matter, how he learns to express them and stand up for himself.…
Author
Sunderland, Margot
Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator)
Place of Publication
Oxon, UK
Publisher
Speechmark
Publication Date
2000
Physical Description
Spiral bound, Paperback; 48 p. and picture book: paperback, col. ill.; (unpaged).
Series
Helping Children with Feelings
Subject
Children's Emotions
Children's Psychological Development
Abstract
Nevermind always carries on whatever happens! Each time something horrible happens to him he just tucks his feelings away and carries on with life. Find out what happens to Nevermind and how he begins to understand that his feelings do matter, how he learns to express them and stand up for himself. The guidebook will help children who: are trying to manage their too painful feelings by themselves; do not let themselves cry, protest or say that they are scared; are living with too many unresolved painful emotions from the past; have had disturbing, overwhelming or confusing experiences, which they have been unable to think through or feel through properly; are full of unexpressed feelings because expressing them feels far too dangerous; and, are full of unmourned grief.
Notes
Accompanied by the story book, A nifflenoo called Nevermind, (ISBN 0863884962)
ISBN
0863884571
Language
English
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
GK 720 SUN 2000

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Helping children with low self-esteem: A guidebook

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Sunderland, Margot, Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator). Oxon, UK: Speechmark , 2003.
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
CF 200 SUN 2003
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Ruby hates herself so much that she often feels more like a piece of rubbish than a little girl. Sometimes Ruby feels so miserable that she wants to sleep and sleep and never wake up again. Then Ruby meets Dot and, over time, Dot helps Ruby to move from self-hate to self-respect. After a very impor…
Author
Sunderland, Margot
Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator)
Place of Publication
Oxon, UK
Publisher
Speechmark
Publication Date
2003
Physical Description
Spiral bound, paperback; 91 p. and picture book: paperback, col. ill.; (unpaged).
Series
Helping Children with Feelings
Subject
Self-Concept (includes self-esteem)
Children's Emotions
Child Behaviour
Abstract
Ruby hates herself so much that she often feels more like a piece of rubbish than a little girl. Sometimes Ruby feels so miserable that she wants to sleep and sleep and never wake up again. Then Ruby meets Dot and, over time, Dot helps Ruby to move from self-hate to self-respect. After a very important dream, and help from Dot, Ruby finds her voice and her anger, and stands up to the bullies. She makes new friends and knows what it's like to feel happy for the first time in her life. The guidebook helps children who: don't like themselves or feel there is something fundamentally wrong with them; have been deeply shamed; have received too much criticism or haven't been encouraged enough; let people treat them badly because they feel they don't deserve better; do not accept praise or appreciation because they feel they don't deserve it; feel defeated by life, fundamentally unimportant, unwanted or unlovable; bully because they think they are worthless or think they are worthless because they are bullied; and, feel they don't belong or do not seek friends because they think no-one would want to be their friend.
Notes
This book is accompanied by the children's story book, Ruby and the rubbish bin. (ISBN 0863884709)
ISBN
0863884660
Language
English
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
CF 200 SUN 2003

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Gentle willow: A story for children about dying

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Mills, Joyce C., Chesworth, Michael (Illustrator). Washington, DC: Magination Press , 1993.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 MIL 1993
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A comforting story which helps children deal with the their own death, death of friends, a family member, or even pets. A loving and tender tale that addresses our feelings of sadness, love, disbelief, and anger.
Author
Mills, Joyce C.
Chesworth, Michael (Illustrator)
Place of Publication
Washington, DC
Publisher
Magination Press
Publication Date
1993
Physical Description
Hardcover, col. ill. (unpaged).
Subject
Coping with Death
Children and Grief
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
A comforting story which helps children deal with the their own death, death of friends, a family member, or even pets. A loving and tender tale that addresses our feelings of sadness, love, disbelief, and anger.
ISBN
945354541
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 MIL 1993

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Helping children who have hardened their hearts or become bullies: A guidebook

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Sunderland, Margot, Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator). Oxon, UK: Speechmark , 2000.
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
BE 965 SUN 2000
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Bipley is a warm cuddly creature, but someone has broken his heart. He feels so hurt that he decides it is just too painful to ever love again. When he meets some big tough Honks in the wood, they teach him how to harden his heart so that he doesn't have to feel hurt any more. Luckily Bipley meets …
Author
Sunderland, Margot
Armstrong, Nicky (illustrator)
Place of Publication
Oxon, UK
Publisher
Speechmark
Publication Date
2000
Physical Description
Spiral bound, paperback; 64 p. and picture book: paperback, col. ill.; (unpaged).
Series
Helping children with Feelings
Subject
Bullying
Children's Emotions
Child Behaviour
Abstract
Bipley is a warm cuddly creature, but someone has broken his heart. He feels so hurt that he decides it is just too painful to ever love again. When he meets some big tough Honks in the wood, they teach him how to harden his heart so that he doesn't have to feel hurt any more. Luckily Bipley meets some creatures that teach him how he can protect himself without hardening his heart. The guidebook will help childern who: bully or take revenge on others for the pain they have felt themselves
have become very defensive because something too painful has happened to them; have hardened their hearts because they have: been too hurt in love, met with too much harshness, witnessed parental violence, been repeatedly hit, been shamed or humiliated, or had too many experiences of not being responded to; think they have lost their parent's love to someone else and have hardened their heart.
Notes
Accompanied by the story book, A wibble called Bipley (and a few honks), ISBN 0863884946
ISBN
086388458X
Language
English
Material Type
Kit
Call Number
BE 965 SUN 2000

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On children and death: How children and their parents can and do cope with death

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Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. New York, NY: Simon & Schuster , 1983.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 255 KUB 1983
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book is based on a decade of working with dying children and was written to help parents and families cope with the terminal illness or sudden death of a child. It speaks directly to the fears, doubts, anger, confusion, and anguish that parents and families are faced with.
Author
Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Simon & Schuster
Publication Date
1983
Physical Description
Softcover: 271 pages
Subject
Coping with a Child's Death
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with Death
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
This book is based on a decade of working with dying children and was written to help parents and families cope with the terminal illness or sudden death of a child. It speaks directly to the fears, doubts, anger, confusion, and anguish that parents and families are faced with.
ISBN
0-684-83939-3
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 255 KUB 1983

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Healing your grieving heart for kids: 100 practical ideas: Simple advice and activities for children after a death

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Wolfelt, Alan D. Companion Press , 2001.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=516907
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 WOL 2001b
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful, ongoing part of life, they explain how people need to slow down, turn inward, embrace their feelings o…
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URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=516907
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
eBook, 130 pages
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful, ongoing part of life, they explain how people need to slow down, turn inward, embrace their feelings of loss, and seek and accept support when a loved one dies. Each book, geared for mourning adults, teens, or children, provides ideas and action-oriented tips that teach the basic principles of grief and healing. These ideas and activities are aimed at reducing the confusion, anxiety, and huge personal void so that the living can begin their lives again. Included in the books for teens and kids are age-appropriate activities that teach younger people that their thoughts are not only normal but necessary.
ISBN
9781617220784
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 WOL 2001b
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Healing your grieving heart for kids: 100 practical ideas: Simple advice and activities for children after a death

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Wolfelt, Alan D. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 WOL 2001
Availability
2 copies, 1 available
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful, ongoing part of life, they explain how people need to slow down, turn inward, embrace their feelings o…
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Place of Publication
Fort Collins, CO
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Paperback: [101 p.].
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful, ongoing part of life, they explain how people need to slow down, turn inward, embrace their feelings of loss, and seek and accept support when a loved one dies. Each book, geared for mourning adults, teens, or children, provides ideas and action-oriented tips that teach the basic principles of grief and healing. These ideas and activities are aimed at reducing the confusion, anxiety, and huge personal void so that the living can begin their lives again. Included in the books for teens and kids are age-appropriate activities that teach younger people that their thoughts are not only normal but necessary.
ISBN
9781879651272
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 WOL 2001

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Lifetimes: The beautiful way to explain death to children

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Mellonie, Bryan, Ingpen, Robert. [Toronto, ON]: Bantam Books , 1983.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 MEL 1983
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
Life and death are explained in a sensitive, caring way using examples from nature and lovely illustrations.
Author
Mellonie, Bryan
Ingpen, Robert
Place of Publication
[Toronto, ON]
Publisher
Bantam Books
Publication Date
1983
Physical Description
Paperback, ill, (unpaged)
Subject
Coping with Death
Children and Grief
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Picture Books
Abstract
Life and death are explained in a sensitive, caring way using examples from nature and lovely illustrations.
ISBN
0553344021
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 MEL 1983

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Big D : explaining death and dying to young children

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Kelly, Kate M. Burnstown, ON: , 2016.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 770 KEL 2016
Availability
2 copies, 2 available
What is death? Where do we go when we die? What happens to our bodies? These are some the many questions children may have when a loved one dies. The Big D helps parents talk about death and offers answers to help families through this difficult time. - Cover
Author
Kelly, Kate M.
Place of Publication
Burnstown, ON
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
39 unnumbered pages : ill.
Series
Elephant in the room series book
Subject
Children - Coping with Death and Dying
Grief. Bereavement
Abstract
What is death? Where do we go when we die? What happens to our bodies? These are some the many questions children may have when a loved one dies. The Big D helps parents talk about death and offers answers to help families through this difficult time. - Cover
ISBN
9781772570878
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 770 KEL 2016

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I know I made it happen: A gentle book about feelings

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Blackburn, Lynn Bennett., Dietrich, Glenda. (ill). Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation , 2001. 2nd ed.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR CA 260 BLA 2001
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book deals with childhood guilt in a positive way. It looks at feelings when there is a family fight, a divorce, illness, injury or death. The book gives kids support and understanding during a crisis and helps them understand that thoughts do not make bad things happen.
Author
Blackburn, Lynn Bennett.
Dietrich, Glenda. (ill).
Edition
2nd ed.
Place of Publication
Omaha, NE
Publisher
Centering Corporation
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Softcover: 23 pages
Subject
Guilt
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Children and Divorce
Divorce
Children's Emotions
Coping with Death
Picture Books
Abstract
This book deals with childhood guilt in a positive way. It looks at feelings when there is a family fight, a divorce, illness, injury or death. The book gives kids support and understanding during a crisis and helps them understand that thoughts do not make bad things happen.
ISBN
1561230162
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR CA 260 BLA 2001

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Luna's Red Hat: An Illustrated Storybook to Help Children Cope with Loss and Suicide

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Smid, Emmi. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2015.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 155 SMI 2015
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
It is a beautiful spring day, and Luna is having a picnic in the park with her family, wearing her Mum's red hat. Luna's Mum died one year ago and she still finds it difficult to understand why. She feels that it may have been her fault and worries that her Dad might leave her in the same way. Her …
Author
Smid, Emmi
Place of Publication
Philadelphia, PA
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2015
Physical Description
Hardcover
Subject
Survivors of Suicide
Coping with a Parent's Death
Grief. Bereavement
Abstract
It is a beautiful spring day, and Luna is having a picnic in the park with her family, wearing her Mum's red hat. Luna's Mum died one year ago and she still finds it difficult to understand why. She feels that it may have been her fault and worries that her Dad might leave her in the same way. Her Dad talks to her to explain what happened and together they think about all the happy memories they have of Mum.
This beautifully-illustrated storybook is designed as a tool to be read with children aged 6+ who have experienced the loss of a loved one by suicide. Suicide always causes shock, not just for the family members but for everyone around them, and children also have to deal with these feelings. The book approaches the subject sensitively and includes a guide for parents and professionals by bereavement expert, Dr Riet Fiddelaers-Jaspers. It will be of interest to anyone working with, or caring for, children bereaved by suicide, including bereavement counsellors, social workers and school staff, as well as parents, carers and other family members.
ISBN
9781849056298
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 155 SMI 2015

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Healing a child's grieving heart: 100 practical ideas for families, friends and caregivers

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Wolfelt, Alan D. Companion Press , 2001.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=516916
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
GV 250 WOL 2001c
A compassionate resource for friends, parents, relatives, teachers, volunteers, and caregivers, this series offers suggestions to help the grieving cope with the loss of a loved one. Often people do not know what to say?or what not to say?to someone they know who is mourning; this series teaches th…
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URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=516916
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
eBook, 130 pages
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
A compassionate resource for friends, parents, relatives, teachers, volunteers, and caregivers, this series offers suggestions to help the grieving cope with the loss of a loved one. Often people do not know what to say?or what not to say?to someone they know who is mourning; this series teaches that the most important thing a person can do is listen, have compassion, be there for support, and do something helpful. This volume addresses what to expect from grieving young people, and how to provide safe outlets for children to express emotion. Included in each book are tested, sensitive ideas for ?carpe diem? actions that people can take right this minute?while still remaining supportive and honoring the mourner?s loss.
ISBN
9781617220425
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
GV 250 WOL 2001c
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Healing a child's grieving heart: 100 practical ideas for families, friends and caregivers

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Wolfelt, Alan D. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 WOL 2001b
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A compassionate resource for friends, parents, relatives, teachers, volunteers, and caregivers, this series offers suggestions to help the grieving cope with the loss of a loved one. Often people do not know what to say?or what not to say?to someone they know who is mourning; this series teaches th…
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Place of Publication
Fort Collins, CO
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Paperback: [101 p.].
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
A compassionate resource for friends, parents, relatives, teachers, volunteers, and caregivers, this series offers suggestions to help the grieving cope with the loss of a loved one. Often people do not know what to say?or what not to say?to someone they know who is mourning; this series teaches that the most important thing a person can do is listen, have compassion, be there for support, and do something helpful. This volume addresses what to expect from grieving young people, and how to provide safe outlets for children to express emotion. Included in each book are tested, sensitive ideas for ?carpe diem? actions that people can take right this minute?while still remaining supportive and honoring the mourner?s loss.
ISBN
9781879651289
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 WOL 2001b

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The grieving child : A parent's guide

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Fitzgerald, Helen. Fireside Book , 2019.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 FIT 1992
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Explaining death to a child is one of the most difficult tasks a parent or other relative can face. The Grieving Child offers practical, compassionate advice for helping a child cope with the death of a parent or other loved one. Parents of children from preschool age to the teen years will find mu…
Author
Fitzgerald, Helen
Publisher
Fireside Book
Publication Date
2019
Physical Description
207 p.
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
Explaining death to a child is one of the most difficult tasks a parent or other relative can face. The Grieving Child offers practical, compassionate advice for helping a child cope with the death of a parent or other loved one. Parents of children from preschool age to the teen years will find much-needed guidance, covering:
? Helping a child visit the seriously ill or dying
? Using language appropriate to a child's age level
? Selecting useful books about death
? Handling especially difficult situations, including murder and suicide
? Deciding whether a child should attend a funeral
With a new chapter devoted to the special issues of the bereaved toddler, The Grieving Child provides invaluable suggestions for dealing with a child's emotional responses (including anger, guilt, and depression) and helping a child adjust to a new life.
ISBN
9780671767624
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 FIT 1992

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Grief in children: a handbook for adults

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Dyregov, Atle. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2008.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 780 DYR 2008
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This fully updated second edition of Grief in Children explains children's understanding of death at different ages and provides information on how the adults around them can best help them cope.; Whether a child experiences the death or loss of a friend, family member, classmate or teacher, it is …
Author
Dyregov, Atle
Place of Publication
Philadelphia, PA
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2008
Physical Description
paperback, 207 pages
Subject
Death and dying-Children
Death and Dying
Grief. Bereavement
Abstract
This fully updated second edition of Grief in Children explains children's understanding of death at different ages and provides information on how the adults around them can best help them cope.
Whether a child experiences the death or loss of a friend, family member, classmate or teacher, it is important for those caring for a bereaved child to know how to respond to their needs. Illustrated with vignettes, this accessible guide explores the methods of approaching grief that have been shown to work, provides advice on how loss and bereavement should be handled at school, explains when it is appropriate to enlist expert professional help and discusses the value of support for children and caregivers.
ISBN
9781843106128
1843106124
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 780 DYR 2008

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Bereaved children and teens: A support guide for parents and professionals

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Grollman, Earl A. [Boston, MA]: Beacon Press , 1995. Rev. ed. of: Explaining death to children. 1967. .
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 200 GRO 1995
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This is a comprehensive resource for parents, teachers, counselors, health-care professionals, clergy and others concerned about the children in their lives. Suggests ways of explaining death to children and teens from a number of perspectives eg. philosophical, cultural and religious.
Author
Grollman, Earl A.
Edition
Rev. ed. of: Explaining death to children. 1967.
Place of Publication
[Boston, MA]
Publisher
Beacon Press
Publication Date
1995
Physical Description
xii; 238 p.
Subject
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with Death
Children's Emotions
Emotional Health
Abstract
This is a comprehensive resource for parents, teachers, counselors, health-care professionals, clergy and others concerned about the children in their lives. Suggests ways of explaining death to children and teens from a number of perspectives eg. philosophical, cultural and religious.
ISBN
080702306X
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 200 GRO 1995

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What on earth do you do when someone dies?

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Romain, Trevor, Verdick, Elizabeth (Editor). Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing , 2023. second edition.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 ROM 2023
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Describes the many emotions involved in dealing with the death of a loved one and discusses how to work through such a situation.
Alternate Title
What on earth do you do when someone dies? Second edition
Author
Romain, Trevor
Verdick, Elizabeth (Editor)
Edition
second edition
Place of Publication
Minneapolis, MN
Publisher
Free Spirit Publishing
Publication Date
2023
Physical Description
paperback: 84 pages
Subject
Coping with Death
Children and Grief
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Grief. Bereavement
Abstract
Describes the many emotions involved in dealing with the death of a loved one and discusses how to work through such a situation.
ISBN
9798765922569
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 250 ROM 2023

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Something very sad happened: A toddler's guide to understanding death

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Zucker, Bonnie, Fleming, Kim (ill.). Washington, DC: Magination Press , 2016.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 200 ZUK 2016
Availability
4 copies, 4 available
This book "explains death in developmentally appropriate terms for two- and three-year old children. It reassures the child that it is okay to feel sad, and that love never dies.; Includes a note to parents and caregivers with more information about how to talk about death, answer your child's que…
Author
Zucker, Bonnie
Fleming, Kim (ill.)
Place of Publication
Washington, DC
Publisher
Magination Press
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
unnumbered pages : ill.
Subject
Grief. Bereavement
Children - Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
This book "explains death in developmentally appropriate terms for two- and three-year old children. It reassures the child that it is okay to feel sad, and that love never dies.
Includes a note to parents and caregivers with more information about how to talk about death, answer your child's questions, and maintain your connection throughout the grieving process."
Ages 2-3
ISBN
9781433822667
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 200 ZUK 2016

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Stewart's tree: A book for brothers and sisters when a baby dies shortly after birth

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124201
Campbell, Cathy. London, UK: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2018.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
PICTURE GK 580 CAM 2018
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Ellen's new baby brother Stewart has been 'lost'. Ellen looks in all the cupboards for Stewart, and even in the washing machine - then her family help her understand that Stewart has died and isn't going to come back. Together they plant a tree for Stewart, so they will always have a place to remem…
Author
Campbell, Cathy
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2018
Physical Description
Hardcover; [40p.]
Subject
Infant Mortality
Children - Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
Ellen's new baby brother Stewart has been 'lost'. Ellen looks in all the cupboards for Stewart, and even in the washing machine - then her family help her understand that Stewart has died and isn't going to come back. Together they plant a tree for Stewart, so they will always have a place to remember him.
A therapeutic children's book for explaining sibling loss to young children, colourfully illustrated to emphasize focusing on the happy memories of a lost child. The book ends with a guide to bereavement for children written by qualified clinicians.
ISBN
9781785923999
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
PICTURE GK 580 CAM 2018

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The Night Crossing: A Lullaby for Children on Life's Last Journey

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Jones, Pia, Pimenta, Sarah. New York, NY: Routledge , 2021.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100.5 JON 2021
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This beautifully illustrated and sensitive storybook is designed to be used therapeutically by professionals and caregivers supporting children with an untreatable illness. With engaging, gentle and colourful illustrations that can be used to prompt conversation, it tells the story of the final jou…
Author
Jones, Pia
Pimenta, Sarah
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Routledge
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Softcover; 28 pages
Subject
Death and dying-Children
Abstract
This beautifully illustrated and sensitive storybook is designed to be used therapeutically by professionals and caregivers supporting children with an untreatable illness. With engaging, gentle and colourful illustrations that can be used to prompt conversation, it tells the story of the final journey made by a Boy with a Bear, as the Boy says his goodbyes and comes to terms with his life-ending illness.
ISBN
9780367491208
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100.5 JON 2021

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Healing your grieving heart for teens: 100 practical ideas: Simple tips for understanding and expressing your grief

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog123063
Wolfelt, Alan D. Companion Press , 2001.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=516908
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
YOUTH GV 250 WOL 2001b
This book presents ideas to help teens recognize mourning as a natural process of loss, reassures them not be afraid of deep emotions, and shows them how to release grief in healthy, positive ways.
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URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=516908
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
eBook, 126 pages
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Young Adults
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
This book presents ideas to help teens recognize mourning as a natural process of loss, reassures them not be afraid of deep emotions, and shows them how to release grief in healthy, positive ways.
ISBN
9781617220814
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
YOUTH GV 250 WOL 2001b
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Healing your grieving heart for teens: 100 practical ideas: Simple tips for understanding and expressing your grief

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog106172
Wolfelt, Alan D. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GV 250 WOL 2001
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book presents ideas to help teens recognize mourning as a natural process of loss, reassures them not be afraid of deep emotions, and shows them how to release grief in healthy, positive ways.
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Place of Publication
Fort Collins, CO
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Paperback: [101 p.].
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Young Adults
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
This book presents ideas to help teens recognize mourning as a natural process of loss, reassures them not be afraid of deep emotions, and shows them how to release grief in healthy, positive ways.
ISBN
1879651238
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GV 250 WOL 2001

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All in God's time, my sons

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Moeller, Geoff. [Vancouver, BC?]: ireadiwrite Publishing , 2010.
URL
http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/All in Gods Time BCCW.pdf
Material Type
Book
Online
On a Saturday morning at the end of November 2008, a young family suffered the loss of two sons and the permanent paralysis of another as a result of an automobile accident. Rather than tear the family apart, the tragedy drew them closer and touched the hearts of people in and out of their Catholic…
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URL
http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/All in Gods Time BCCW.pdf
Website Notes
Click on the link above to read the eBook.
Author
Moeller, Geoff
Place of Publication
[Vancouver, BC?]
Publisher
ireadiwrite Publishing
Publication Date
2010
Physical Description
1 PDF file: (eBook) 134 p.
Subject
Coping with a Child's Death
Death and dying-Children
Grief. Bereavement
Abstract
On a Saturday morning at the end of November 2008, a young family suffered the loss of two sons and the permanent paralysis of another as a result of an automobile accident. Rather than tear the family apart, the tragedy drew them closer and touched the hearts of people in and out of their Catholic community. The boys' father began writing to express the painful emotions he felt and the faith that supported him. These poems and reflections, though heart-wrenching, have been presented in the hope they may bring comfort to other victims of tragedy by witnessing to the healing and transforming power of faith, family and love.
Notes
This book is made available to the users of the Family Resource Library at BC Children
ISBN
978-1-926760-21-6
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Online
URLs
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Child's book about funerals and cemetaries

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Grollman, Earl, Johnson, Joy. Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 300 GRO 2001a
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Begins with what the child will see at the funeral home. Talks about the casket, what death is, and what the body will look like. Includes information about cremation and what the cemetery is like. "Later a monument or stone or plaque may be placed at the grave. It will tell the person's name and d…
Author
Grollman, Earl
Johnson, Joy
Place of Publication
Omaha, NE
Publisher
Centering Corporation
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Paperback: 20 pages
Series
Healing Workshop Series
Subject
Planning for Death. Funeral Arrangements
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with Death
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
Begins with what the child will see at the funeral home. Talks about the casket, what death is, and what the body will look like. Includes information about cremation and what the cemetery is like. "Later a monument or stone or plaque may be placed at the grave. It will tell the person's name and date of birth and date of death and perhaps have a few words of loving memory." Includes a parents section.
ISBN
1561231487
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 300 GRO 2001a

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Healing your grieving heart: 100 practical ideas: Compassionate advice and simple activities to help you through your loss

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124577
Wolfelt, Alan D. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 WOL 2001d
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful, ongoing part of life, it explains how people need to slow down, turn inward, embrace their feelings of…
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D.
Place of Publication
Fort Collins, CO
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Paperback: 128 pages
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief. Bereavement
Abstract
With sensitivity and insight, this series offers suggestions for healing activities that can help survivors learn to express their grief and mourn naturally. Acknowledging that death is a painful, ongoing part of life, it explains how people need to slow down, turn inward, embrace their feelings of loss, and seek and accept support when a loved one dies. Each book, geared for mourning adults, teens, or children, provides ideas and action-oriented tips that teach the basic principles of grief and healing. These ideas and activities are aimed at reducing the confusion, anxiety, and huge personal void so that living their lives can begin again.
ISBN
9781879651258
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 WOL 2001d

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I have a question about death: A book for children with Autism Spectrum Disorder or other special needs

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124203
Gaines, Arlen Grad, Polsky, Meredith Englander. London, UK: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2017.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100 GAI 2017
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images to walk children through what it means when someone dies, as well as ways they might want to react or to think about the person. Using clear illustrations throughout and with information for parents and guardians, this book is essen…
Author
Gaines, Arlen Grad
Polsky, Meredith Englander
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2017
Physical Description
Hardcover; [40p.]
Subject
Autism
Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)
Developmental Disabilities - Children
Children - Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images to walk children through what it means when someone dies, as well as ways they might want to react or to think about the person. Using clear illustrations throughout and with information for parents and guardians, this book is essential for families with a child aged 5-11 with Autism Spectrum Disorder or other special needs.
ISBN
9781785927508
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100 GAI 2017

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Expected loss: Coping with anticipatory grief

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Wolfelt, Alan D. Companion Press , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 200 WOL 2020
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
We don?t only experience grief after a loss?we often experience it before. If someone we love is seriously ill, or if we?re concerned about upcoming hardships of any kind, we naturally begin to grieve right now. This process of anticipatory grief is normal, but it can also be confusing and painful.…
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
Softcover; 50 pages
Subject
Grief. Bereavement
Death and Dying
Complicated Grief (includes Violent and Sudden Death)
Abstract
We don?t only experience grief after a loss?we often experience it before. If someone we love is seriously ill, or if we?re concerned about upcoming hardships of any kind, we naturally begin to grieve right now. This process of anticipatory grief is normal, but it can also be confusing and painful. Life is change, and change is hard. This book will help see you through.
ISBN
9781617222955
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 200 WOL 2020

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Child's book about burial and cremation

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Grollman, Earl, Johnson, Joy. Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 300 GRO 2001b
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book explains burial and cremation to children. Begins with the funeral or memorial service, talks about what death is and the different ways people care for their loved ones bodies. Talks about how the funeral director takes care of dead bodies, the burial and cremation. Gentle and honest exp…
Author
Grollman, Earl
Johnson, Joy
Place of Publication
Omaha, NE
Publisher
Centering Corporation
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Paperback: 16 pages
Series
Healing Workbook Series
Subject
Planning for Death. Funeral Arrangements
Cremation
Burial
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with Death
Children-Coping with Death and Dying
Abstract
This book explains burial and cremation to children. Begins with the funeral or memorial service, talks about what death is and the different ways people care for their loved ones bodies. Talks about how the funeral director takes care of dead bodies, the burial and cremation. Gentle and honest explanations that children can understand.
ISBN
1561231460
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 300 GRO 2001b

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The worst loss: How families heal from the death of a child

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Rosof, Barbara D. New York, NY: Henry Holt and Company, Inc. , 1994.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 255 ROS 1994
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book will help families who have experienced the loss of a child to know what they are facing, understand what they are feeling, and appreciate their own needs and timetables.
Author
Rosof, Barbara D.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Henry Holt and Company, Inc.
Publication Date
1994
Physical Description
Paperback, xiii, 290 p.
Subject
Coping with a Child's Death
Coping with a Sibling's Death
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with Death
Abstract
This book will help families who have experienced the loss of a child to know what they are facing, understand what they are feeling, and appreciate their own needs and timetables.
ISBN
0-8050-3241-X
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 255 ROS 1994

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Helping children to manage stress: Photocopiable activity booklet to support wellbeing and resilience

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124208
Plummer, Deborah, Harper, Alice. London, UK: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2022.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6892603
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
CB 500 PLU 2022
Plummer provides varied and straightforward activities for teachers, parents, and therapists to healthily engage with children and help them manage stress. This activity book allows space to explore stress and help children identify some of their worries, whilst also providing help on how to build …
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URL
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Website Notes
9781787758650
Author
Plummer, Deborah
Harper, Alice
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
111p.
Series
Helping Children to Build Wellbeing and Resilience
Subject
Children's Emotions
Stress
Abstract
Plummer provides varied and straightforward activities for teachers, parents, and therapists to healthily engage with children and help them manage stress. This activity book allows space to explore stress and help children identify some of their worries, whilst also providing help on how to build skills and strategies that will help them recognise normal signs of stress and how to respond to these appropriately. It also explores the potential benefits and enjoyments of positive stress, allowing children to have a healthy relationship with difficult feelings.
The accompanying ebook Using Imagination, Mindful Play and Creative Thinking to Support Wellbeing and Resilience in Children describes the theory and approach behind how these activities can significantly influence children's perceptions of themselves and the world.
ISBN
9781787758667
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
CB 500 PLU 2022
URLs
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BCW 693 Caring for yourself after the loss of your baby

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Maternal Newborn Program. [Vancouver, BC?]: BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre , 2020.
URL
http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW693_Caringforyourselfafterthelossofyourbaby.pdf
Material Type
Handout
Online
Call Number
BCW693
This booklet provides information on what to expect physically and emotionally as you deal with the immediate stages of grief in the hours, days and weeks after giving birth.; This booklet is a companion to the bcwomens.ca website.; Keywords have been highlighted in each section under 'resources + …
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URL
http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW693_Caringforyourselfafterthelossofyourbaby.pdf
Corporate Author
Maternal Newborn Program
Place of Publication
[Vancouver, BC?]
Publisher
BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
PDF: 20 p.
Subject
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with a Child's Death
Coping with Pain
Coping with Death
Abstract
This booklet provides information on what to expect physically and emotionally as you deal with the immediate stages of grief in the hours, days and weeks after giving birth.
This booklet is a companion to the bcwomens.ca website.
Keywords have been highlighted in each section under 'resources + support' to help you find related information.
Language
English
Material Type
Handout
Online
Call Number
BCW693
Images
URLs
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Helping children to manage anger: Photocopiable activity booklet to support wellbeing and resilience

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124207
Plummer, Deborah, Harper, Alice. London, UK: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2022.
URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6892601
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
CA 250 PLU 2022
Based on over thirty years of expertise, Deborah Plummer provides varied and straightforward activities for teachers, parents, and therapists to healthily engage with children and help them manage anger. This activity book allows space to explore anger and varying degrees of emotion whilst also pro…
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URL
https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/cwhbc/detail.action?docID=6892601
Author
Plummer, Deborah
Harper, Alice
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2022
Physical Description
114p.
Series
Helping Children to Build Wellbeing and Resilience
Subject
Children's Anger
Children's Emotions
Abstract
Based on over thirty years of expertise, Deborah Plummer provides varied and straightforward activities for teachers, parents, and therapists to healthily engage with children and help them manage anger. This activity book allows space to explore anger and varying degrees of emotion whilst also providing help on how to manage it, allowing children to have better and healthier emotional self-awareness. This book is one of a series based on the use of imagination (I), mindful play (MP) and creative thinking (CT) to enhance social, psychological and emotional wellbeing and resilience in children.
The accompanying ebook, Using Imagination, Mindful Play and Creative Thinking to Support Wellbeing and Resilience in Children, describes the theory and approach behind how these activities can significantly influence children's perceptions of themselves and the world.
ISBN
9781787758643
Language
English
Material Type
Ebook
Call Number
CA 250 PLU 2022
URLs
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Finding the Words: How to Talk with Children and Teens about Death, Suicide, Funerals, Cremation, and Other End-of-Life Matters

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog123995
Wolfelt, Alan D. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press , 2013.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100 WOL 2013
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
With this compassionate book by respected grief counselor and educator Dr. Alan Wolfelt, readers will find simplified and suitable methods for talking to children and teenagers about sensitive topics with an emphasis on the subject of death. Honest but child-appropriate language is advocated, and v…
Author
Wolfelt, Alan D
Place of Publication
Fort Collins, CO
Publisher
Companion Press
Publication Date
2013
Physical Description
Softcover; 138 pages
Subject
Death and Dying
Abstract
With this compassionate book by respected grief counselor and educator Dr. Alan Wolfelt, readers will find simplified and suitable methods for talking to children and teenagers about sensitive topics with an emphasis on the subject of death. Honest but child-appropriate language is advocated, and various wording and levels of explanation are suggested for different ages when discussing topics such as death in general, suicide, homicide, accidental death, the death of a child, terminal illness, pet death, funerals, and cremation. An ideal book for parents, caregivers, and counselors looking for an easy resource when talking to youths about death, this book can be used for any setting, religious or otherwise.
ISBN
9781617221897
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100 WOL 2013

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Duck, death and the tulip

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog121140
Erlbruch, Wolf. Wellington, NZ: Gecko Press , 2008.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100 ERL 2008
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In a strangely heart-warming story, a duck strikes up an unlikely friendship with Death.
Author
Erlbruch, Wolf
Place of Publication
Wellington, NZ
Publisher
Gecko Press
Publication Date
2008
Physical Description
30 unnumbered pages : ill.
Subject
Death and Dying
Death and dying-Children
Fiction
Abstract
In a strangely heart-warming story, a duck strikes up an unlikely friendship with Death.
ISBN
9781877467141
1877467146
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100 ERL 2008

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Anything for my child: Making impossible decisions for medically complex children

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124865
Nimmo, Stephanie. London, UK: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2024.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
EF 850.5 NIM 2024
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Every parent wants the same thing: for their child to enjoy a long and fulfilling life. But what happens when things don't go according to plan? What happens when parents have to become advocates for their child's healthcare needs? Who decides what is in a child's 'best interests'?; Stephanie Nimmo…
Author
Nimmo, Stephanie
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2024
Physical Description
Softcover; 272 pages
Subject
Coping with Chronic Illness-Children
Caregivers-Coping
Caregivers for a Dying Loved One
Abstract
Every parent wants the same thing: for their child to enjoy a long and fulfilling life. But what happens when things don't go according to plan? What happens when parents have to become advocates for their child's healthcare needs? Who decides what is in a child's 'best interests'?
Stephanie Nimmo faced these questions first-hand when her daughter, Daisy, was diagnosed with a life-limiting condition as a baby. Seen through the lens of Stephanie's own experiences, this sensitive book delves into the complex world of medical ethics and pediatric palliative care. From recognizing tipping points to the importance of building relationships with palliative care teams well before crisis, this book explores how medical professionals can better support families throughout their child's care.
Interviews with clinicians and snapshots from the lives of patients' families provide insight into the realities of life on both sides of the hospital bed. Compassionate explanations of the conflicting pressures in the hospital system foster understanding and help medical professionals and families work together.
ISBN
5727227010272
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
EF 850.5 NIM 2024

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Missing our baby: A story of life and love for children who have lost a sibling due to pregnancy or infant loss

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog125106
Pelletier, Annie. Sudbury, ON: Independently published , 2023.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 259 PEL 2023
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In this inspiring story, a child tells us how they feel after losing their baby brother. Their grief journey is brought to life through illustrations, giving us a glimpse into their inner world. Helpful strategies and tips are also included.
Author
Pelletier, Annie
Place of Publication
Sudbury, ON
Publisher
Independently published
Publication Date
2023
Physical Description
Softcover; 50 pages
Subject
Coping with a Sibling's Death
Pregnancy Loss. Miscarriage.
Abstract
In this inspiring story, a child tells us how they feel after losing their baby brother. Their grief journey is brought to life through illustrations, giving us a glimpse into their inner world. Helpful strategies and tips are also included.
ISBN
9798389765191
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 259 PEL 2023

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We dream medicine dreams

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124102
Boivin, Lisa. Winnipeg, MB: HighWater Press , 2021.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 200 BOI 2021
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
From Dene artist and bioethicist Lisa Boivin comes this healing story of hope, dreams, and the special bond between grandfather and granddaughter. When a little girl dreams about a bear, her grandfather explains how we connect with the knowledge of our ancestors through dreams. Bear, Hawk, Caribou,…
Author
Boivin, Lisa
Place of Publication
Winnipeg, MB
Publisher
HighWater Press
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
Hardcover; Non-paginated
Subject
Grief.Bereavement
Children's Emotions
Coping with Death
Indigenous
Abstract
From Dene artist and bioethicist Lisa Boivin comes this healing story of hope, dreams, and the special bond between grandfather and granddaughter. When a little girl dreams about a bear, her grandfather explains how we connect with the knowledge of our ancestors through dreams. Bear, Hawk, Caribou, and Wolf all have teachings to share to help us live a good life. But when Grampa gets sick and falls into a coma, the little girl must lean on his teachings as she learns to say goodbye. Masterful prose and stunning collage weave a gentle story about life and death that will touch the hearts of children and adults alike.
Recommended for children aged 6-8.
ISBN
9781553799870
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 200 BOI 2021

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Ollie the octopus: Loss & bereavement activity book

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Triesman, Karen, Peacock, Sarah [ill.]. London, UK and Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2021.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 TRE 2021
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
In a magical underwater forest lived a colourful and loveable Octopus called Ollie, who loved swimming with his friends and spending time with his mum and dad, Orla and Orson the Octopuses.; Until one day, Orla started to get very sick. The doctors did everything they could to help her, but very sa…
Alternate Title
Ollie the octopus : Loss and bereavement activity book
Author
Triesman, Karen
Peacock, Sarah [ill.]
Place of Publication
London, UK and Philadelphia, PA
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2021
Physical Description
softcover; 251 pages
Subject
Coping with Death
Grief.Bereavement
Abstract
In a magical underwater forest lived a colourful and loveable Octopus called Ollie, who loved swimming with his friends and spending time with his mum and dad, Orla and Orson the Octopuses.
Until one day, Orla started to get very sick. The doctors did everything they could to help her, but very sadly, Orla died. Ollie had so many thoughts and feelings spinning around in his head, and his heart was hurting.
This activity book has been developed by expert child Psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Karen Treisman. The first part of the book is a colourful illustrated therapeutic story about Ollie the Octopus, with a focus on Ollie making sense of and processing the loss of his mum, Orla. This is followed by a wealth of creative activities and colourful photocopiable worksheets for children and the people supporting them to explore aspects of loss, grief, death, and bereavement, and how to find ways to understand and cope with them.
The final section of the book is full of advice and practical strategies for parents, carers, and professionals on how to help children aged 5-10 to begin to understand the complex and multi-layered feelings surrounding loss and bereavement, and what they can do to help navigate them through their grief journey.
ISBN
9781787757660
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 250 TRE 2021

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I will remember you: A guidebook through grief for teens

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog106169
Dower, Laura. New York, NY: Scholastic, Inc. , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GV 200 DOW 2001
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Encourages young readers to explore the "long, winding tunnel" of the grieving process and to keep going in the face of terrible loss and sadness.
Author
Dower, Laura.
Place of Publication
New York, NY
Publisher
Scholastic, Inc.
Publication Date
2001
Subject
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with Death
Young Adults
Abstract
Encourages young readers to explore the "long, winding tunnel" of the grieving process and to keep going in the face of terrible loss and sadness.
ISBN
0439139619
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GV 200 DOW 2001

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Now what ... ? Living with the death of your parent or brother or sister from cancer

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Don, Pauline, Young, Rob (Designer). Sydney, Australia: CanTeen , 2011.
URL
http://nowwhat.org.au/
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GV 200 DON 2011
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This book is meant to be like a friend accompanying a child or young adult on their journey of grief after losing a sibling or parent to cancer. This book was created with input from lots of young people who have shared similar experiences. And while it can't give you all the answers you may be loo…
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URL
http://nowwhat.org.au/
Author
Don, Pauline
Young, Rob (Designer)
Corporate Author
The Australian Organisation for Young People Living with Cancer
Place of Publication
Sydney, Australia
Publisher
CanTeen
Publication Date
2011
Physical Description
Spiral bound soft cover: 66 p.
Subject
Cancer-Coping
Young Adults
Grief. Bereavement
Death and Dying
Abstract
This book is meant to be like a friend accompanying a child or young adult on their journey of grief after losing a sibling or parent to cancer. This book was created with input from lots of young people who have shared similar experiences. And while it can't give you all the answers you may be looking for, it may help you find something that helps you make sense of the space you're now in.
ISBN
9780980463743
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
YOUTH GV 200 DON 2011

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Helping children with sexual behavior problems: A guidebook for professionals and caregivers

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Johnson, Toni Cavanagh. San Diego, CA: Family Violence and Sexual Assault Institute , 2016. 5th.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 880 CAV 2016
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
This booklet was written to assist professionals and caregivers of children 12 and younger who are experiencing difficulties in the area of sexual behavior.
Author
Johnson, Toni Cavanagh
Edition
5th
Place of Publication
San Diego, CA
Publisher
Family Violence and Sexual Assault Institute
Publication Date
2016
Physical Description
Paperback, 39 p. : ill.
Subject
Child Sexual Behaviour
Abstract
This booklet was written to assist professionals and caregivers of children 12 and younger who are experiencing difficulties in the area of sexual behavior.
ISBN
1882948181
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GK 880 CAV 2016

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The recurrent pregnancy loss clinic

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog113048
The Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Clinic. [Vancouver, BC?]: BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre , 2014.
URL
http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW927_RecurrentPregnancyLoss_2014.pdf
Material Type
Pamphlet
Online
Call Number
BCW927
This pamphlet provides information about the The Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Clinic, a team at BC Women's Hospital consisting of a team of health care professionals. Recurrent Pregnancy Loss (RPL) is when a woman experiences 2 or more consecutive miscarriages (1 miscarriage after another).
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URL
http://www.cw.bc.ca/library/pdf/pamphlets/BCW927_RecurrentPregnancyLoss_2014.pdf
Website Notes
Click on the link above to view/print.
Corporate Author
The Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Clinic
Place of Publication
[Vancouver, BC?]
Publisher
BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre
Publication Date
2014
Physical Description
PDF: 4 p.
Subject
Grief. Bereavement
Coping with a Child's Death
Abstract
This pamphlet provides information about the The Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Clinic, a team at BC Women's Hospital consisting of a team of health care professionals. Recurrent Pregnancy Loss (RPL) is when a woman experiences 2 or more consecutive miscarriages (1 miscarriage after another).
Language
English
Material Type
Pamphlet
Online
Call Number
BCW927
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Gift of Gerbert's feathers, The

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Weaver, Meaghann, Wiener Lori (illustrator). Washington, DC: Magination Press , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100.5 WEA 2020
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
Gerbert the gosling is strong and brave and has fun times with his family and friends but knows that, one day soon, he won't be able to keep up with them anymore. As Gerbert prepares for his final migration, he finds a way to show his flock that he will always be with them. Includes a one-page Note…
Author
Weaver, Meaghann
Wiener Lori (illustrator)
Place of Publication
Washington, DC
Publisher
Magination Press
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
Hardcover ; [30 p.], illustrations
Subject
Death and dying-Children
Abstract
Gerbert the gosling is strong and brave and has fun times with his family and friends but knows that, one day soon, he won't be able to keep up with them anymore. As Gerbert prepares for his final migration, he finds a way to show his flock that he will always be with them. Includes a one-page Note to Readers and an online. Note: with additional information useful for parents, caregivers, grandparents, siblings, and teachers.
ISBN
9781433830235
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100.5 WEA 2020

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Pain, pain, go away: Helping children with pain

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog107888
McGrath, Patrick J., Finley, Allen, Ritchie, Judith. [Bethesda, MD]: Association for the Care of Children's Health , 1994.
URL
http://pediatric-pain.ca/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/PPGA2003.pdf
Material Type
Online
This booklet is to teach parents about pain in children and to help them to ask for better care. It tells about sources of pain, how to measure it in children, and pain management.
  1 url  
URL
http://pediatric-pain.ca/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/PPGA2003.pdf
Author
McGrath, Patrick J.
Finley, Allen
Ritchie, Judith
Place of Publication
[Bethesda, MD]
Publisher
Association for the Care of Children's Health
Publication Date
1994
Physical Description
PDF, 15 p.
Subject
Pain
Coping with Pain
Abstract
This booklet is to teach parents about pain in children and to help them to ask for better care. It tells about sources of pain, how to measure it in children, and pain management.
Language
English
Material Type
Online
URLs
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Follow the child: Planning and having the best end-of-life care for your child

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog124186
Langton-Gilks, Sacha. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers , 2018.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100.5 LAN 2018
Drawing on her family's own experiences and those of other parents facing the death of a child from illness or a life-limiting condition, Sacha Langton-Gilks explains the challenges, planning, and conversations that can be expected during this traumatic period. Practical advice such as how to work …
Author
Langton-Gilks, Sacha
Place of Publication
Philadelphia, PA
Publisher
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication Date
2018
Physical Description
Paperback; [232p.]
Subject
Death and dying-Children
Palliative Care
Abstract
Drawing on her family's own experiences and those of other parents facing the death of a child from illness or a life-limiting condition, Sacha Langton-Gilks explains the challenges, planning, and conversations that can be expected during this traumatic period. Practical advice such as how to work with the healthcare professionals, drawing up an Advance Care Plan, and how to move care into the home sit alongside tender observations of how such things worked in her own family's story.
ISBN
9781785923463
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GV 100.5 LAN 2018
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Why do things die?

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Daynes, Katie, Pim, Christine (ill.). London, UK: Usborne Publishing , 2020.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100 DAY 2020
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A beautiful and gentle look at the circle of life, using Christine Pym's gorgeous animals characters to explore the emotions and facts around death, with questions such as Is it ok to talk about dying? What happens when someone dies? Can I shout and cry and hide away? and How can I stop feeling sad…
Author
Daynes, Katie
Pim, Christine (ill.)
Place of Publication
London, UK
Publisher
Usborne Publishing
Publication Date
2020
Physical Description
Board book; [no page numbers]
Series
Usborne first questions and answers
Usborne lift-the-flap
Subject
Death and Dying
Abstract
A beautiful and gentle look at the circle of life, using Christine Pym's gorgeous animals characters to explore the emotions and facts around death, with questions such as Is it ok to talk about dying? What happens when someone dies? Can I shout and cry and hide away? and How can I stop feeling sad? The latest in the wonderful First Questions and Answers series, this title covers an extremely tricky topic in a friendly and approachable way. Uses animal characters in the same way as First Q&A: What are feelings? Fills a very important gap in the market, helping parents and carers to find the words to explain death and dying to young children.
ISBN
9781474979887
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
JUNIOR GV 100 DAY 2020

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Kids helping kids: A guide for children exposed to domestic violence

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog109236
Hudson, Kareen, Rahman, Shahnaz, Penfold, Sue. [Vancouver, BC?]: BC Children's Hospital , 2005.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
CE 300 HUD 2005
Availability
3 copies, 3 available
This guide, intended for children aged five through twelve years, has been developed using children’s ideas, artwork and play. It shares children’s worries and feelings about living in violent homes.
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Author
Hudson, Kareen
Rahman, Shahnaz
Penfold, Sue
Corporate Author
Mental Health Program
Place of Publication
[Vancouver, BC?]
Publisher
BC Children's Hospital
Publication Date
2005
Physical Description
Paperback, 8.5 x 11 in.: 36 pages
Subject
Battering. Spouse Abuse. Partner Abuse/Domestic Violence
Battering. Spouse Abuse. Partner Abuse-Coping
Abusive Relationships-Coping
Domestic Abuse
Abstract
This guide, intended for children aged five through twelve years, has been developed using children’s ideas, artwork and play. It shares children’s worries and feelings about living in violent homes.
ISBN
097373891x
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
CE 300 HUD 2005

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Grieving the child I never knew: A devotional companion for comfort in the loss of your unborn or newly born child

https://bcch.andornot.com/en/permalink/catalog107564
Wunnenberg, Kathe. Grand Rapids, MI: ZondervanPublishingHouse , 2001.
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GH 330 WUN 2001
Availability
1 copy, 1 available
A book that describes the author's journey through sorrow after experiencing thre miscarriages and the death of an infant son. It is a devotional collection to help others grieve and invities to presents hurts before God and to recieve over time the healing that He alone can provide.
Author
Wunnenberg, Kathe
Place of Publication
Grand Rapids, MI
Publisher
ZondervanPublishingHouse
Publication Date
2001
Physical Description
Hardcover, 157 p.
Subject
Coping with a Child's Death
Pregnancy Loss. Miscarriage.
Spirituality
Abstract
A book that describes the author's journey through sorrow after experiencing thre miscarriages and the death of an infant son. It is a devotional collection to help others grieve and invities to presents hurts before God and to recieve over time the healing that He alone can provide.
ISBN
0-310-22777-1
Language
English
Material Type
Book
Call Number
GH 330 WUN 2001

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