Author

Verdick, Elizabeth

Heinlen, Marieka (Illustrator)

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MI

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Board book; illustrated; 24 pages

Series

Best Behavior® series

Subject

Child Behaviour

Child Social Behaviour

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

Young children learn that everybody cries, how crying can help them, and ways they can cope with challenging feelings.

"You cry when you're sad or mad. Crying gets the hurt out." Tears Are Not Forever reassures children that everybody cries and gives them space to cry and experience their "down" feelings.

Sadness and disappointment are common, recurring emotions that children can learn to understand, handle, and grow from. With vivid illustrations and straightforward suggestions, Tears Are Not Forever provides practical advice for coping with these challenging feelings. "Remember, tears are not forever. In a little while, you'll feel better."

A section for adults reinforces the book's message that crying is a natural, normal response to strong feelings and includes tips and activities to help children express and handle their feelings.

ISBN

9781631986901

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GK 800 VER 2023

Alternate Title

Congrats your're having a teen

Author

Ginsburg, Kenneth R.

Place of Publication

Itasca, IL

Publisher

American Academy of Pediatrics

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 336 pages

Subject

Parent-Young Adult Relationships

Parenting

Relationships-Parent/Child

Abstract

Congrats - you' re having a teen! No, really - congratulations! You're entering one of the most exciting, important phases of parenting. These years are your best opportunity to guide your child toward a thriving adulthood and strengthen your relationship with them for life. This guide will help you understand, encourage, support, love, and, yes, even celebrate your teen!

The teen years may bring challenges. This book prepares you to meet those challenges as a family while staying firmly committed to raising a good person.

ISBN

9781610025980

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GL 450 GIN 2023

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Alternate Title

It's totally normal!

Author

Mehta, Monica Gupta

Mehta, Asha Lily

Fisher, Fox (illustrator)

Place of Publication

London, UK and Philadelphia, PA

Publisher

Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 206 pages

Subject

Sex Education

Young Adults-Gender Identity & Expression

Sexual Abuse-Prevention

Abstract

Mother and teen duo Monica and Asha Mehta work together to answer your most pressing questions. Forget the penis-in-vagina basics - this is a queer friendly guide that'll have you rethinking the very definition of sex. Combining expert advice with the personal experiences of teens all over the world, prepare to plunge into the topics they don't cover in sex ed. Masturbation, pornography, fetishes - if you're not afraid to ask, they're not afraid to answer.

Contents:

- "I love puberty!" (said no one, ever)

- Sex (only your teachers call it "intercourse")

- Yes, yes, yes (understanding consent)

- Safer sex (it doesn't kill the mood)

- Gender (hint: there are more than two)

- Sexuality (born this way)

- LGBTQIA+ and allies (it's not just a phase)

- Relationships (they don't exist in a bubble)

ISBN

9781839973550

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH GA 110 MEH 2023

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Alternate Title

Previous title: Social behavior mapping

Author

Winner, Michelle Garcia

Crooke, Pamela

Place of Publication

Santa Clara, CA

Publisher

Social Think Publishing

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Softcover; 83 pages

Subject

Child Social Behaviour

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

What's happening around us influences our thoughts, feelings, and responses. Social Situation Mapping (formerly Social Behavior Mapping), a core teaching framework within the Social Thinking Methodology, uses visual templates to encourage learners to engage social observation for figuring out what to do and say (or not do and say) based on a particular situation: where we are, who is present, and what is happening. The maps also outline a fundamental teaching framework we call the Social Emotional Chain Reaction, which shows how we all impact one another when sharing space. The maps are meant to be taught from the perspective of the student or client to provide options for what to do or say in common situations. We encourage educators, therapists, and parents to jointly generate unique maps alongside the student or client based on their individual goals.

Revised, retitled, and updated with our most current teaching, Social Situation Mapping includes:

- 80+ completed Social Situation Maps (SSMs) to explore 40+ practical everyday situations that happen at school, home, and in the community.

- Maps with blank spaces for students to add their own ideas and observations.

- Maps with options to honor neurodivergent choices or strategies. Some options are also inclusive of learning differences and/or disabilities.

- One blank map template that can be photocopied and used again and again. The completed maps within this book can also be used as guideposts as learners generate their own maps and figure out a path through the lens of their social goals or desires.

- A description of the Social Emotional Chain Reaction (SECR), the foundational concept taught in Social Situation Mapping.

- The 10-Step Visual Fidelity and Teaching Guide.

ISBN

9781936943944

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 850 WIN 2023

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Author

Hammarrenger, Benoit

Edition

2nd

Place of Publication

TBD

Publisher

Editions Midi trente

Publication Date

2023

Subject

Disruptive Behavior Disorders

Attention Deficit Disorder. Hyperactivity

Anxiety. Anxiety Disorders

Tourette Syndrome. Gilles De La Tourette Syndrome

Parenting

Abstract

Voici la nouvelle édition revue et mise à jour de ce bestseller de Benoit Hammarrenger pour mieux comprendre l?opposition et les comportements difficiles des enfants de 4 à 12 ans. Le neuropsychologue y communique son expertise de manière simple et accessible, car selon lui : « les parents et les intervenants seront nettement plus efficaces s?ils parviennent à cibler les causes sous-jacentes aux manifestations d?opposition du jeune et à intervenir à la source du comportement ».

Selon Benoit, l?opposition est souvent un symptôme, une manifestation visible (et parfois difficile à comprendre) de quelque chose d?autre qui ne va pas. Ainsi, dans bien des cas, elle émerge de facteurs présents dans l?environnement, sur lesquels il est possible d?agir. Il explique comment, en s?attardant plus précisément au développement du cerveau, aux styles d?autorité, aux conflits familiaux, à l?anxiété, au TDAH, au syndrome de Gilles de la Tourette et à la douance, entre autres thèmes abordés. Des interventions spécifiques, ciblant les causes réelles des comportements d?opposition, sont ensuite détaillées.

ISBN

9782925213260

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CD 900 HAM 2023

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Alternate Title

Building social relationships 3

Author

Bellini, Scott

Place of Publication

Bloomington, IN

Publisher

Professional Development Solutions in Autism Publishing

Publication Date

2023

Physical Description

Paperback: 328 pages

Series

Building social relationships

Subject

Autism Spectrum Disorder (includes Asperger Syndrome)

Autism

Social Skills

Relationships

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Child Social Behaviour

Abstract

The Award-Winning Building Social Relationships (BSR) Book is Back and Better than Ever!

BSR-3 is a treasure trove of information and resources. The book contains over 40 instructional strategies, and the appendices alone contain over 50 pages of practical materials, including session plans and assessment tools. BSR-3 also includes a revised version of the Autism Social Skills Profile (ASSP-2), a progress monitoring instrument designed to measure social competence in youth with autism. BSR-3 also contains information on the manualized version of the BSR program and the newly developed ASSP-2 scoring guide to assist with implementation, scoring, and interpretation of the instrument

The BSR program was created to address the need for effective social skills programming. The BSR program is a systematic social skills program that addresses both social-cognitive processing and social skill performance. The BSR-3 book provides readers with a conceptual framework that will improve their understanding of social functioning in youth with autism and other social challenges. The book will teach readers how to assess and teach social skills and activate social-cognitive processing in both children and adolescents.

Many parents are tremendously concerned about their child's social functioning and their future quality of life. They see their children struggling to build and maintain social relationships and experiencing peer failure, rejection, and relentless bullying on a regular basis. Most importantly, they see their children dealing with intense social anxiety, depression, and social isolation. Unfortunately, social skill interventions are often designed merely as a reaction to problem behaviors. This often results in parents and practitioners "chasing" problem behaviors while failing to systematically teach social skills. Now, more than ever, our field and, more importantly, our children are in desperate need of effective social skills programing. BSR-3 will guide readers on the path to better social skills programming and improved social outcomes for youth with autism and other social challenges.

ISBN

9798872254096

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

FM 272 BEL 2023

Copies

Author

Delahooke, Mona

Edition

First edition

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Harper Wave

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover : 343 pages

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dr. Delahooke offers a radical new approach to parenting based on her clinical experience as well as the most recent research in neuroscience and child psychology. Instead of a top-down approach to behavior that focuses on the thinking brain, she calls for a bottom-up approach that considers the essential role of the entire nervous system, which produces children's feelings and behaviors.

When we begin to understand the biology beneath the behavior, suggests Dr. Delahooke, we give our children the resources they need to grow and thrive?and we give ourselves the gift of a happier, more connected relationship with them. Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential ?co-regulation? children need.

When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

ISBN

9780063061316

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 DEL 2022

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Author

Tompkins, Michael A.

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

Instant Help Books

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Paperback; 178p.

Subject

Anxiety

Depression

Young Adults-Emotions

Young Adults-Self-Help

Abstract

In The Anxiety and Depression Workbook for Teens, you'll find straightforward and easy-to-implement cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) skills to help you stay one step ahead of your symptoms, connect with friends, try new things, bounce back from setbacks, and start feeling better right away. You'll learn all about where your symptoms come from, how to identify situations that can make your symptoms worse, and how to break the thinking habits that keep you feeling stuck in life.

ISBN

9781684039197

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH CD 420 TOM 2022

Copies

Author

Hammarrenger, Benoit

Place of Publication

TBD

Publisher

Editions Midi trente

Publication Date

2022

Subject

Parenting

Abstract

Dans le cadre de sa pratique comme psychologue et neuropsychologue, Benoît Hammarrenger rencontre souvent des parents qui souhaitent améliorer leurs relations avec leurs enfants et leurs adolescents. Ceux-ci lui racontent alors toutes sortes de situations marquées par des crises, de l'opposition, de la tristesse, de l'anxiété ou de la colère, mais aussi par leur propre sentiment d'impuissance en regard de la distance qu'ils voient s'installer entre les membres de la famille. Or, au fil des ans, Benoît a observé qu'une constante se dégage de toutes les situations de détresse familiale. Cette constante, c'est le besoin de cultiver une meilleure communication, c'est-à-dire une communication profonde et authentique, au-delà des mots, là où se jouent les vrais enjeux. Selon lui, il existe sept clés essentielles à l'établissement d'une communication saine et enrichissante dans la famille :

- Être à l'écoute des émotions des jeunes et se placer en synchronie avec eux

- Laisser une place à la colère en montrant qu'il s'agit d'une émotion légitime

- Cultiver l'empathie et l'esprit d'équipe entre frères et soeurs

- Installer une autorité parentale légitime, que les enfants auront envie de suivre

- Aider les jeunes à mieux connaître leurs parents pour consolider leur lien avec eux

- Composer avec les enjeux spécifiques de l'adolescence

- Tenter de comprendre ce que le jeune vit et cherche vraiment à exprimer, alors que ses habiletés de communication sont encore en construction.

Dans ce nouveau livre accessible et teinté d'humour, Benoît aide les parents à faire alliance avec leur jeune, à créer un climat sain dans la famille... et il en profite pour leur rappeler d'arrêter de parler de bière lorsque leur jeune, lui, parle d'ours

ISBN

9782925213147

Language

French

Material Type

Book

Call Number

GK 600 HAM 2022

Copies

Author

Mannix, Darlene

Edition

3rd ed.

Place of Publication

San Francisco, CA

Publisher

Jossey-Bass

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Softcover: 444 p.; ill.

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Relationships

Social Skills

Learning Differences. Learning Disabilities

Abstract

In the newly revised Third Edition of Life Skills Activities for Secondary Students with Special Needs, teacher and author Darlene Mannix delivers a unique collection of over 160 updated activity sheets with related exercises, discussion questions, and evaluation suggestions to help students gain basic skills necessary for independence and success. Each activity sheet focuses on a specific skill in a real-world context and includes teacher directions for objectives, introduction, optional extension activities, and assessment methods. This crucial book includes:

-Activity sheets and corresponding introductions in a wide variety of critical life skills such as interpersonal, communication, academic and school, practical living, and more

-Coverage of leisure activities and the importance of finding fulfilling hobbies and pastimes

-Tools to help students build their self awareness and understand their strengths and weaknesses

Perfect for special educators, general education teachers, school counselors, and psychologists, Life Skills Activities for Secondary Students with Special Needs will also earn a place in the libraries of other professionals working with special needs children, as well as the parents of those children.

ISBN

9781119827429

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

CF 110 MAN 2022

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Author

Bowers, Lydia

Muñoz, Isabel

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover

Series

We Say What's Okay

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

Asking for permission is a key foundation of consent. We Ask Permission builds children?s social and emotional skills and helps with teaching boundaries by encouraging children to look for body language cues and by asking before hugging or touching others.

The third book in the We Say What?s Okay series, We Ask Permission follows Jovan as he learns to ask permission and become a body language detective. Using the book as a read-aloud, educators and families can model the language Jovan?s teachers use to support children as they learn to look for body language cues and respect the personal boundaries of others. The author, who hosts workshops and trainings on teaching boundaries and consent for families and early childhood educators around the country, offers additional activities in the back of the book.

Digital content includes a song from Peaceful Schools with downloadable audio files and sheet music.

ISBN

9781631986758

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 BOW 2022b

Copies

Author

Bowers, Lydia

Muñoz, Isabela [ill.]

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover

Series

We Say What's Okay

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

Accepting no for an answer is a key foundation of consent. We Accept No builds children?s social and emotional skills and helps teach them how to ask for permission, how to respect no, and how to handle rejection.

The fourth book in the We Say What?s Okay series, We Accept No follows Jamin, who is upset when his friend Zakiya doesn?t want to share a great big extra-squeezy hug at the end of the day. With the help of his teacher, Ms. H, Jamin learns why accepting no for an answer is important, what to do with his sad and angry feelings, and what else he can do when someone doesn?t want a hug. Using the book as a read-aloud, educators and families can model the language Jamin?s teacher uses to support him as he learns how to respect personal boundaries. The author, who hosts workshops and trainings on teaching boundaries and consent for families and early childhood educators around the country, offers additional activities in the back of the book.

Digital content includes a song from Peaceful Schools with downloadable audio files and sheet music.

ISBN

9781631987038

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 BOW 2022a

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Author

Burns, Ellen Flanagan

Bishop, Tracy Nishimura

Place of Publication

Washington, DC

Publisher

Magination Press

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover; 54 pages

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

Ellie feels like she is disappointing people if she says ?no.? One way or another, she thinks she is hurting someone?s feelings. Or she puts other people?s wants or needs in front of her own. With help from her parents and her teacher, Ellie finds the strength to be honest with people and do the right thing for herself by learning how to say ?no.?

This is a hopeful, helpful story for kids who need reassurance that they can be nice to others and be true to themselves.

ISBN

9781433839245

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 BUR 2022

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Author

Silverberg, Cory

Smyth, Fiona [ill.]

Publisher

Seven Stories Press

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Softcover; 432 pages

Subject

Sexuality

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Friendship

Dating

Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Issues

Pregnancy/Childbirth (general works). Obstetrics

Young Adults-Hygiene

Young Adults-Physical Development

Young Adults-Social Behaviour

Young Adults-Emotions

Abstract

You Know, Sex is the first thoroughly modern sex education book for every body, covering not only the big three of puberty?hormones, reproduction, and development?but also power, pleasure, and how to be a decent human being.

Centering young people?s experiences of pressures and joy, risk and reward, and confusion and discovery, there are chapters on body autonomy, gender, consent, pornography, masturbation, stigma, boundaries, harassment,

trauma, and a lot more.

The puberty, anatomy, and reproduction chapters include trans, nonbinary, and intersex bodies and experience, and all of it takes place in our contemporary, media-saturated world (aka, there?s lots of smart phones and social media).

Racially and ethnically diverse, inclusive of cross-disability experience, You Know, Sex is a book for every kind of young person and every kind of family?essential for kids, everyone who knows a kid, and anyone who has ever been a kid.

ISBN

9781644210802

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH GA 100 SIL 2022

Copies

Author

Negreiros, Juliana

Martinez, Katherine

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

Instant Help Books

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Paperback; 185p.

Subject

Anxiety

Young Adults-Self-Help

Abstract

In this friendly guide just for teens, you'll gain a greater understanding of how uncertainty can trigger feelings of anxiety, fear, worry, and self-doubt. Grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), the book offers ten skills-based tips to help you take smart risks, stop avoiding the things that make you feel uneasy and bounce back from challenges and setbacks. Most importantly, you'll learn to become more comfortable with uncertainty, and take valued actions toward creating positive change in your life and the world.

ISBN

9781684039371

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH CD 420 NEG 2022

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Alternate Title

I know you are lying

Author

Benedis-Grab, Daphne

Place of Publication

New York, NY

Publisher

Scholastic

Publication Date

2022

Subject

Child Social Behaviour

Abstract

This twisty middle school thriller is One of Us is Lying meets Pretty Little Liars for young readers.

There's been a theft at the middle school! Sasha's bag has been stolen from her locker.

The security cameras on the school's front entrance captured four students entering the building early. Present at the time of the crime, Maddie, Jack, Nora, and Henry become top suspects. Each of them has a reason to dislike Sasha. Each has something to hide. But which of them is responsible for the break-in? And can they figure out who the thief is before Sasha gets her revenge... on all of them.

Set during a single day of school, this is a gripping, twisty read about what happens when bullying goes too far, written by Daphne Benedis-Grab, author of I Know Your Secret.

ISBN

9781338793987

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GK 850 BEN 2022

Copies

Alternate Title

[Cognitive Behavioural Therapy anger management skills for teens with anxiety-driven anger]

Author

Dunn, Kelsey Torgerson

Place of Publication

Oakland, CA

Publisher

Instant Help Books

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Paperback; [168p.]

Subject

Anxiety

Anger

Young Adults-Emotions

Young Adults-Self-Help

Cognitive Therapy

Abstract

Using a proven-effective approach rooted in evidence-based cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), When Anxiety Makes You Angry will help you identify the anxiety beneath your anger, accept difficult emotions?rather than fighting or trying to ignore them?and learn healthy coping and self-regulation skills to help you find emotional balance. You?ll also discover how to ?train your brain? to stop and think before reacting; and how to choose calm over chaos when faced with the things that trigger your anxiety or anger.

ISBN

9781684038367

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

YOUTH CD 420 DUN 2022

Copies

Author

Bowers, Lydia

Muñoz, Isabel [ill.]

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing Inc.

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover; [np.]

Series

We say what's okay

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

Being in charge of one's body is a key foundation of consent. We Are in Charge of Our Bodies builds children's social and emotional skills and helps with setting physical boundaries.

ISBN

9781631987151

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 BOW 2022

Copies

Author

Bowers, Lydia

Muñoz, Isabel [ill.]

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing Inc.

Publication Date

2022

Physical Description

Hardcover; [np.]

Series

We say what's okay

Subject

Social Behaviour (includes boundaries)

Abstract

We Can Say No follows Zakiya and Sami as they learn that their bodies, including their hair, belong to them and that no one should touch them without permission. Using the book as a read-aloud, educators and families can model the language Zakiya and Sami's teacher uses to support them. The author, who hosts workshops and trainings on teaching boundaries and consent for families and early childhood educators around the country, offers additional activities in the back of the book.

ISBN

9781631987120

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR CF 110 BOW 2022 b

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Author

Verdick, Elizabeth

Heinlen, Marieka (Illustrator)

Place of Publication

Minneapolis, MN

Publisher

Free Spirit Publishing

Publication Date

2021

Physical Description

Paperback; illustrated; 40 pages

Series

Best Behavior Series

Subject

Child Behaviour

Child Development

Picture Books

Abstract

Children learn boundaries and safety when using screens, and fun things to do when screens are off. As important as screens are in our lives, we all need to unplug, especially children. This reassuring picture book offers children and families a starting point for limiting screen time and making the most of the time you have with your screens and without.

While screens can be helpful and fun, they are not intended for use all the time.The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends consistent limits on screen time for children, and adults should take steps to ensure online safety for kids. With straightforward suggestions, children will learn valuable information about online safety, setting healthy screen-time boundaries, and the importance of screen-free time.

With her trademark mix of empathy and encouragement, author Elizabeth Verdick offers appealing and healthy alternatives to using screens, as well as ways to stay safe and happy when online. Illustrator Marieka Heinlen?s active and vibrant illustrations of young children interacting with their caregivers and families bring the activities and suggestions for screen-free fun to life. A section for adults at the end of the book includes information on the effects of too much screen time and suggestions for establishing screen-time boundaries

Recommended for children aged 4-7.

ISBN

9781631985379

Language

English

Material Type

Book

Call Number

JUNIOR GK 800 VER 2021b